Huvanno said: That's how a child is destroyed?

Text/Yu fanno

Smart is the name of a good child, since coming out of the womb, he is known for his extremely high talent, excellent memory, and strong understanding, especially his vision and hearing are extremely agile, and at that time, a child can see things, he can almost do everything in detail, and he can see everything.

Since he was a child, he often gave people a feeling of being untute and new, and almost all the people who came into contact with him could not help but admire his extraordinary, and they were more optimistic about his future.

Why?

Because he is not only intelligent and intelligent, but also diligent and studious, four years old to learn poetry, six years old can write, the next writing is smooth, ingenious, nine years old has been able to debate with his father and grandfather about some important events in ancient and modern China and abroad, and every time can have their own views. Later, the discussion is more extensive, fast thinking, and sharp talk.

However, after the smart teenager, unexpectedly getting bigger and bigger, everyone suddenly found that just like Wang Anshi lamented that Fang Zhongyong could not be called what he had heard before, and then found that he had long been lost to everyone, the talent of wisdom seemed to have gradually disappeared.

Why?

Why does a person who was so intelligent as a child gradually become an ordinary person? Or rather, why does cleverness gradually become stupid?

If we take a closer look at some of the nodes in the growth process of smart people, we will find some clues.

When I was very young, I was actually carried by my grandfather, who had just retired from his position as a professor at the university. At that time, he was not only honest and intelligent, but also very well-behaved and sensible, and was deeply loved by his grandfather. So Grandpa intentionally or unintentionally took him around to travel, to visit famous mountains and rivers, to visit famous people, and Grandpa always brought wisdom with him when talking to different people.

In hindsight, that period was also the best period for smartest people to grow up. Grandpa said that every time Smart encountered something new, his eyes seemed to glow.

His change occurred after the age of six, when his grandfather died, and his parents took him and took him with him.

Then, mom and dad conveyed their first lesson about their children for being smart:

Mom and Dad were right.

This means that all decisions made by parents must be resolutely obeyed and maintained as children, and all the teachings of parents and children must be unswervingly and meticulously followed.

Earlier, Smart often questioned his parents' views and wanted to argue, but after each questioning was bound to be humiliated, or even scolded, the smart child gradually became more honest, and since then there has been no more blatant violation of his parents' words and deeds.

For example, when he was playing with other children, his mother urged him to follow the public and not to act too smart, otherwise there would be no playmates.

Second lesson: What the teacher says is right.

The gist is that all decisions made by the teacher must be resolutely obeyed and maintained as a student, and all the teacher's teachings must be followed unswervingly and meticulously as a student.

Wise, because of his previous experience of questioning his parents, he accepted this when the second teaching came. However, when the teachers themselves could not justify themselves, and even when several teachers contradicted each other, the wisdom was quickly perceived at the beginning, and often went crazy about it, but after trying to resist several times without success, he simply turned a blind eye, stopped thinking, and since then he has been willing to go with the flow.

The third teaching: Books are right, especially classics.

The gist is that all decisions made by the words of the classic masterpieces must be resolutely obeyed and maintained by the reader, and all the teachings of the classic masterpieces must be followed and meticulously by the reader.

Just like accepting the second one, he wisely accepted this one, but since then, he has become more and more numb and wooden, at least when he was a child, when his eyes lit up when he encountered something new, he never appeared again. And even the opposite. His eyes grew darker and dimmer, and reading became a completely mechanical coping. In this way, probably the more he reads, the more things he accumulates, and the more tired he becomes physically and mentally.

Of course there are many others. Overall, however, these three are the most significant.

Nowadays, it seems that these three points are probably the fundamental reasons why the wisdom of everyone is unknown. Or rather, three tight curses of intelligence that keep getting silly.

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