Once upon a time, there was an old man of the Song Dynasty, Sima Guang, who was incomparably intelligent from childhood, who did not say a lot of books, and even saved people with ease and comfort.
The image of a young genius jumped on the paper, indeed, when countless people were crying for their fathers and mothers, and smarter people went to call adults, the only Sima Guang, without a word, picked up the stone and broke the water tank, and the friend lived!
(Sima Guang saves people)
At that time, Sima Guang was seven years old, just in the first grade of primary school!
Most people will say how smart this kid is, but let's look at the canonical evaluation, and we're continuing.
Guangsheng was seven years old, awe-inspiring as an adult, heard about "Zuo Shi Chunqiu", loved it, and retired to his family, which was his big finger. I can't read the book in my hand, until I don't know hunger, thirst, cold and heat. The children played in the court, and one child climbed the urn, fell into the water, and all the people abandoned, and the light held the stone to hit the urn, broke it, and the water burst, and the child had to live.
In the evaluation of the history, this Sima Guang was already like a little adult when he was seven years old.
The favorite thing is to listen to "Zuo Shi Chunqiu", not only listening to but also thinking, thinking, but also interpreting with his family, Sima Guang, who reads history books every day, has more experience than countless children.
Today, many people like to tell that reading is useless, and after this argument, there are countless people who have exhausted their family wealth for the school district, just so that their children will not lose at the starting line.
(School District Room and Learning)
But is this starting line only in school? NONO, more at home, in words and deeds, in the atmosphere!
Today I can brag here, through bragging, harvesting a gold salary in January like a royalty, in fact, from the habit is OK.
To put it bluntly, at the age of seven, he read through the text "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" at the age of ten, read the general history of the world and the general history of China at the age of eleven, and later read everything, incidentally playing Go and kicking football.
According to my mother, this baby, except for the books she studied, doesn't read anything.
Hey, not a bully, but still use their talents to realize the realization of knowledge, but also experience the dream of entrepreneurship.
People always wonder why there is a difference between people and people, and where the reason for this difference comes from.
It is really knowledge that changes destiny, and this changed destiny, there is a premise, you must know how to guide, how to instill, how to teach by example, how to learn correctly.
Pulling a little off-topic, the purpose is not to brag, but to say something about experience, now back to Sima Guang!
Indoor genius is well known to everyone, he experienced afterwards, it is also smooth sailing, think about it, a seven-year-old can read through the "Zuo's Spring and Autumn", but also can evaluate the child, this brain melon seed development is definitely different from ordinary people, different from ordinary people,In addition to IQ, more is the difference in thinking style.
Under the guidance of this different way of thinking, Sima Guang, who read a lot, was still under the leadership of his father, following his father's footsteps, all the way to and fro, seeing many famous mountains and rivers, and meeting many of his father's confidants and friends.
(Teaching by example)
Famous mountains and rivers are experiences, fathers and friends are nutrients, and knowledge is seeds!
A seed was planted, experience allowed him to grow, nutrients to make him thrive, and towering trees could certainly be expected.
From this, what determines the height of life is not only IQ, but also experience and the teachings of elders.
IQ determines the offline, experience determines the middle game, and teaching determines the upper line.
Most of the bear children who grow crooked, many of them have problems with the teachings.
In this way, accompanied by intelligence, experience, and teachings, Sima Guang grew up to the age of nineteen, and in one fell swoop, he became a senior scholar in the high school, and since then he has transformed into a successor of the eunuch family and became a civil servant of the Great Song Dynasty.
Then there is the life of the eunuch who has been in the four dynasties and has been ups and downs.
Along the way, Sima Guang left behind glorious political achievements, many famous articles, but all of them were not as important as the imperial book "Zizhi Tongjian".
At that time, the Song Dynasty was repeatedly defeated in external wars, and internally it was poor and weak, and it was urgent to get rid of the old cloth and change the pattern.
Everyone knew that they had to change, but one faction and one proposition, the differences between Sima Guang and Wang Anshi were almost irreconcilable, so the change became a party struggle, which lasted for decades, and the intensity was constantly escalating, and in the end, the people, the emperor, and the officials were at a loss!
(Northern Song Dynasty)
Faced with a difficult situation, Sima Guang saw that his propositions were not adopted, and he was also crisp!
Directly proposed a foreign assignment, and finally even from the position of deputy envoy of the Privy Council, he devoted himself to learning and did not ask about the government. Retreated to Luoyang to repair the book, fifteen years of spring and heat, the Emperor of the Kuang dynasty book "Zizhi Tongjian" came out. The 294-volume, 3 million-word Zizhi Tongjian, which lasted from the Spring and Autumn Warring States to the establishment of the Song Dynasty, stretched from 1362 years of Chinese historical wisdom, gathered in it.
According to Sima Guang's own words: "The subject is paralyzed, his eyes are faint, his teeth are few, and his consciousness is decayed. The energy of the subject is exhausted in this book - "Jin ZiZhi Tong Jian Table"
Sima Guang worked hard for this set of books, almost draining his life, and two years after the book was written, Sima Guang died for a long time!
Sima Guang, who had gone to YuhuaXian, had gone, and the Zizhi Tongjian had appeared.
In countless subsequent dynasties, the emperor's desk must have the Zizhi Tongjian on his desk.
As for the common people, it is better to read it, but the emperor still reads this book of politics, and the book of wisdom is better.
As a result, a small number of people who held the highest position of power became Sima Guang's audience. However, today's times are different, as long as there is a heart and a will, everyone can read the Zizhi Tongjian.
(Book of Kings)
Today I will talk about the first story of this Zizhi Tongjian, a story of choice and opportunity.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, zhao qing's family in the Jin dynasty, the strict father, was thinking hard, and the questions he pondered were also very simple.
His two sons, Zhao Bolu (big) and Zhao Wuxi (small), are very good and talented, but who inherits the throne better?
Thinking and thinking, Zhao Jianzi decided to come up with a question.
So he wrote his usual words and deeds on two bamboo tablets, and the two sons were impartial, one for each person.
And told you, go back and take a good look, remember, don't lose it, I will check it at any time!
However, this is an exam that lasts for three years.
I don't know that day, Zhao Jianzi, who suddenly remembered it, asked about this matter, so he found two sons to ask about the content of Zhu Jianzi.
Don't ask don't know, ask the contrast cute.
The eldest son, Belu, did not know three questions, and even threw away the bamboo without a trace,
The younger son asked sanmen Qing without a shirt, and even Zhu Jian was kept close to his sleeve.
(Bamboo Jane and Exam)
Well, at the end of the exam, which lasted for three years, the younger son Zhao Wuxi won the victory and was made the heir.
This Rausch sub-thing tells us that to be a person who is always ready, the opportunity will be closer to you, it seems to be almost like this.
But is this true?
In fact, in this matter, Zhu Jian is not a prop for the exam, but a tool for comparing the heart.
Than the heart to the heart, than the bamboo Jane, but than who is more patient, more careful, more ruthless.
What is bamboo Jane, everyone knows, in fact, this thing with the body, it is very inconvenient, large and small and few words. But no normal person will carry it, and it is reasonable not to bring it. From this, it is not the bamboo belt that is not brought, but the words of exhortation above.
What is the most afraid of doing things, Grandpa Mao said, the word most afraid of seriousness.
In this matter, the old father Zhao Jianzi was careful.
As the two sons of the gongzi, there are many staff members below, and the wisdom has nothing to say, even if the gongzi is not smart, they cannot be unwise.
So why is this happening!
There are reasons for the conspiracy.
First: Zhao Jianzi deliberately spent three years to see who was more patient, this is the imperial heart technique, what he saw was that the son cared more, and so on, those who forgot about it.
Second: use the content on the bamboo jane to test their children, who will memorize the bamboo jane, indicating who is more sensible.
As for Zhao Wuxi, he not only memorized the bamboo Jane, but even took it out, which was not a necessary condition at that moment, but let himself be extra points.
It can be seen that this Zhao Wuxi is more attentive, and he also understands his father's thoughts better, and he knows what he wants to do!
(Zhao Jianzi)
There are reasons for the vulva.
The so-called knowing oneself and knowing the other will not be destroyed in a hundred battles is this truth.
Second: Zhao Bolu's bamboo jane is likely to be stolen by his brother Zhao Wuxi.
The reason is simple, vying for power and seizing the throne, and doing everything to the extreme, which can also explain why Zhao Bolu can't even memorize the words on the bamboo jane, the reason can only be that he got the bamboo jane not long ago, the bamboo jane disappeared. At that time, even if he memorized it, after several years of waiting, Zhao Bolu did not pay attention to it, and finally forgot.
Third: Zhao Bolu's IQ and emotional intelligence are not enough, IQ, he can't understand his father's plan, he thinks that Zhu Jian lost three years without asking, it is this matter is not important, emotional intelligence, he does not understand his brother's careful thinking.
Finally, there is also the most critical point, which is Zhao Jianzi.
Choosing an heir is a very critical matter, Zhu Jian is an examination question, then Zhao Jianzi will definitely pay attention to it, he will secretly observe his sons, and send someone to investigate.
After the investigation, Zhao Jianzi found that his younger son was not only fully prepared, but also made his eldest brother suffer through means, and he could not say anything bitter.
At this time, will Zhao Jianzi expose Zhao Wuxi?
The answer is no, for simple reasons!
First of all: Zhao Wuxi is more attentive to this matter and more fully prepared, which is an attitude of patience.
Secondly: even if Zhao Wuxi used means in this matter, this careful planning and meticulous thinking were all incomparable to Zhao Boru, which was a wrist and a cruel heart.
Finally: when Zhao Wuxi was in the hands of victory, he still did not forget to take the bamboo on his body, in order to ensure that nothing was wrong, this was careful in action.
We can't look at this problem with the concept of ordinary people, we should change to the perspective of politicians, in this matter, Zhao Wuxian has a hearty attitude, acts carefully, has clever means, and even if the intention is not correct, is it important at that moment?
It can be seen from this that the so-called foolproof preparation is never to take the bamboo to read, but to think with the heart, remember with attitude, and strive by means.
Most people do not understand the overall situation from a high position, so they can only become losers, and this is the reason why Sima Guang puts Zhao Jianzi's story first, because fighting and choosing is never a simple thing.
At that moment, using impeccable means to fill all loopholes is the practice of the superior.
So did you learn Zhao Jianzi's methods?
When faced with choices, is it really useful for you to use all your strength? The concept of full force should be well thought out, not only the workplace, shopping malls, officialdom, this can be used!