For boys, which is more important, the first kiss or the first night? 】
I don't know why, but I was suddenly curious.
For this topic, it is necessary for the boys to answer.
So I sent a small assistant to pick out three boys from the company and conduct interviews.
During the interview, they were once loveless and wanted to run away. Helplessly, I and other colleagues have locked the only exit...
Well, without further ado, let's get to the point right away—
老A
I think ha, the first kiss is more important.
For most boys, the meaning of the word "get" is far greater than "like", but for me, who has been addicted to novels and movies since childhood, the spiritual sense of belonging and the ambiguous pink atmosphere are far greater than the matter of getting each other itself.
Steaks without sea salt are not delicious, fries without ketchup lack souls, beds without ambiguity and sense of belonging, and also seem boring.
My first kiss was in my freshman year of high school, and the object was a soft and cute girl, and I was one head taller than her. That day, the 3rd month of our underground love affair, I got angry about something and asked her out in the woods during my lunch break.
I remember it was spring, the wind was a little strong, and she kept her hands covering her bangs.
I smelled the shampoo on her head, with a girlish sweet scent.
She said she knew she was wrong and shouldn't have carried me home from school with the other boys.
Maybe now it seems that this is nothing at all, but in that special period of ignorance, it is already very serious for our pure paper feelings.
Everyone was resting in the classroom, and the grove was just the two of us. I pretended to be very serious, trying to make her understand that you are mine and can only be mine. Thinking about it, it's really silly...
We looked at each other for a while, and my heart suddenly thumped, and I couldn't hold back and kissed her.
I vaguely remember that her mouth was very soft and sweet, like a marshmallow that was about to melt.
She didn't expect me to kiss me suddenly, so she resisted and pushed me with her hand. Hahaha, in short, the first kiss, we were both a little hasty, especially me, I felt that my heart was about to jump to the throat.
We broke up in our sophomore year and she fell in love with someone else.
It wasn't until the moment she turned away that I understood that neither men nor women could keep a person through a kiss, or even a night.
Whether that person will choose to stay or not, in the final analysis, is still in love or not.
Perhaps what really matters is that the fifteen or sixteen-year-old like, the age when the love sinus first opened, the heartbeat and ignorance that met the fate of the first time, and at that age, the most advanced way to express liking, is kissing.
Old B
This question I will.
For me, the first night is more important, why, you ask? That is, compared to the first kiss, the first night is deeper (laughs)
My first love and I were high school classmates.
We were both fun-loving personalities, and I remember that it was a weekend, and a bunch of us went out to party until late, and after the show, I sent her back. By then, it was very late, and we both held hands and walked very slowly, very slowly, and I could feel that she, like me, didn't want to go home very much.
I asked her, do you want to go to the Internet café? She shook her head. Want to play electric? She shook her head again.
She looked at me, and I could see the answer in her wet eyes, but I was ashamed to say it.
The hotel we were looking for was very broken, not even a toilet, after all, we didn't have any money in our hands. Thinking about it now, I really wronged her.
I forgot about the specific process, you don't have to look at me with that kind of look, even if you remember I wouldn't say.
Anyway, it was the end of the panic, and it didn't feel like anything. Just remember the particularly special nervousness. When I got home, my mom asked me if I had a fever and blushed like a red-skinned duck.
When I touched it, it was really hot.
I texted her to ask if she was home, and she said yes.
After a while, she said, I was bleeding from underneath. I was startled and rushed to call her and ask what was wrong, did I do something wrong and hurt her? She whispered to me, are you stupid, girls will bleed for the first time...
Oh, that's right.
Later, we were in our junior year and broke up because her parents didn't agree.
Although now, I have changed several girlfriends, the technology in that area is becoming more and more mature. cough.
However, the most memorable thing is the first night!
Why? Maybe it's because it was the first time I saw the body of the opposite sex, I used to look at it on the computer... [Laughs]
More importantly, at that time, I often said to her, I will be responsible for you, I will marry you no matter what happens, as if it is easy to make a promise, and it is the kind that will not be broken until death.
However, the further we went, the more I dared not easily promise anything, because I knew in my heart that I could not do it at all.
Now that I think about it, compared to the first night, in fact, I miss the sixteen or seventeen-year-old, the fearless self.
Old C
I don't know why you tricked me, a single dog for 10,000 years, into coming in? Mockery in disguise?
In fact, I don't know what to choose, if I have to choose, or the first kiss.
Make an analogy. The first kiss is like a little white who has just entered the field, with novelty and excitement, trying to do a new job, during this period, all the feedback received is very novel for him.
So whether it's happy or sad, it's an unfiltered feeling. This feeling will make people in a state of excitement for a long time, and they are very excited and energetic.
The first night, on the other hand, is more like a major challenge that comes with the field on the basis of which it is already fully familiar.
Of course, this is also exciting, but this excitement is filtered, because before entering this field, it is already prepared. So, compared to the beginning, it must be a little inferior.
Aaaah, this is completely my personal thoughts, anyway, I don't understand, just talk about it.
Oh, and the photos help me take a better look...
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