Rural people may be more euphemistic, not like urban people, old husbands and wives also send flowers or something, for rural couples after 60, have long been accustomed to plain days, which is actually related to rural life, for a long time, farmers are worrying about basic life, the pursuit of family is not so high, the tacit understanding between ordinary couples in rural areas is also related to rural life, the most typical example is reflected in the old man who farms the land, basically as long as one carries a hoe, the other person knows which piece of land to work. In the rural areas of the post-80s and post-90s generations, the situation in the rural areas has changed to a certain extent.
The younger generations in the countryside no longer care about the matter of farming, and the impact of grain production on rural families is minimal, basically nothing, but whether there is money to spend at home is very important, affecting all aspects of family life, so farmers are more concerned about working to earn money. Mention of part-time work, there is a common situation in rural families that after farmers start a family, due to various reasons, there is no way to drag the family to the city, in order to be able to take into account the part-time work to earn money and home life, the rural father and son work more, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stay in the village, plant some land, with the baby, so as to maximize the income of the family.
Although this division of labor allows farmers to earn money, but the money earned is like flowing water, dynamic balance, really how much is saved is not much, farmers do not dare to delay, can only go out to work year after year. This has led to a very common phenomenon: rural separation is common, so what should women who stay at home want to do with their husbands? In fact, it is conceivable that rural left-behind women are not "idle" in the village, their lives are not very good, and some people count their days every day.
Watching her husband work, women staying in the village not only ensures the continuous economic resources of the family, but also ensures the stability of the family's life, but in fact, the women who stay in the village are not as strong as they seem. Among all the factors, what they are most worried about is the situation of their husbands outside, "someone in the village was injured in the factory, and his fingers were cut off twice", "someone fell off the shelf, his leg was broken, and he fell into a lame problem", which is not uncommon in the village.
In addition to taking care of the elderly and children, in their spare time, they will also think about whether the husband is safe to work outside, sometimes see where there is an accident on the TV, the first time in the heart to pray for the husband to be safe outside, usually in the village to stay in the village women is the main backbone of a family, but in the big matter, no husband is really not OK, such a day is not strong enough for the left-behind women who are not strong enough, it is considered "torment", counting the days are not exaggerated at all, and they look forward to the husband returning home early.
For rural families where fathers and sons go out to work, the adults in the family only have daughters-in-law and mother-in-law, the lack of people to mediate from them, the opportunity to make unpleasant trouble will be particularly much, whether the children will do homework first or watch TV first, whether the next quarter of the family's fields will continue to be planted, there are people in the village to do things, how much gift money is appropriate, in short, the big things and small things in the family may lead to different concepts of the two women. If another person has a bad temper and ends up arguing, the situation is even worse. Many migrant workers have a time when they need to call their mothers and daughters-in-law to mediate during their work outside the home. For the daughter-in-law, life is really not easy
The countryside in the world seems to be the same, and every village has some "sayings" that are popular, "the daughter-in-law of the Li family and the dogs in the village are close" "The daughters-in-law of the Zhang family have people from neighboring villages coming to their homes to help collect wheat, is there something wrong?" In addition, there are always some women in the village who are not too big to see the liveliness, and some things are spread with noses and eyes, and it is difficult for you to believe it or not. At this time, if you meet a mother-in-law who loves face and is easy to be instigated, add oil and vinegar to her husband, then the family will definitely be chickens flying and dogs jumping, and life will not be solid. In the end, if the husband is around, these things are gone, so from this point of view, they can finally come to this day, hoping that the husband can return as soon as possible.
Whether in the city or in the countryside, husband and wife are eager to be together, especially for young couples in the countryside, even if they spend more money in the city, they also hope that two people can be together, but the reality is that there are still many couples in the countryside who cannot be together for a long time, and it is a fact that women stay in the village, and such a situation may continue in the future, so farmers must also be mentally prepared and understand each other more. Take advantage of this time to be at home, spend more time with your family. What do you think about that? Welcome to leave a message, share, comment, so that more farmers can see.