For children when they were students, their minds were simple, and what they pursued was not fame and fortune, but a thin little award.
Every time a teacher gives a certificate to a student, it is a kind of recognition of the student by the teacher. After each award, the children will be very happy.
However, when the child receives too many awards, the father is worried. Recently, in Changsha, Hunan Province, a father promised his daughter a certificate of award for ten yuan, and when the daughter took out a thick stack of awards, the father immediately regretted it.
The father "rebukes the square", but is "routine" by the daughter
It is said that the daughter is the father's small cotton jacket, when this "small cotton jacket" does not cover the wind and rain, but routine the father, it is enough for the father to have a headache.
Xiaowen (pseudonym) found that the father in the video would give the child ten yuan every time he won an award.
Seeing this, Xiaowen remembered her award certificate and moved her "crooked mind" to her father. Subsequently, XiaoWen counted on her heart.
Xiaowen told her father what she saw in the video, saying that she was very envious of the children in the video.
When the father heard his daughter's words, he thought that his daughter could not get many awards, so he did not want to show weakness, and said very boldly: If you get an award, I will also give you ten yuan.
Finally waiting for this sentence, his plan succeeded. The daughter showed a very sly smile. Then, he hurried away.
One second the father was arrogant and dry, and the next second he regretted it
Looking at his daughter who suddenly ran away, the father was very confused. Just when her father was wondering, Xiaowen happily brought back her award. Looking at her father's stunned eyes, Xiaowen took the award certificate and counted them one by one in front of her father.
Looking at the award certificate held by his daughter, the father had a feeling of being deceived, and immediately regretted it. Listening to the numbers that kept coming out of her daughter's mouth, my father's face went black.
By rough estimates, my daughter received at least thirty or fifty awards. Ten dollars a sheet is three or five hundred dollars.
At the thought of this number, my father felt a pang of pain. Because I have saved up private money for a long time, there is not so much.
In other words, if you make good on your promise with your daughter, you will have to pay your private money. If you don't keep your promise, then your image in your daughter's heart will collapse.
On the one hand, it is his hard-earned private money, on the other hand, it is his image in his daughter's heart. Suddenly, my father was also caught in a dilemma.
One second the father was still very atmospheric, arrogant and dry, and the next second he regretted it. If you can choose again, I think the father will never agree to his daughter so easily.
The father's performance was directly called by netizens: Versailles
Then again, although the father paid a "painful price" for this, each award certificate is the daughter's success in learning, and looking at the award certificate held by the daughter, the father is still happy.
Although his father was reluctant, his expression of joy was already overflowing. This made many netizens say: "Get cheap and sell well, it is really Versailles." ”
There is no doubt that Xiaowen is also a "child of someone else's family". For Xiaowen's performance, I don't know how many parents will use it to educate their children.
Indeed, it is the pride of parents to have such a good child in the family. For many parents, if they have such excellent children at home, even if it is 100 yuan a piece, many parents will be very happy, right?
Children need encouragement, and progress needs recognition
For children in their student years, what they pursue is not fame and fortune, but the recognition and encouragement of teachers and parents.
The recognition and encouragement mentioned here is not blind recognition and encouragement to children. Rather, when the child progresses and succeeds, the child is appropriately recognized and encouraged.
If you blindly encourage your child, you will make it impossible for your child to recognize yourself, and the final result will only be counterproductive.
Someone once said that good children are encouraged. For many children, the motivation for their progress is to be encouraged by parents and teachers.
Giving timely encouragement to the child's strengths is a recognition of the child. In the young minds of children, it is a success to be recognized by teachers and parents.
After parents and teachers encourage children, when children want to be lazy, they will think of the encouragement of parents and teachers, so as to motivate themselves to become better and want to get encouragement from parents and teachers again.
Write at the end
Girls can come up with so many awards at once, which shows that they usually perform very well in school. Although I didn't see the girl's grades, I was definitely a "school bully".
The father in the video may think that his daughter only gives ten yuan for an award certificate, and her daughter can't get several awards a year, and she can't pay any money.
What he didn't expect was that his daughter would have so many awards and tearfully drained all his private money. But his daughter can have such an excellent performance, but also let him very happy.
This father's approach is actually worth learning from many people. It not only satisfies the psychology of the daughter to let the father "suffer losses", but also praises the daughter appropriately. Behind the seeming loss, it is full of wisdom.
Looking forward to jackie chan and hoping for a daughter to become a phoenix, this is almost all parents' expectations of their children. Children are not only the spiritual pillar of the family, but also the continuation of the life of parents.
For children, many parents have high hopes, and they hope that their regrets can be realized in their children.
However, the education of children must pay attention to methods. Because educating children is not achieved overnight, but a very long process.
If you were given this chance, would you "pit" your father like this?