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Dad came home tired after a day of work and wanted to sleep, but his 5-year-old son came up to him and asked:
"Dad, how much do you make from an hour of work?"
"What is this for, you ask?" Go play and go! ”
"I just want to know!"
"Okay, well, I can make $30 an hour."
"Dad, can you lend me $10?"
The father was a little irritable, he hoped that the child would quickly take a bath and go to sleep, and not to bother him again, and the child went back to his room with a helpless face.
After a while, the father felt that his attitude towards his son was a bit excessive, so he quickly took 10 yuan to his son.
The son happily took the money and drew a stack of crumpled change bills from under his quilt. Dad suddenly became angry again and asked, "Aren't you rich, why do you want money?" ”
"So it's just 30 yuan, Dad, I can buy you 1 hour, can you play with me?"
Seeing this story here, I think, this dad must have been stunned...
Even if fathers often work overtime and have no time to accompany their children, children are still very eager to have the company of their fathers, but in real life, how many fathers are absent-minded and absent-minded?
You know, we accompany the child may be a while after work, but for the child, it is his whole day, he is looking forward to his father's work, but also looking forward to a whole day.
Studies have shown that boys who lack paternal love are more likely to develop violent tendencies, join gangs, and get into trouble; girls who lack paternal love are more likely to have low self-esteem, have sex earlier, be despised, and cannot continue their studies.
Do we really not have time to spend with our children? Maybe you will say that we are busy with endless work, endless classes, endless meetings, and endless errands.
It is true that after a busy day, when we come home, we are so tired that we just want to rest for a while, but this cannot be a reason for us not to bring a baby, because the position of a good father in educating children is indispensable.
I have a deep understanding of this, educating children is not only the mother's business, the father's responsibility and love, the mother can never replace.
Dad does not necessarily need how high the social status, to understand a lot, in order to be a good father, in the eyes of children, the image of the father is great.
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The research results of the Peruvian University in the United States show that children raised by men have high IQs, they have better grades in school, and they are more likely to succeed in society.
We can improve the quality of parent-child companionship within a few hours of returning home and help children grow better.
1. Take the child to accompany the mother to the kitchen
Many people will think that cooking is a matter for mothers, in fact, fathers take children to accompany their mothers to the kitchen, lay hands, chat, and teach children to respect women, which children will slowly realize.
I know many families can't do it, but it's important for children to see that it's important to spend time with loved ones.
2. Put down your body and play games with your children
It is not difficult to find that children not only like to play with interested children, but also prefer to play with their fathers. If the father is willing to put down the mobile phone, put down the identity of the father and play with the child, the child will be very happy.
In fact, whether we are wholeheartedly accompanying the child, the child is capable of feeling it.
3. Tell stories to your children
Children love to listen to their fathers tell stories, whether it is a story of their father's childhood or life, or some stories about father and son.
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You come, I am Midsummer Scholars, the mother of a boy who is almost 5 years old, who has not read books in ten years after graduation, because of children, I pick up books again.
Here, there is no lofty parenting theory, just some sincere sharing since I became a mother; the new mother, very ignorant, every stroke, is an account of the past self, and I do not regularly recommend good books and good things that I think are reliable, waiting for you.
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