There is a saying: "You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry." ”
When a person is impatient, he often can't do anything well, and he may disrupt all the things he does in the hectic chaos.
Many things, can not come in a hurry, only slowly, will be effective, will not be in vain.
Although fast is efficiency, slow is wisdom, and from ancient times to the present, those who are really powerful have never been in a hurry.
1, do not rush, calm down
The winners who laugh to the end are often those who can hold their breath.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Shu and Wei fought each other. In the First World War of Wuzhangyuan, the Shu army came from afar, and the transportation of grain and grass was inconvenient.
At that time, Zhuge Liang was plagued by illness, and he knew that the war had been dragging on for a long time and was anxious to make a quick decision.
Sima Yi saw through this and allowed the Shu army to shout and scold in front of the battle, just closing the camp door.
Zhuge Liang had another plan, and he sent Sima Yi a woman's tunic.
It was intended to mock Sima Yi: "Hiding in the city and not daring to fight, like a woman, what a good man!" ”
Sima Yi was still unmoved, and even put the tunic he had sent on his body, laughing at Zhuge Liang's "generous gift".
On the Wuzhang Plain, the two armies of Shu and Wei confronted each other for 100 days, until Zhuge Liang became ill and died of illness in the army.
The Shu army retreated without a fight, and Sima Yi effortlessly eliminated his fierce enemy.
Sima Yi killed Zhuge Liang, and Shunshi replaced the Cao Wei regime.
The Three Kingdoms, which were full of heroes, finally let the Sima family take charge of the world.
Walk on the road of life, don't let others disrupt your rhythm.
Calm down and don't worry.
When your opponent shows his flaws, that's the time for you to succeed.
2, there are things to do slowly, think twice
The old ancestor had a saying: "The emperor is not in a hurry, the eunuch is in a hurry." ”
The parties are not in a hurry, and the people next to them are anxious, and such a situation often occurs in life.
Many people who do things are often more anxious than those who arrange work, and there is a chaos of "layer by layer".
For example, a large enterprise, the head office requires that some kind of data be reported in May,
The head of the branch asked the clerk to report the data in April.
Clerks have to collaborate with people and report data in March.
The result? The data for March and the data for May are very different and are all wrong data.
Many things, impatience is useless, it is better to do it slowly, according to the requirements of time, step by step to do a good job, on the line.
Like to work "rush forward", in fact, it reflects a person's ability to have a problem,
That is, there is no certainty about the results of doing things for oneself, or there is an uneasy attitude towards the people around you.
A simple thing, you do in a hurry, you will make mistakes in the rush, and it will make people angry in the rush.
The really powerful person has something to do slowly, that is, others chase him to do it quickly, and he still does it unhurriedly.
He works slowly, and also works seriously, and he has "known in his heart" the results of things, and has always been in the hands of victory.
3, really powerful people, do not easily change the runway
With strong perseverance, creativity also arises.
To burn the water to 212 degrees Fahrenheit, the water can become water vapor.
Whether it is 200 degrees or 210 degrees, water can not become water vapor, in order to obtain water vapor, you must heat the water to boiling.
The machine that propels the train forward is powered by water vapor, and the warm water cannot move anything half a step.
Many people want to replace the boiling water that pushes the train with warm water or water that is about to boil, but the train does not even move, which makes them very confused.
Warm water, can not drive the train, the same reason, people who have no passion for work can not drive the train of life, such people are doomed to achieve nothing.
Everyone should have strong perseverance.
Without this ability, it is like water that can never boil, and it is impossible to drive the train of life forward.
Perseverance can overcome everything, no matter how long it takes and how much it costs, people can use their perseverance to succeed.
A person who often gives up halfway is very difficult to succeed.
Not in a hurry, does not mean that you do not care, but have a calm heart,
Not being in a hurry does not mean not being nervous, but having a calm attitude.
A slow beat is not to be left behind, but to find a shortcut to solve the problem.
Therefore, a life that is not in a hurry seems to be slow, but it is actually fast.