A wise woman, clear eyes, gentle and kind.
In friendship, she knows how to compare hearts to hearts and not to talk about people behind her back;
In love, she knows how to trust completely and not to suspect betrayal;
In family affection, she knows how to be filial and grateful, and does not do things that cannot be filial piety.
Smart women can figure out their "do and don't do" in friendship, love, and affection.
Nature can live transparently, like a fish in the water.
01.
In terms of friendship, it is indeed not easy to get a confidant.
However, many close friends in the boudoir have fallen out of their faces because of trivial matters, and there are not many cases of breaking up when they say that they will break up.
Are women really so fickle? This is not the case.
Take the entertainment industry, a pair of early girlfriends, they witnessed the beauty of friendship.
Little S and Aya have been close friends for many years, and they are partners who debuted at the same time.
However, after all these years, their friendship is still flawless and enviable.
In fact, Little S is notoriously "poisonous tongue".
Not only did he grin on the variety show and say that many female stars were bad, but he also half-jokingly mentioned others in the interview.
However, Little S never says bad things about Aya behind her back.
Even if two people have a competitive relationship in the early years, there will be no talking about people behind their backs.
That's because Little S knows how to compare hearts to hearts, and Aya does the same to her.
Smart women, even though they gossip occasionally, never do anything to hurt friendships.
They know in their hearts that who is the most important friendship, and naturally they will not do anything to hurt each other.
Therefore, it is not unreasonable that smart women can harvest good friendships.
They know how to compare hearts to hearts and treat each other with their sincerity and kindness.
In their concept of friendship, as long as the other party is recognized as a friend, they will naturally not talk about friends behind their backs.
Only in this way can friendship have firm trust and goodwill.
02.
As far as love is concerned, may one heart be won, and the white head will not be separated.
In love, the most important thing is "loyalty", especially for married couples.
No matter how much the fault is, as long as it does not touch the bottom line, there is room for turning.
Fidelity is not a choice, but the proper meaning of the couple.
A smart woman will not press her husband step by step, she will give the other party enough space.
Because you want each other's loyalty, the first point is to know how to trust each other.
However, many women feel that men just have to watch, otherwise they will have other thoughts.
Such a view misleads many people.
In love, it does not mean that if you get the heart of the other party, you get the whole of the other party.
Everyone has their own circle of life and also needs an independent space
Following the other person over and over again will only make him more and more tired.
So, smart women know how to keep a proper distance and treat feelings with a "let go" posture.
It is also this practice that men will be obsessed with women.
Men would rather see a woman with their own lives and choices than women who have been revolving around themselves.
Smart women face love and never do anything suspicious and betrayal.
She exchanges loyalty for loyalty, guards feelings, and manages feelings.
03.
In terms of family affection, it contains the most inseparable love between relatives and themselves.
Women, at a certain age, always have to be far away from home, far away from the haven of love, and face the unknown world.
When the bright lights of life come to mind, do you forget the way home?
Smart women, not so.
In their hearts, their relatives will always be their roots and their bottom line.
No matter how much they walk and see the most wonderful scenery, they will not forget the people at home.
You know, in this world, maybe friendship and love will abandon you, but family affection will not leave you.
They are your strongest backing and the ones who love you the most.
Girlfriend Xiao Zhou, despite the opposition of her family, left her hometown with her boyfriend.
Xiao Zhou's father was sad in his heart after a night of whiteheading, but there was not too much retention in his mouth.
After a few years, Xiao Zhou gradually felt the estrangement of her boyfriend.
It turned out that the boyfriend had a new love.
At that moment she remembered what her parents had said: "Think again, he is not such a reliable person." ”
Xiao Zhou had been out of touch with his parents for many years, but now he missed it very much.
After plucking up the courage to return home, her parents saw that she was also frightened, but still smiled and said: "Just come back, just come back." ”
At that time, Xiao Zhou truly understood that all the love and love in this world were inferior to those of his parents.
Because in the long years, they are the only ones who can wait for you.
Therefore, a smart woman will never hurt her dearest person.
For her, it is a matter of course to be grateful to her parents and filial piety to them.
Indeed, parents have given themselves a lot, even if they are old and old, they still do not forget to give themselves love and warmth.
Lao She said: "Those who have a mother are stable in their hearts." ”
A smart woman who knows how to cherish family affection.
Not only because I want to make my parents happy, but more often than not, I also give myself a love and courage.
All in all, the reason why a smart woman lives so well in this world is that she knows how to "do three things".