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Nowadays, the two sexes in today's society basically start from the WeChat chat between men and women, so this has become a very test of male friends' emotional intelligence and chat skills, after all, to tell the truth, if a man accidentally says the wrong thing, or if he can't talk about a few words, he will make people feel uncomfortable and upset.
So don't say that men want to develop the relationship between two people in depth, maybe men don't even have the opportunity to see the face of other girls, the other party has pulled men into the blacklist from the heart, so it can be seen that in the process of gender exchanges, learn to speak with high emotional intelligence, learn some chat skills, is a necessary skill for men to successfully catch up with women, after all, which people do not like to chat awkwardly, and a little carelessness is easy to fall into an embarrassing situation.
Especially when the two of you have known each other for a long time, the relationship between each other is not familiar with each other, often at this time, the decision between the two of you to chat is generally in the hands of other girls, if other girls want to chat with male friends, male friends not only can not refuse, but also to perform well.
However, once the girl does not want to talk to a male friend, the smart and high emotional intelligence of the man can not still plan to forcibly pull the girl to continue to talk. Especially when the two of you are chatting at the end, when the woman says to the male friend, "Let's talk next time", how the male friend replies to the woman is crucial.
In general, it is possible that stupid men with low emotional intelligence or slow brains will foolishly reply to women with a "yes". But if a man does respond to a woman that way, it's very likely that the two of you won't have another chance to chat. On the contrary, those male friends who have high emotional intelligence and are more intelligent and eye-catching, they reply to women's words, often can arouse the curiosity of the other party, which will make female friends want to continue to chat with themselves, and they also want to continue to develop with themselves.
After all, in the process of intersex communication and chat, replying to a person's message is also very exquisite, men must know how to lay the groundwork, to know how to leave some fantasies for women, so that women can't help but worry about themselves in their hearts, otherwise, this "next chat", they really don't know what year of the monkey is coming.
So in the relationship, whenever a woman says "talk next time", the high emotional intelligence man will not say "okay", but will answer like this!
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"You're tired today, so go to bed early, rest well, have a good night, and have a good dream!"
In real life, when a man likes a woman and wants to pursue each other, if the two of you just happen to be chatting late in the evening, when the girl sends this sentence "Next time talk about it" to the man, it may be because people are really sleepy, but they are embarrassed to tell the man directly, the two of you talk too late, you feel so sleepy, your eyelids are almost closed, and you really want to go to bed as soon as possible.
Women can only use this sentence to interrupt the chat of two people, whenever this time, male friends must know how to be eye-catching and clever, do not because they are not sleepy, and do not because they feel that they have not talked enough, they desperately pull women not to let her sleep, just take care of themselves have been chatting non-stop, originally wanted to show themselves well, but more self-defeating.
Since the girl feels sleepy and wants to go to bed and rest, it is better to go along with the girl's will, but it will make the girl feel that the man is very considerate and gentle, and can leave a gentleman's side for the girl. You can reply directly to the girl" Today is tired, then you go to bed early, rest well, good night, and have a good dream!" ”
I believe that after the girl listens, she will definitely feel that the man is particularly understanding, especially thinking about himself, then he will definitely give the man himself extra points, in order to get the good feelings of the girl to himself, then the man wants to find the girl to continue to chat with each other, or the in-depth development of the two people is definitely a breeze.
After all, to tell the truth, most of the female friends in the relationship will want a man who will really be considerate of himself, know how to care about himself, will think for himself, to be his other half, then men know that at this time, a word of concern for women, can definitely hit the woman's heart socket, and will also multiply the good feelings for men, then men naturally do not have to worry, women will not break contact with themselves from now on, no longer look for themselves to chat and talk.
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"It's okay, then you'll be busy with the things you're doing, and if you need help, come back to me."
In fact, in addition to the two of you chatting until late at night, when women feel sleepy and want to sleep, they will say "talk about it next time" to men, and when women suddenly have something to do in daily life, or when they temporarily receive some work to deal with, they will also use the sentence "Next time you have time to talk about it" to interrupt the chat with men.
Whenever this time comes, what a man with high emotional intelligence and intelligence has to do is to understand the fun, know how to give women time and space to deal with the things at hand, and wait until the woman finishes handling things and then continue to chat with herself. After all, imagine that when you are very busy, busy with the work or things at hand, there are other people to disturb yourself, pestering yourself to chat and talk, you will also feel that the other party is particularly annoying, and even get angry with the other party.
In the end, whether men or women are good, everyone hates the kind of people who are more ignorant and do not know how to think for each other's sake, obviously they are already very busy on hand, too busy to take care of each other, no time to reply to each other's messages, but this person has been talking non-stop, pestering himself, really no eye value. Maybe I originally still had a little good feeling for this person, so that the other party's divine operation, don't say anything good, it seems that only "disgust" and "hate" can be left.
Dear male friends, in the process of getting along with the sexes, we really have to have a little eye value, to learn to be smart and eye-catching, I often have to do at this time is to understand women, understand that women have something to deal with, thoughtfully tell women not to take care of themselves, first deal with the things at hand, if you need to help yourself or provide any help, you can come back to yourself, you will certainly be very happy to help.
So after the man and the woman say "It's okay, then you are busy with the things you have at hand, and then come to me where you need help" After the sentence, don't bother the woman anymore, and when the woman is busy with the things at hand, she will naturally take the initiative to talk to the man in turn.
Such a way of dealing with men not only reflects their gentle and considerate, gentlemanly side, but also shows their concern for women, which can definitely warm women, make women feel very warm, and leave a good impression in women's hearts, so as to attract women's interest in themselves.
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"Tomorrow or when you have time, you won't see me!"
Backstage once had a male fan friend send me a private message, I recognized a girl during a blind date, I was very satisfied with all aspects of this girl, I wanted to further develop with this girl, I asked me, want to know how to attract a woman's attention to herself, how to make him interested in himself?
How to say, in the process of intersex communication, if you want to attract the attention of a girl, if you want to make girls interested in yourself, then you must know how to give women hope and give women some hints, so as to attract women's attention and make women interested in themselves.
If in the process of men chatting with women, when women say to men, "Today is here, let's talk about it next time", in fact, it usually means two meanings, one meaning is that women feel that it is not interesting to chat with men, and they don't want to chat with men anymore. The other is that women really feel tired or sleepy, and today they will come here, not wanting to chat with men first.
Therefore, if men have no way to see women's minds, no way to figure out what women really think, and what they mean by what they say, but men still want to continue to keep in touch with women and want to try to see them further, then men might as well try to borrow the phrase "tomorrow or when you have time."
Don't look at this is just a simple sentence, in fact, this sentence is to give women a hope, give women a hint, hint that two people have the following, and the next opportunity to chat, of course, it is equivalent to men and women made an agreement, as long as women are not particularly disgusted with men, very hate men, basically most women will not refuse men's request.
In this way, men have won for themselves to chat with women more times, more opportunities to contact with each other, then it means that they can grasp women a little more, a little more can seize the opportunity of women's hearts, and then what men have to do is to prepare for their next chat with women, you can first inquire about women's interests, start from women's interests, think about some interesting topics, after all, women like to talk, will make themselves happy humorous men, but also can give women a kind of "heart has a sharp mind." "The feeling.
Maybe in real life, some single men are too wooden in personality, can't speak, or are too bookish for people, and their own face is too important, always feel that doing so, will they let themselves lose face, will they make themselves very humble?
However, don't forget, in the process of intersex communication, female friends can be more shy and reserved than male friends, male friends must be the active party, only the active two people will have a story, otherwise men want to wait for women to take the initiative for themselves, want to wait for women to take the initiative to "touch" themselves, to tell the truth until the flowers are thanked, may not be able to wait, and if women do not take the initiative, then the two of you will not miss?
So, just borrow this sentence to hint at women, this sentence is just foreshadowing for the next chat between the two of you, and speaking out can also give each other a chance to continue to understand deeply, and there is no loss for men.
The writer Ben Johnson once wrote that language can best expose a person, as long as you speak, I can understand you.
All in all, in the process of intersex communication, when a woman says to a man "talk again next time", the man with high emotional intelligence will not say "okay", but will know how to change other ways of replying, so that women always think about themselves and think of themselves.
Especially like the above three ways of replying, you can make women feel a warm heart, naturally will leave a good impression on men, have a good feeling for men, and even remember men. In fact, love is never an easy task.
Especially before the two people have established a relationship, men like a woman, want to pursue women, want to capture women's hearts is even more difficult things, men must learn some chat skills, learn some love skills, of course, must also understand the woman's voice-over to themselves, be a smart, high emotional intelligence, and talking man.
So when a woman says to herself, "Talk again next time", men can reply to women in the above ways. But let's say that every time I talk to a woman, the woman always says such things to herself, and the woman's attitude towards men is always very cold, always giving people a sense of distance.
Then it is equivalent to telling men very clearly that they really don't like men, have no interest in men, and have no feelings for men, then at this time men must understand, don't pestering women anymore, it is impossible to do it with women, don't do useless work anymore!
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