We all know the importance of good study habits for a child, so the current education attaches great importance to the daily life of the child
Habit-building. If the child is well-organized and serious about learning, most parents think that such a child is the one who has a good future, and it is possible to be admitted to the ideal university in the future.
But we know that even if families and schools are carefully cultivated, many children's habits are still very bad, including even small things such as sorting out school bags. Many children's school bags are like a small garbage dump, which contains everything, shredded paper, leftover snacks, toys, milk spilled in the bag, etc., which makes people can't bear to look at it directly.
Jiangsu: A woman opened her son's school bag and said bluntly that she couldn't stand it, and it was a mess. But seeing the child's learning goals written down impressively in the book, a burst of joy.
Boys' school bags are usually more messy. Recently, in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, Ms. Feng opened her son's school bag to help her son find a test paper, but she did not expect that her son's school bag was chaotic and subverted her imagination. Exam papers, books and shredded pieces of paper, and snack dregs are a mess that is worse than a dumpster. Facing her son, who is already in the fifth grade, Ms. Feng was about to get angry, but she did not expect that the scene she saw next made her can't help but laugh.
I saw that my son's tattered language book cover was impressively written with the words "The target is Tsinghua and Peking University". These few words are much more neat than my son's usual words, almost written in one stroke, and it seems that when he writes, he is very serious.
My son's learning since he was a child was not very good, nor was he very obedient, and Ms. Feng also made a lot of effort in learning. Usually, children do not study very hard, and Ms. Feng really did not expect that her son, who was only in the fifth grade, had such a lofty goal, which also made Ms. Feng very happy. Although as a parent, she also knows that this goal is too ambitious, Ms. Feng is still very happy to think that her son still has such ideals.
Messy school bags, ambitious goals, let netizens sigh, bluntly said: My son's school bag is also like this.
After Ms. Feng posted the video to the Network, she did not expect to cause heated discussion among netizens, and many netizens said that they seemed to see their sons.
Many mothers leave messages online: Exactly the same as my son's school bag.
There is also a teacher's message: boys' school bags are basically like this, and few are neatly arranged.
Some netizens also said: Don't look down on such children, children with messy school bags may not be out of the air. At that time, my school bag was also like this, and I was still admitted to the 985 University.
Of course, some people say: the school bag is messed up like this, learning is certainly not good, a look is a child who has been lost, and there is no good living and learning habits.
However, most people agree with the child's goal: it shows that the child still loves to learn in his heart, and there is a goal to be motivated, and we should encourage such a child.
Does messy school bags have anything to do with studying? It doesn't really matter.
In the face of this child's messy school bag, many people are worried that such a child will not learn very well. But as a teacher, I would like to say that there is really no connection between messy school bags and studying.
Many of the boys' school bags in my class are basically like this, but most of these children are learning very well. On the contrary, some girls' school bags are very clean and tidy, but they are not very good at studying. Boys' innate personality traits may not be good at these, nor do they care about these, for example, at home, most men do not clean up the housework, they may really think that it is not messy, do not have to clean up.
There is also writing, and most boys' writing is not as serious as girls' writing, but it does not affect them to become very playful children. Good habits in the usual sense are not suitable for every child, and boys may not be very good at these aspects by nature.
Conclusion:
We must strive to cultivate children's good learning and living habits, but not every child with a messy school bag is out of the ordinary. Boys' natural personalities may not be very interested in these, so we see that boys' school bags are very few neatly arranged. In the face of such a child, parents do not have to worry, as long as the child works hard, he can still be admitted to the ideal university.
When these boys grow up, nature will slowly get better, don't worry.