In the popular words of the moment, you are not a "sea king"; but to say that you are a responsible person, to be honest, I really did not see it.
I don't know if it's the prevalence of free love now, or whether young people are less interested in true love, and now it seems that a man who refuses the courtship of another girl when he has a girlfriend seems to have become responsible, and I really don't know whether to say that the world is getting worse or that this era is getting too fast.
I have a girlfriend, and isn't it a matter of course that I reject another girl?
In the words of Qian Liqun: people now do not need to deliberately cater to young people, nor do they need to deliberately go against the trend and be themselves!
Back to this question, when you have a girlfriend, it's only natural to refuse to pursue other girls. And now that you've been breaking up with your ex-girlfriend for a year, if you still have feelings for the girl you never forgot, go after her.
If you're just in a hurry to find a spare tire, you can go after her too.
Free love, a willing to fight a wish, how not too much, even if your initial idea is not so simple, just want to find a person to cushion the back, but in the end you will find that this person cushion, with you into the palace of marriage, and finally pad for a lifetime.
So, that's not a bad thing either.
Love is a thing that some people are more true and are not willing to settle for a lifetime; some people don't care, they just want to find someone to live a lifetime. It's all your own choice, it has nothing to do with right or wrong, only the right is not appropriate, regret is not regretted.
Some people can't erase their faces, thinking that it is a good horse that does not eat the grass, and finally missed it, and perhaps met better, good or bad, in the end it is fate.
After walking through thousands of mountains and rivers, you will find that until the moment of death, you will never know whether the person who sleeps with you will really accompany you to old age.
Thinking about this, you should naturally know whether you should chase the girl who chased you in the first place.
In my own experience, love this thing you don't want to think too long in the end, don't think too deeply, once you think far and deep, there will be too many concerns, feelings, you should enjoy the process, even if you are married, it is not the result, but the process.
As long as it is the moment of death, that is the result.
Knowing this, you know that loving someone is casual, don't think too deeply and think too far, so as not to hurt yourself and hurt others.
I remember a philosopher who said that whoever had forgotten it said: The most miserable people in the world are not those who don't understand anything, but those who know too much.
The more you understand, the more you have worries, the more you have worries, and what comes with them is trouble, and what goes with them is suffering.
I remember once liking a girl who had just come out of school and stepped into society, with a childish look on her face, two crooked dimples on her cheeks when she smiled, and her innocent eyes made it difficult for me to extricate myself.
At first I didn't even dare to say anything, but after she left, I asked for her WeChat from others, and then it was a six-month pursuit, chatting with her until late at night every night, talking about everything.
She hadn't even played with her friends at the time. Later, she agreed to play friends with me, provided that there was no excessive intimacy, and I agreed, at most by pulling her little hand and then hugging or something.
We went to the lake, we went to singing, we went to the movies, we went to Qingqing, I sent her books, I wrote letters to her, and I gave her pink leopard on her birthday.
But then, I thought about it too much, afraid that I wouldn't be able to give her a future I imagined, so I broke up.
I've never pursued a girl like that, and I've never broken up with a girl for that reason.
At that time, I understood that you can't think of everything about feelings, that is a scare. But it is precisely because of the depth of love that I will think about it.
Emotionally, no one dares to say that they have never left regrets in their lives.
The only thing that makes me happy is that she's getting better and better, much better than when she was stupid before. Knowing the world without being sophisticated, I think this is a state that many people are difficult to achieve.
In the relationship, I am never afraid that I have no so-called face, I like to pursue, love to confess, there is no face without face; how long to chase, how long to wait, depends on how deep I like you, and whether it is more appropriate.
Chasing a person backwards is no big deal, the real question is whether she is still willing to wait for you to chase her after three years.
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Author: Rosir, Workplace Internal Reference for New Youth. Concerned with the logic behind the development of things, optimistic pessimists. Pay attention to me and grind the knowledge to show you.