"We mediated 13 pairs in one day today, and the number of divorces has dropped significantly since the cooling-off period was in place." Introduction of the staff of the Marriage Registration Center in Donggang District. "With the cooling-off period, the situation of divorce due to a momentary impulse is largely avoided." It is understood that in the past year, there were 2,400 divorce applications in the two districts of Donggang District and Development Zone, and 1,057 divorces were actually filed.
"Go out to buy food, never only buy their own love to eat, I and the child followed behind him, he never asked us what we want to eat, the child will look at the eyes, you say I can't get on the fire!" 」 We don't say it, and he doesn't ask! The family hygiene does not know how to clean up..." Ms. Suo (pseudonym), who came to the divorce registry, held the child in one hand and wiped her tears with the other, and wanted to divorce. "Like this kind of quarrel that can still be quarreled here, it is usually in the head of anger, the two impulsive to divorce, this kind of we can also adjust, many well-thought-out, do not need our mediation." 」 Ms Lee, a mediator at the Donggang District Marriage Registration Centre, said.
It is reported that in the past year, the two districts of Donggang District and Economic Development Zone, a total of 2400 divorce applications, the actual divorce 1057, compared with 1423 actual divorces in 2020 and 1870 actual divorces in 2019, the number of divorces in 2021 decreased significantly. 30 days is a buffer zone that allows couples with strained relationships to take a step back and return from a tense relationship to a state of rationality.
"Two people can't get a license, they can't be willful, and they can't get married impulsively." We mediated 13 pairs today, some because of trivial matters at home, there is a problem, the woman does not say, let the other party guess, the man does not ask, feel that the other party is unreasonable, this type, that is, there is a problem with communication, the two sides are ineffective in communication, of course, there are other reasons that lead to the breakdown of the marriage, if you study before marriage, recognize in advance the responsibilities and obligations that both parties should fulfill in married life, should avoid a lot of emotional, impulsive decisions. Ms. Li said.
Before the implementation of the Civil Code, the divorce procedure in China was simple, resulting in many impulsive divorces without room for relaxation. The 30-day cooling-off period and the 30-day registration and issuance period (within thirty days after the expiration of the cooling-off period are the registration and certification period), which reduces the rash and impulsive divorces, and has a positive effect on stabilizing family relations and enhancing social stability.