How to protect our children

I saw such a message on the Internet, a child was bullied by classmates at school, the child who bullied his classmates had no goal, searched at will, found the target and began to carry out violence, and the child did not dare to resist.

In fact, just today a particularly infuriating thing happened, the senior students bully the lower grade children, the senior and the lower grade students happen to go to the physical education class together, when the teacher is busy directing the game, there are senior boys to call the lower grade boys to their side, the incident is very sudden, the senior students kicked to the child's crotch, the child cried to find the class teacher, said it hurt, the class teacher took to the hospital for examination, the hospital said to transfer immediately, after the transfer did the examination, the third transfer, the transfer will be operated, Later, through the teacher, I learned that the lower body was kicked and exploded. Whether such a cruel means is unintentional or deliberate, it has caused psychological shadows on the child

In fact, as a teacher, I know that such things are frequent, and sometimes I think, you teach children to be educated and polite, but some children are born with cruel and unkind nature, always bullying good students, good children, making them afraid and afraid in their hearts, what is the purpose of education? I often warn students not to make excessive jokes between classmates, and sometimes excessive jokes are also a kind of bullying in disguise, and all I can do is let them protect themselves and not bully others.

This kind of bullying often occurs by chance, they will look for weak and helpless targets, coax them with small favors, and then ask for money, goods, and even threats, and beatings.

Secondly, the perpetrator just wants to vent his inner cruelty, looking for children who look weak in all aspects to bully, they can get satisfaction from it, addiction, a deformed sense of accomplishment, so that they are constantly more brutal and numb.

In fact, there should be laws and regulations for minors, especially for the primary school stage, the family does not educate, the law to educate, from the source to start learning the law, inform the crime, the cost of making mistakes, is a punishment. No matter from the family, school, we have always stressed not to bully people, to protect ourselves, but no parents say, how to protect themselves, what behavior is bullying.