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Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

author:Chang'an loves entertainment in his hometown

In 2005, "Bright Sword" came out.

The 46-year-old Zhang Guangbei became popular all over the country with "Chu Yunfei".

Zhang Guangbei has always given people an image of a "tough guy",

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

"Lü Bu" in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is also a tough guy.

As everyone knows, under his hard appearance, there is a "soft" heart.

As the so-called "iron man tenderness", the way he and his stepmother can perfectly interpret this sentence.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

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Zhang Guangbei was born in 1959 and grew up in Beijing.

He was the youngest son in the family.

There are also 4 older brothers and sisters on it.

Zhang Guangbei's mother was in her 40s when she was born.

The mother who gave birth to a child at an advanced age was very weak and could not feed Zhang Guangbei.

The newborn Zhang Guangbei could only be fed by his family with a mouthful of paste.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Her frail mother couldn't go back to work.

The family can't make ends meet every day, and the family lives very poorly.

Children also know how to save money every day,

But at this time, Zhang Guangbei's mother was diagnosed with cancer.

Zhang Guangbei's father only has a salary of 80 yuan a month, and he has to support his family, treat his wife, and provide for his 4 children to go to school.

Every day after work, he had to take care of his wife who was sick in bed, and he did not dare to rest for a day.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

When I was in elementary school, the teacher found that Zhang Guangbei had a lot of artistic cells.

In particular, Zhang Guangbei is very talented in music.

The teacher suggested to Zhang Guangbei's father:

Accordions were fashionable in those days.

But Zhang Guangbei's father did not have extra wages to buy him an accordion.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Eating for the whole family is a problem, let alone learning art.

Zhang Guangbei did not complain about his father, he knew that his father was not easy.

Later, this matter was known to Zhang Guangbei's mother,

The mother was very heartbroken, and she felt that she was dragging down the child.

Mom told her husband:

"You must buy an accordion for your child, you can't delay your child because of our business, I have a pension after I die, don't worry."
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

At that time, Zhang Guangbei did not know what life and death were.

He only knew that his mother had been in poor health and did not know that her mother would die.

Again, he didn't know when his mother would be fine.

At the age of 12, Zhang Guangbei's mother's illness became more and more serious.

Not long after, Zhang Guangbei's mother died.

The older brothers and sisters hugged each other and cried together.

Zhang Guangbei was alone in the corner silently weeping.

After Mom left, Dad took the pension and bought him an accordion.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei did not live up to the expectations of his parents.

He's really musically talented and hardworking.

He was also selected by the CCTV Junior Choir.

Zhang Guangbei suddenly became a school celebrity.

Not only does he often appear at the school's large and small evenings, but also often appears on the CCTV stage.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

In junior high school, the cultural troupe noticed Zhang Guangbei.

After observing for a while, the people in the regiment felt that Zhang Guangbei was a good seedling.

So he proposed to his father the idea of inviting Zhang Guangbei to join the army.

Father nodded in agreement.

The year was 1976, Zhang Guangbei was 17 years old, and he was honorably a literary and artistic soldier.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

After becoming a literary and artistic soldier, Zhang Guangbei could still come back from time to time to see his father and brothers and sisters.

But within a few months, Zhang Guangbei was transferred to the North Sea Fleet.

This means that he has fewer and fewer vacations and fewer opportunities to return home.

My brothers and sisters also joined the work one after another, leaving my father alone at home.

Father is not in good health, there is not even a person to take care of him, for a long time, my father wants to find a wife to support each other.

As soon as this idea was proposed, it was opposed by my brothers and sisters.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Later, Zhang Guangbei returned home from vacation, and his father asked for his opinion.

Zhang Guangbei did not stop his father.

He knew that his father was very lonely at home alone, and when he was sick, his children had to take leave to come back to take care of him, and there were many inconveniences in life.

Zhang Guangbei told his father to do whatever he wanted and not to worry too much.

With the words of the son, the father can be assured.

Because his father is a very good person, the neighbors are also paying attention to the right person for him.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Later, through the introduction of friends, Zhang Guangbei's father remarried.

The stepmother also has her own daughter, who is married and has her own family.

It is also a person who is too lonely and wants to find a wife to support each other.

So, the two elderly people came together.

On the day of the marriage of the father and stepmother, there was not much movement, just a simple invitation to relatives to eat a meal.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

On that day, Zhang Guangbei's brothers and sisters were not enthusiastic, and there was no smile on his stepmother.

After marriage, my brother and sister went home to see my father and would not talk to my stepmother.

Every time she came back, her stepmother was alone in the house, knowing that the children didn't want to see her.

But the father and stepmother had a good relationship.

When my father was at home alone, the children didn't come to eat, and he didn't want to eat.

Every time I just eat a little bit, deal with it and it's over.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

After his stepmother came, she cooked for him every day.

The old couple can also help each other to walk around the park together.

Although the children did not accept it, it was fortunate that the two people were happy and happy.

In 1980, 21-year-old Zhang Guangbei retired from the army.

It was the first time dad and stepmother had been married and he had been home.

That is to say, this is the first time Zhang Guangbei has seen his stepmother.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

When the stepmother heard that her youngest son was coming back, she had been worried for several days.

She feared that her younger son, like several older siblings, would not accept her.

She thought about making a table for Zhang Guangbei several days in advance and giving him the wind.

The day Zhang Guangbei returned, his stepmother simmered soup for him the night before.

Since the morning, he has been busy with work, and has fried a table of dishes that Zhang Guangbei loves to eat inside and out.

Zhang Guangbei went home to see his stepmother this time, in fact, he was also a little embarrassed.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

It wasn't that he didn't accept his stepmother, it was just a little unaccustomed.

Obviously, he went back to his own home, but he was born like an outsider.

His stepmother told him to drink water, and he drank water.

Let him sit down, he will sit down.

He sat on the couch, his hands not knowing where to put them.

He was also embarrassed to talk, and his stepmother did not dare to talk more, for fear that Zhang Guangbei would not like him.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The father looked at this awkward atmosphere and took the initiative to say:

"Will you live with me and your aunt, or will you go to your brother's place?"

Zhang Guangbei: "Of course, I live with you." ”

As soon as these words were uttered, both Dad and Stepmother breathed a sigh of relief, as if a stone in their hearts had finally landed.

Zhang Guangbei and his stepmother still got along with a little awkward atmosphere.

In fact, he had been thinking about what to call his stepmother in his heart.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Thinking about it, Zhang Guangbei opened his mouth and shouted to his stepmother: "Mom."

One word directly made the stepmother's eyes red, and tears came out of her eyes.

This was the first time in so many years that her stepmother had been married and she had heard someone call her "Mom."

The stepmother suppressed the choking voice and quickly nodded in agreement.

Since then, Zhang Guangbei and his stepmother have been like biological mother and son.
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

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At the age of 23, Zhang Guangbei prepared to enter the drama academy.

Both his father and stepmother supported him in doing what he loved.

During Zhang Guangbei's preparation for the exam, his stepmother stewed soup for him every day and changed his tricks to make him a nutritious meal.

Every day when I came back from walking outside, I would buy zhang Guangbei some delicious food.

In the past few months of preparation, Zhang Guangbei has experienced a long-lost maternal love at home.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

A few months later, Zhang Guangbei was successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.

After entering the university, Zhang Guangbei spent less and less time at home.

The work of chatting and walking with my father fell on my stepmother.

Zhang Guangbei knew that it was not easy for his stepmother, so he would go home to visit the second elder as soon as he had time.

This lasted for 4 years.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei seems to have returned to his childhood, and he returned home to see his parents as soon as the school holidays.

In 1986, Zhang Guangbei graduated.

He can officially join the job to earn money to support his family.

However, in the year he had just graduated, his father fell.

That day he received a call from home and his father suddenly fainted and was rushed to the hospital.

At that time, Zhang Guangbei was filming in the crew, and he really couldn't leave.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The stepmother said to Zhang Guangbei: "It's okay child, I am taking care of your father, your father will be fine." ”

This sentence seems to give Zhang Guangbei a reassuring pill.

Zhang Guangbei let go of his breath after listening to it, and was at ease to work in the crew.

As soon as the work was over, Zhang Guangbei rushed to the hospital to see his father.

Zhang Guangbei looked at his stepmother's hospital busy taking care of his father, and he felt very guilty.

Just in time for the holidays, he wanted his stepmother to go home and rest for a few days, and then let the stepmother come over when he was working.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei's practices made his stepmother particularly moved.

Under the meticulous care of his son and wife, the father gradually recovered.

The days returned to their former calm.

In the following years, Zhang Guangbei filmed in various crews,

"The Empress Dowager of the Two Palaces", "Arc Light", "There is a Cluster of Sacred Fires in the Sky" and so on.

Although it is not popular, the career is also developing steadily.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

In 1992, Zhang Guangbei was filming in the crew when he suddenly received a call from his stepmother saying that his father was seriously ill and wanted him to come back to meet him quickly.

At this time, Zhang Guangbei's father already knew that his time was short.

He grabbed Zhang Guangbei's hand and said to him:

"Although your stepmother is not your biological mother, she has taken care of us for so many years, and she is not easy, and she has no merit and hard work."

"If I'm gone, you remember to take care of your stepmother, after all she's been with me for so many years." If you don't take care of her, I don't blame you, remember to see her every New Year's Holiday, after all, you have a layer of this relationship. ”

Zhang Guangbei grabbed his father's hand and said while crying:

"Dad, you can rest assured, after the door is our family, I will definitely treat her as my mother as filial piety, my stepmother is very good to me, from the moment I called her mother, I will definitely honor her and take care of her for a lifetime, I will treat her as a mother, for her pension to send the end, you can rest assured." 」
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei's father listened to these words and nodded with tears in his eyes.

The stepmother next to her covered her face and did not dare to look up.

Zhang Guangbei came back from a leave of absence this time, and the whole crew was waiting for him.

The director's side has been urging.

Then his father told him:

"You go back to work, don't delay other people's time, all are waiting for you, I have your mother to take care of me, rest assured."

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei was really relieved in his heart, he didn't want to leave, but he had to go.

Zhang Guangbei turned around three times in one step, originally walked downstairs, and finally ran up to his father and said:

"I've been here for a week, and I'll be right back after the shooting, and you'll have to wait for me."

Sadly, my father didn't wait for him for a day.

He hadn't even gotten on the train yet, and as soon as he walked into the train station, he received a call from his sister.

His sister told him that his father was gone.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei hurried out of the station, got into the car and I ran back.

These few steps upstairs, each step is so heavy.

Zhang Guangbei couldn't describe how he felt when he ran upstairs these few steps.

When he pushed open the door, he saw his brother and sister all crying in front of the bed.

Zhang Guangbei stood in the doorway stunned.

When the stepmother saw him come in, she couldn't hold back the tears any longer, and directly hugged him and began to cry loudly.

Zhang Guangbei hugged his stepmother and said while crying: "You will have us in the future, I am your own son, and I will give you a pension and send you to the end." ”

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

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After Zhang Guangbei's father left, his brother and sister completely broke off contact with his stepmother.

Zhang Guangbei was not like his brother and sister, he did not ignore his stepmother.

He will always remember the words he had said to his father.

Zhang Guangbei took his stepmother to his home and let his stepmother live with them.

His wife, Chen Wei, had no opinion.

Chen Wei is also an actor, and Gong Li is a classmate of Chinese opera, or a Chinese opera "five golden flowers".

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The stepmother did not agree at first, she felt that Zhang Guangbei had a wife and a daughter, and she would add to the chaos in the past, so she did not want to go over.

Zhang Guangbei had been inviting, and finally his stepmother agreed.

After coming to Zhang Guangbei's home, the stepmother was very restrained, just like when Zhang Guangbei returned from the army.

The stepmother wanted to clean up the housework for them, but Zhang Guangbei wouldn't let her.

Wanting to cook for them, Zhang Guangbei would not let him.

Zhang Guangbei often asked his wife Chen Wei to take his stepmother to buy clothes and go shopping.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

As long as he returns from filming in other places, he will buy some specialties for his stepmother.

On weekdays, he often stuffed money for his stepmother and gave her various nutritional products.

He gave all the filial piety that had not been fulfilled to his father to his stepmother.

He didn't want to leave any more regrets.

The stepmother also has a daughter, and the daughter has her own family.

Sometimes the stepmother wants to go and live with her daughter.

Zhang Guangbei will reflect on whether he has done something badly, whether he has done something that is not thoughtful enough.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei often said to his stepmother: "Mom, you don't have to be polite, I am your family, I am your own son, I have something inconsiderate, you can just mention it." ”

Stepmother said:

"It's not that you didn't do it thoughtfully, you were very good to me, I just missed my daughter- and you have to take care of your father-in-law and mother-in-law." I live here, and it is not convenient for my daughter to come to see me, for fear of causing you trouble. ”

Thinking about it, Zhang Guangbei agreed to let his stepmother live at her daughter's house.

When the time came, Zhang Guangbei said to his stepmother:

"Mom, my door is always open for you, and you can come back whenever you want."

When the stepmother left, Zhang Guangbei personally drove it over.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei was ten thousand uneasy, and he kept repeating a sentence:

"If there is any problem in the future, although you look for me, don't be embarrassed to say that your daughter has any difficulties, and even if you look for me."

After his stepmother left, Zhang Guangbei has been busy with his career and rarely has holidays.

But whenever she had time, even for a few days, she would run to see her stepmother.

I would also take my stepmother to the house for a few days.

Every month, I would give my stepmother some money.

The stepmother told him every time:

"Boy, you don't have to give me money, I'm so old, I don't have so many things to buy."
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Zhang Guangbei will also take his stepmother out to travel when he has time, and take his stepmother on a sightseeing trip.

The stepmother really regards Zhang Guangbei as his son, and he really regards the stepmother as his own biological mother.

Later, Zhang Guangbei's career became more and more prosperous, the file period was very full, and the vacation time was less and less.

Around 1997, Zhang Guangbei rarely had time to take a vacation, and naturally rarely had the opportunity to visit his stepmother.

The stepmother also thinks about Zhang Guangbei all day, hoping to see the child more every day.

When people are old, they think that their children can be around, and the family is lively.

Perhaps, the stepmother knew she was running out of time.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Suddenly, one day, the stepmother was seriously ill and admitted to the hospital.

She did not let her daughter call Zhang Guangbei, for fear of affecting his filming.

A long time later, when Zhang Guangbei went to visit his stepmother, he found that his stepmother was ill.

Zhang Guangbei blamed himself, he postponed all his work, and wanted to stay with his stepmother to take care of her.

He could also sense that his stepmother was running out of time with him.

The stepmother did not want him to delay his work, and she felt that it was enough for the child to have this filial piety.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The stepmother also said a word to her daughter:

"In these years, which other child can do this to the stepmother, Zhang Beiguang has done it, and this child is really good to me."

Just at this time, Zhang Beiguang walked to the door and heard,

He didn't push the door in, he stood in the doorway and wiped his tears before walking in.

In the last few days of his stepmother's life, he never left the ward and stayed with her.

He kept looking at his stepmother, afraid that if he looked at it less, he would never get a chance to look at it again.

Unfortunately, the stepmother was gone.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

After his stepmother left, he handled his stepmother's affairs before and after, more thoughtfully than his own children.

He fulfilled the promise he had made at his father's bedside.

After sending his stepmother to the end of his life, Zhang Guangbei did not have any regrets.

Zhang Guangbei is indeed a man with feelings and righteousness.

Not only for the stepmother, but also for the father-in-law and mother-in-law.

There are also classmates and colleagues around him, who recognize him as a person.

Zhang Guangbei was the secretary of the regiment branch when he was studying in Chinese opera.

After graduation, he organized a class reunion every year, and He Zhengjun was a classmate with him.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

In order to let the students, no matter how many years have passed, they should not forget the same window.

Zhang Guangbei is the "main backbone" of the 82-level chinese opera acting class, and has maintained the friendship between classmates for more than 30 years.

Zhang Guangbei is also excellent in his acting career.

Dedicated, serious and humble.

In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", "Furong Town", and "Bright Sword", many classic roles have been created for the audience.

On December 23, 2021, the China Film Performing Arts Society was replaced, with Chen Baoguo as the president and Zhang Guangbei as the secretary-general.
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

This is also the recognition of the two old drama bones by peers.

In the lens, 62-year-old Zhang Guangbei, although the hairline is a little high, is still very energetic.

He also expressed great confidence in the future work of the Secretary-General and will strive to do a good job.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The 65-year-old Chen Baoguo is also in a good mental state, speaks sonorously and forcefully, and is also confident in his future work.

Zhang Guangbei hardly had any bad evaluations in the circle.

His acting skills and ability to choose scripts have always been online, he has not acted in a bad drama, and every role is very well grasped.

However, in recent years, Zhang Guangbei has frequently brought his daughter into the group, so he has been disgusted by netizens.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The reason is that Zhang Guangbei's daughter Zhang Sile's acting skills have been questioned.

Zhang Guangbei actually did not want his daughter to be an actor, but her daughter was bent on entering the circle.

Zhang Guangbei can only escort his daughter and take her daughter into the group to shoot many times.

When Zhang Sile first appeared on the variety show "I Am Not a Star", he invited Fu Disheng, Pan Changjiang, Li Mingqi, Zhang Kaili, Zheng Shaoqiu and other old drama bones to cheer for her.

Zhang Guangbei also personally took his daughter to shoot the TV series "Special Operations", and directly played the female number two.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

Some time ago, in the "Age of Awakening", there was also Zhang Sile's appearance,

She played "Liu Mei" and Zhang Wanyi in it as a couple.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

She also played a beautiful female character who performed a "beauty plan" in "Inspection Tour".

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

The partners are Wu Gang, Song Chunli, Han Tongsheng, Yu Hewei and other big celebrities, many of whom are national first-class actors.

Because of this, let the audience evaluate Zhang Sile," "Her acting skills can't support such a big scene." ”

Indeed, in front of a large number of powerful actors, Zhang Sile's acting skills are slightly insufficient.

It is inevitable that the audience will jump the scene and affect the plot experience.

There were also many viewers who questioned how she got into the group.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

When I saw that the producer of the TV series was Zhang Guangbei, everything came out to the truth.

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

This year, Zhang Sile is 29 years old, or he still has to learn acting skills from his father, so that the audience can substitute for the role.

Zhang Guangbei brought his daughter into the group, but also wanted to make the path of his daughter's actor go more smoothly.

From this point of view, he is a qualified father.

Zhang Guangbei and Chen Wei have never had a scandal in the 33 years since they were married, and they also take great care of their father-in-law and mother-in-law.

"Hundred good filial piety first" Zhang Guangbei did it.

Someone asked, "Why are you so nice to your stepmother?" She also honored her for 18 years, and she did not give birth to you and raise you. ”

Zhang Guangbei:

"As children, filial piety to parents is the right thing to do, stepmother is also a mother, we do all this to make the old man and old lady happy." 」
Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

If you don't know these stories behind Zhang Guangbei, you may not imagine that "Chu Yunfei" and "Lü Bu", who have a rough appearance, have such a delicate and soft heart.

Whether it is to his parents or his wife to his children, he has done a good job.

As he said, "To be a good person is to act well." ”

Zhang Guangbei: On the day my father died, I cried with my stepmother, and I will be your own son from now on

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