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Seeing the title, it is estimated that the friends have also guessed it, and I am ready to talk about the full of injuries.
To tell the truth, it is really exciting to encounter the trauma of the baby's head at the beginning of the year. Fortunately, it just looked scary, but it was actually not a big deal, especially after the wound recovered well, I was really relieved.
But the whole process of the heart is like a roller coaster, it is really too heart-wrenching!
Lao Zhang comforted me vigorously: Raising a boy is like this, the road behind is still long, what kind of bruises and scratches, broken skin mouth fractures and the like, it must be indispensable.
With my own upbringing, one-three-five parents, two four six to go to the hospital, is the norm of life. You must put your mind in place, and similar situations will certainly be indispensable in the future.
I took a cool breath after listening, What? Are you sure this is comfort? Obviously, it is a thriller trailer for a horror movie! Looking at Lao Zhang without joking at all, I began to really understand the difference between raising boys and girls.
Although this point was previously certified by the "Scientific Official: Little Boys Are Hard to Raise!" I have talked to everyone clearly, but when I really put things on the table, I was still panicked.
If raising a girl is a literary film, then raising a son is a super blockbuster with comprehensive themes such as war, fantasy, action, thriller, and doom.
The old mother wants not to be scared to death by anger, in addition to having a big heart, she must also be a little good at pretending acting skills and have the ability to deal with crises in emergencies! Otherwise, you may not really be able to retire. (This day scares people, the old mother really can't stand it)
02
Don't underestimate the ability to pretend, this may become the key to our crisis resolution! Especially as the pillar of the family, we have to be possessed by the drama to hold everything.
Take man's injury, for example, the whole family panicked!
In fact, I was not around when I was full of falls, and the accident happened when I was walking outside with my grandfather. My grandmother and I were preparing meals at home when I suddenly received a call from my grandfather saying that the child had to go to the hospital after his head was broken.
At that time, my mother was in a hurry, and in a hurry, she let me put on my clothes and go downstairs to meet me, and I didn't need to say how worried. Soon we were connected with my grandfather, fortunately my father was still calm, but he could not hide his panic and impatience, and tried to explain the situation to me.
To tell the truth, at this time I am still calm, full of no crying and no fuss to see the state is fine. But when I really saw the wounds on my head, my heart immediately mentioned the throat eyes.
The wound was much more severe than I had imagined, the opening was so large that it was almost as wide as an ear, and the blood stains around it made the wound look particularly shocking. Really, every glance is torture.
(Wound warning, caution to open .... ）
I go, how can this be good? Don't talk about anything calm, at that time I was absolutely scared stupid, all kinds of thoughts in the brain: will there be internal injuries, will there be more serious consequences? How to get it in the back?
At this time, Man Man reacted, cried with a wow, and kept holding me and shouting, "Mom, it hurts."
As soon as Eva cried, everyone panicked even more. My mother covered her chest with a worried expression; my father was also anxious and urged me to go to the hospital quickly.
We all know that when people are flustered, they are prone to making hasty but incomplete decisions. The more this happens, the more I need to be calm.
Only when I am calm, the old people will not panic, the children can be at ease and not afraid, and we can make more appropriate decisions.
If you can't do it, you can only install it first! In order to hide my panic and calm myself, I first did these things as quickly as possible:
1. Analyze the child's status
I told my parents not to worry, but to briefly tell the child about the situation at that time, how he was injured, how he bleeding, his reaction after the injury, and the condition of crying.
In the preliminary judgment based on the current situation: the wound is no longer bleeding, the wound is flat and there is no swelling and valgus, and he is in good spirits, can cry, talk and walk, and his mood is also very stable, indicating that the problem is not big.
I also tell my parents about these judgments to soothe their emotions. After all, we also have to be reasonable and convincing.
2. Talk to dad right away
Although the child is mine, it is also the family's, and I must immediately discuss and decide with the child's father. I also told my parents that at present, it is not serious enough to be in a state of 100,000 fires, nor is it easy enough to decide without authorization, allow me to call Lao Zhang first.
Then, I immediately explained to Lao Zhang the situation of the full injury, and Lao Zhang quickly understood the situation and determined the plan together: we took the baby to the emergency department immediately, and Lao Zhang immediately rushed to the hospital to meet us.
3. Select the plan and act quickly
Putting down the old phone, I began to choose a hospital. Either a children's hospital or a top three pediatrics, but.... Is the top three pediatric surgical bandaging not work? What if tetanus needles are not imported? I've happened to this before, so the safest one is the children's hospital.
Also, if the emergency room is urgent, the hospital must choose the road condition to arrive faster than the distance! In case of traffic jams or morning and evening rush hours, it will delay the time.
After choosing, I immediately got in the car and took my family and children to the hospital, and Lao Zhang also got the address to rush there.
03
After these three things were implemented, my emotions really calmed down a lot, I was no longer at a loss, and I had some confidence in my heart.
Sure enough, after thinking, the rational brain defeated the emotional brain and became dominant. Under the methodical action, everyone's mood seems to be a little better.
I wrapped my arms around his little hand and gently whispered in his ear, "It's okay, Mom will protect you and accompany you, and there's nothing to be afraid of with Mom." "Man man was quiet all the way, no crying or crying pain, just like usual."
I guess he really feels there is something to rely on, and mom will protect him.
At the same time, I held my mother's hand to comfort her so that she could be reassured. This time it was really frightening the old lady, and just now I saw her secretly taking medicine.
My dad blamed himself even more, and kept nagging me about the situation at that time, regretting it so much. In fact, I know that my father is the most uncomfortable of all people, after all, it was in his hands that had an accident, and the pressure was greater than anyone. I also urged him to be an accident, no one wants it to happen, it is already like this, let's deal with it quickly.
After a circle of comfort, I suddenly realized what is called "there are old and young", the sense of responsibility of the family makes you have to adjust everything, can not panic, can not be chaotic, make the right decision, and bear the most pressure and problems.
If you can't do it, you have to pretend to do it, and you have to do it by dressing. Before, I just said "people to middle age", but my heart has not accepted. Right now..... True middle-aged mother.
Just thinking about this, my phone rang, it was Lao Zhang. He told me to go to the hospital and do these things: hang up the emergency room, treat the wound, break the cold! Don't panic, he'll be there in a minute.
Although I have not panicked, it is really warm to hear the naked support and encouragement of my teammates.
In fact, I know that Lao Zhang is also particularly flustered, and I can hear it from his reaction and tone, which is exactly the same as me just now. But he also used the same method as me to remain calm, that is, to solve problems and defuse risks, without a little emotion and accountability.
To tell the truth, this is really difficult to do, this is the instinctive reaction of people when they encounter a situation. Lao Zhang couldn't do it either, but he also pretended, pretending that he was very calm.
Sure enough, life is like a drama, all by acting skills! This is the philosophy of middle-aged people.
04
In addition, parents also have some experience coping with unexpected bumps.
Children are lively and active, no matter how to pay attention, abrasions and cuts are inevitable. Minor abrasions we will not talk about, everyone can deal with, with water or hydrogen peroxide cleaning, with iodine disinfection, and then on the ointment or direct Band-Aid bandaging process, almost everyone can calmly cope.
However, for more serious cuts, it is not enough to pretend to be calm, but also to take timely and appropriate measures.
hemostasis:
Sharp objects cut through the epidermis, injuring the subcutaneous tissue and causing bleeding, use a clean gauze or cloth piece to hold the wound vigorously for 5-10 minutes or until the bleeding stops.
Do not open the gauze too early to check the wound, which is not good for hemostasis.
Repeat this process if you cannot stop the bleeding. And adults must remain calm and composed, not only help to make correct judgments, children will not be too uneasy.
Cleaning and bandaging:
After the bleeding stops, gently wash the wound with water and carefully inspect it to ensure that the wound is clean.
As long as the wound edges can be closed, minor cuts can be treated at home. Apply antibiotic ointment to the wound, bandage it with clean gauze or apply a Band-Aid.
Medical treatment:
If the width or depth of the wound exceeds 1.3 cm, even if there is not much bleeding, it is necessary to seek medical attention, and the larger the wound may hurt the nerves and tendons, and more professional treatment is needed. For example, if the needle is stitched, the wound must be sutured within 8 hours to achieve the best results.
Just like this time, the wound is close to 2cm and the edge is open and cannot be closed, and it must go to the hospital for treatment.
There are also many dirty things in the wound that cannot be cleaned up by themselves, or the wound is not healed well, there are signs of inflammation, and other wounds that cannot be treated at home, and they should go to the children's hospital for surgical treatment in time.
tetanus
As long as the wound is deep or dirty, the cold needs to be broken. But most of this needle needs to do skin tests, like my 3 batch numbers of skin tests can not pass, can only play imported skin test tetanus. Instead of tossing, it is better to directly play the worry-free skin test.
Also, this needle must be hit.
Believe me, after mastering these nursing measures, we can remain calm, otherwise we will be more panicked. So, buy this parenting encyclopedia again!
This is my book... That's what I learned from here.