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Norwegians have a soft spot for sardines, but how they transport them bothers them. Because sardines are very delicate, it is difficult to survive after being caught.
Some people mix sardines with inexpensive, viable catfish. The sardines are afraid and avoid everywhere, so they keep bouncing around.
This is known as the "catfish effect".
Behind every powerful person, there is an untold inspirational past, but also to experience different living environments, and even to survive in the shadows.
If people want to gain a foothold in society, they must constantly enhance their own value. From a certain point of view, he used to be a catfish, and later converted to sardines; it can also be said that he insisted on making catfish, achieved sardines, and had the noble quality of making a wedding dress for people.
Being a person needs to play multiple roles, need to be able to flex and stretch, win benefits and respect in cooperation, if not, then it can only be excluded in competition.
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Being friends with the weak can make you a better version of yourself.
Everyone is trying to survive, even the lowest level of society, and they have not given up.
If you only know how to engage with people at the top, then you will ignore the power of people at the bottom. You know, the humble man, if he plucks up the courage and raises his arm, can also respond to it.
For example, in the last years of the Qin Dynasty, a man named Chen Sheng originally lived by farming, but he could not bear the tyranny of Qin II, and led a group of people to rise up.
Chen Sheng said, "Oh, Yan Que An Zhi Zhi Zhi Zhao. ”
Those who have backbones are only temporarily weaker, and their ambitions are ambitious. In time, it will be impressive.
There is a folk mantra: "Catfish stew eggplant, support the old man." ”
We know that catfish don't taste very good, are on the table, and not too many people like it. But because it can adapt to a very difficult environment, it really adapts to the "law of the jungle". From two aspects, the benefits of catfish are self-evident.
The really powerful person is far-sighted, and he does not always judge people by appearance and determine the circle of people by their current values. Take the initiative to interact with the "catfish", your posture is low, and you will gain more strength.
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Let people "move", the more tossed, the more successful.
Healthy people say, "Life is about movement." ”
If a person goes out to take a car, there is a special car driver; there is a nanny waiting when he enters the house, and he does not worry about eating and drinking; someone helps to pour tea when he goes to the unit, even the speech script is written well, and the itinerary is arranged, then he is idle every day. Hands and feet rarely move, and thoughts do not move.
A good life must be windy, sunny and rainy, and it cannot be like the seedlings in the greenhouse.
Su Wu during the Western Han Dynasty was detained when he was envoying to the Xiongnu. He was exiled to the sparsely inhabited grasslands and herded sheep for a living. In the cold and windy winter, he huddled among the sheep for warmth and regarded the sheep as his friend.
A few years later, Su Wu was still alive and returned to his hometown smoothly.
Compared with sheep, man is noble, but the sheep have achieved "life". When we remember Su Wu, a great man, we must also remember the sheep who have been with him for many years.
Toss and turn with the people around you, and you're sure to reap the benefits. Even the movement of the weak will make you feel vibrant, like the spring wind, warm and soft.
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Only those who are good at borrowing power can have infinite ability.
Archimedes said, If you give me a fulcrum, I can the whole earth. ”
A lever, a fulcrum, will bring infinite power. But many people only know how to use brute force. When he is very strong, he is dismissive of the people around him.
We can imagine that when the sardines can't swim, the catfish stirs the water hard, the sardines can continue to move, and even it can sit back and enjoy it.
I've seen a story about two children arguing over an orange. To be fair, they cut the orange in half, one in half for each person.
The ending was unexpected. A child ate the orange flesh and lost the peel. A child crushed the orange peel and put it in the cake, the flesh of which was thrown away.
If they cooperate, the whole orange is not wasted.
The crowd gathered firewood and the flames were high. People are mixed in society, and they must borrow from each other in order to have a joint force. For example, people who do business borrow the consumption power of customers to make their money bags bulge; borrow an opportunity to "take the initiative to recover defective products" to enhance their credibility.
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Be a stepping stone and accumulate blessings for yourself.
Writer Lin Qingxuan once said: "I often remember what my teacher said: In this world, care is the most powerful. ”
The teacher gives wisdom to the child, and then slowly grows old. But he received praise from all over the world.
It is gratifying that the children who have been educated by the teachers are better than blue out of blue.
Confucius worshipped the young Xiang Qiao as a teacher. So both men are more famous. Later generations kept Confucius's "etiquette" in mind, which is the praise of Confucius by future generations and the blessing of Confucius.
To be a person, we must have a great attitude, and we must understand that we have achieved others and we have also achieved ourselves.
When we taste sardines, we have to give a thumbs up to the catfish, and we have to see that behind the delicious food, there are many people who are silently giving.
The value of life is sometimes easy to ignore, but the value of being ignored will also enrich yourself.
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The Southern Tang Dynasty poet Feng Yanwei said: "When the wind rises, it creases a pool of spring water." ”
There are landscapes everywhere in life, but the most beautiful must be flowing landscapes, or a moment of eternity.
Powerful people, do their best to live a landscape, no matter who they are with, they will help each other and pay silently.
Helping the weak will be rewarded in the coming days.
The strong who hold hands can also share the value.
Take the initiative to show kindness, and you will have a smile on your face.
Learn to lift people, and the level of life will be higher.
We must understand that what makes a person stand in the middle of the stage is not the stage itself, but the people behind the stage, as well as the sweat and wisdom under the stage.
Don't always lament "helplessness", learn to "rely on each other".
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.