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The feelings between people are sometimes to see the edge of the eyes, when you like this person, you will feel that the moment you look at each other, the heart is warmed, and in the process of getting along with each other, you will also feel a kind of déjà vu joy.
In more cases, it is still necessary to have skills, because the eye edge is still a matter of luck, and if we want to live in reality, we need some skills, so that we can have some confidence in facing fate.
Under normal circumstances, there are some women who tend to make men obsessed, these women look very ordinary in appearance, but they will make a man think about himself.
This kind of woman still has two brushes, which may not be shown in normal times, but in love, she shows these ingenuities to the fullest, and uses some important things on the blade, so it will make men remember.
Most of the women who can make men fall in love have learned the following tricks, how many have you learned?
01.
Want to get away with it
Someone said:
"Women are the harbor, men are the boats. No matter how beautiful the harbor, if it can't bring peace to men, the ship doesn't dare to come closer. If there are reefs and winds and waves in the harbor, it is better for the ship to float in the sea. ”
Men are actually like a wild and uninhibited river, but also like a small child, when men pursue a woman, they feel that this woman has a desire to conquer and a sense of freshness for himself.
But when a man really conquers this woman, the man will feel bored, and sometimes want to escape, so the woman wants to keep a man in this life, but as long as the man gets the woman in this life, he wants to escape from the other party.
So under normal circumstances, smart women know how to indulge, although the heart has accepted this man, but also to put a shelf for themselves, so that men feel that they are climbing high, this woman for a long time, men feel that this woman has a lot of advantages, will feel that they are not worthy of this woman.
Well, in such a situation, men will like this woman more and more, because men feel that they are not as strong as this woman, and if they are with this woman, they will earn it themselves.
Don't let the man think that after you are with the man, you are not worthy of the man, then in this case, the man will feel that he wants to flee, and you will not cling to you, because the man simply looks down on you.
So sometimes you will find that if a person chases you, you will feel that this person is not worthy of you, because after giving up your own posture, even if you are particularly good.
But in the eyes of others, you are worthless, because these behaviors have made others see that you are inferior to others.
02.
Love yourself
"Man is not for himself, and heaven forbids him."
As a person, you must know how to love yourself well first, put yourself in the first place, if you don't even like yourself, one day you don't even have your own life, then you have nothing, so you must take care of yourself first, and then you can ask for more things later.
Whether it is money or marriage or love, it is all based on the person you have, without you there is nothing in this world, at least even if there is something in the world, you don't know.
Someone said:
"Women value men's tomorrow, and men value women's today."
Women consider things that are still relatively long-term, so when doing today's things, women always think about the future of men, so they will give men a lot of opportunities, but sometimes you will find that men often look at things to see some of the current interests.
If a woman is in front of this man's eyes, at this moment, the woman is not good to love herself and let herself live a disheveled life, although the boy also knows in his heart that the woman is paying for the future life.
But over time, men will feel that this woman is like this, this person has not paid much for life, men feel that this woman is not worthy of themselves, but feel that whether in appearance or in the soul, women are a big mother form of existence.
Therefore, you must invest in your own life, you must also invest in yourself at that time, don't listen to men say that makeup is useless, and don't listen to other people say don't wear some good clothes, you can still live a lifetime.
As a woman, you must love yourself well, which does not mean that you are a selfish person, because when you love yourself, you will also make the men around you feel happy and happy, and you will also bring some romance to others.
At the same time, when you love yourself well, in fact, you will also spread some positive energy to the people around you, and you will also deeply attract this man.
03.
Put your family first
Smart women will put the people in the family first, in love, if you lose your way, you will find that you will be unable to move.
Don't give up your friends, family, and know that if one day love is gone, it's not the one who once swore for you, it's them.
If a person gives all his love to a man, the man will feel that he has won, and the man will feel that the woman has no one but himself, then over time, the man will feel that even if he is not good to this woman, the woman will not leave him.
So as a person, you must put the people in the family in the first place, because the talents in the family are your strong backing, and when you have the support of the people in the family, the man will give you three points.
And over time, men will also look at you and your family as a whole, and they will feel that your big family is good, because you have some advantages in your family, so men will also feel that you have some advantages.
Don't separate yourself from the people in your family at any time, I have a colleague who has this incident:
When this colleague just graduated, he and his boyfriend secretly received a marriage license, and the boyfriend did not give himself a wedding, let alone give himself a bride price.
Because this woman especially believes in her boyfriend, she always feels that the two people already know the roots, but later when it comes to the bride price, the boyfriend's attitude has changed greatly, but at this moment, she has received a marriage license with the other party and is in a passive state.
So sometimes don't do something stupid, which will lower your position in the other person's mind.
The women who can make men obsess have learned some wonderful tricks, and some women have not learned well, so it is particularly dangerous to say that they are passive in their feelings, pursuing this man bitterly, and in the end they have nothing.
Don't let yourself regret anything, over time, you will feel that all your efforts are not worth it.