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Determining whether a person can succeed depends on various reasons.
We often attribute those who succeed to good luck at birth.
Of course, I admit that birth can bring a person a higher starting point and better resources, but this is by no means an absolute factor.
I also admit that if we want to succeed, the time and place are all very important reasons, luck is of course one aspect, but we must not rely on our fate on the level of luck.
Whether a person can succeed or not, in fact, the key lies in the word pattern.
People who are too small, even if they are lucky enough to succeed, are only short-lived in the end.
I once met such a boss in the middle of work, he is very picky, very harsh on employees, like to be calculating, and lack of decision,Will be because of small things such as utility bills and people disagree, such a person absolutely can not become a big instrument, and sure enough, within a few years, his shop closed.
If a person's pattern is too small, then he will make his path narrower and narrower. Those who can achieve great things usually have a big picture.
The pattern determines a person's destiny, and only by relaxing your own pattern can you have a broader world.
Usually, those who have a big picture generally have these commonalities.
Understand that people are good at their duties and can reconcile with those who target them
Knowing people and being good at responsibility is a quality that a person who has achieved great things must have.
Because even the most powerful person, he can't be proficient in all aspects. Those who can achieve great things, they are often behind the scenes, and they will not charge everything on their own.
They are able to see the strengths of others, and they are also able to find positions that suit them according to their characteristics. They tend to be informal and accept people who hate themselves.
There is no eternal enemy in their eyes, as long as it is a truly capable person, they can accept their opinions about themselves and can reconcile with those who hate themselves.
Jane Eyre in "The Sea of Stars" is a person with a big pattern, and her final success is definitely not accidental, but depends on her pattern.
At first, when Jane Ai went to the foreign trade company, Liang Bing targeted her everywhere, and there were many festivals between the two people. Many of Liang Bing's behaviors make our viewers feel itchy teeth, and some people may encounter people like Liang Bing, who will completely draw a line and are unwilling to have any more contact.
But Jane Ai did not, she chose to release her former suspicions with Liang Bingbing, and finally she founded her own foreign trade company, took the initiative to invite Liang Bing to come to her side, and became her right-hand man.
Those who have a big picture tend not to take revenge. Even if he has had festivals with others, when it comes to employing people, he can see their abilities and can laugh at those past and reconcile with each other.
Can swallow all the pain in life, laugh at life, and lose repeatedly
No one's road to success can be smooth, in the road to the end, there will certainly be some tribulations, some failures, some people face failure and stagnation, while some people can be more and more frustrated, repeated defeats.
We often say that failure is the mother of success, and those failures are testing us and encouraging us. That being said, most of us have a hard time accepting failure, only wanting to succeed, and rejecting those pains and tribulations very much.
Once they encounter the slightest setback, they will complain to the extreme, and any small thing can bring them down.
People who are too small will infinitely magnify those small tribulations, and they will not be able to accept the suffering in life. And people with a big pattern, they can swallow the pain that ordinary people can't swallow, and carry the difficulty that ordinary people can't bear.
Most of them are very positive and optimistic, and will take the occasional setbacks and failures as a test for them. No matter how big things are, you can face them with a smile. As long as there is a glimmer of life, I always believe that I can make a comeback.
Even if the road in front of you does not work, you will choose another path to go, and you will not walk yourself into a dead end.
They will not play the bull's edge, but will adapt to the times, accept failure, learn from failure, and help themselves to be born again next time.
Can stabilize their emotions and focus more on finding solutions than complaining
People who can achieve great things are emotionally stable, rarely swayed by emotions, but can control their emotions.
When there is a problem, everyone else is in a mess, but they can stabilize in time and control the chaos in front of them.
Even if their hearts have turned upside down, they are silent on the surface. Because they know that complaining is the most useless thing.
When a person is completely controlled by emotions, it is difficult to calm down and deal with the problem. To solve a problem, you must first deal with emotions.
They will always be able to calm down before others and focus more on finding solutions than complaining. When encountering problems, they will not be the first to pursue responsibility and shirk responsibility. It's about finding ways to solve the problem.
A person's pattern is often the most able to be reflected in the event of distress, when the wind and waves are calm, you can't see anything, once you encounter a problem, from everyone's attitude and way of treating the problem, you can see whether this person can become a big thing.
The key to a person's success often lies in the word pattern.
A person with a small pattern, they are often very vengeful, will be hurt blinded, resulting in their lack of understanding. They can understand the good deeds of others and reconcile with those who have targeted them.
Of course, it is not to teach us to forgive all harm, but to understand that if we want to succeed, we must not be too preoccupied, and we must learn to know people and do good deeds.
They tend to be positive and optimistic and will not be easily overwhelmed by the difficulties in front of them. Be able to laugh at the tribulations of life, and have the determination and perseverance to repeatedly defeat and defeat repeatedly.
They rarely complain, rarely see emotions, and there are great ups and downs, no matter what they encounter, they are always calm. Because they know that complaining is useless, and only solving the problem is the most effective way.
From the above 3 points, we can see the size of a person's pattern, and these are often the key factors for a person's success.