January 20, 2020 Cloudy and rainy
When I used to serve in the army, I often heard the saying that 'only good soldiers, not good generals!' The same is true when this is applied to children, children are excellent, and parents and teachers are not excellent!
Because the process of children's growth is spent in the family and school, the words and deeds of parents and teachers are most likely to affect them, and their strengths and weaknesses are also the objects of children's imitation, so it is important to teach by example.
This is not our family's teasing brother some time ago learning attitude ups and downs, not the teacher to explain the classwork forgot to write, or homework did not remember, in is not the test results up and down face average line can not reach, provoked the teacher to call the parents five times to ask what is going on, communicate with him many times is also the left ear inside the right ear out, the front foot to ensure that the good thing after the foot followed again, helplessly under the parents criticized education also did, when the beating also beat, encouragement and encouragement, None of them worked.
In desperation, Dad found another way, through the reward of the most popular gunfight game, only to tease the brother to attract, after a few days of small tests, the little guy can not only complete the assigned homework within the specified time, but also ensure the quality and quantity of handwriting neat, and can also insist on doing squat 200, concentrate on reading extracurricular books less missing words, take the initiative to help the mother clean up the housework such as folding the quilt, help take the younger brother to play and so on.
Watching the young man change day by day, his parents are quite happy in their hearts, which explains a problem, scolding and yelling can not solve any problems in the child's education, but it will also let him learn a bad way to deal with problems, once heard the tease brother inadvertently said one thing, that is, a classmate in their class used his parents to punish his classmates.
Therefore, through this matter, parents also came to a conclusion that children are excellent, not excellent but parents and teachers. Children are all a blank piece of paper, and as parents and teachers, drawing on this white paper is what it is.
![The daughter is distressed by her mother, and her wish is very simple: if my mother did not give birth to me, she would be happy[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)