Teach your child to start by conserving water

Thursday, April 30, 2020, light rain.

There is one thing that is very commendable to tease my brother today, that is, to save water. When I went to bed at night, I found that there was a large basin of clean cold water on the washstand, and I didn't have to guess that it must be when I teased my brother to soak his feet at night, and put the cold water in the basin before the hot water came out of the tap, which was not the first time that he habitually took the initiative to do so without reminding.

The little guy can have such a consciousness and sense of supervision in this regard, my mother and I did not spend less thought, at the beginning the little guy was wasting all kinds of resources at home to a new height, the boxed milk drank a sip of bad drink on the trash can, the homework book only wrote the front side does not write the negative, the rice they put could not finish pouring into the refrigerator, originally did not like to eat and watch other children eat also wanted to buy back, and even more often bought a whole cake in order to eat a cherry...

Especially whenever the old man in the family comes, the little guy is even more fearless and willful, once in the supermarket for a cute toy pestering Grandpa spent hundreds of yuan to buy the entire lamp home, the result is not useful at all.

Later, in order to let the little guy correct these problems, always think that they did not do a good job of the mother and I are self-examination dozens of times, the result found that the little guy is connived, so after hundreds of warnings are ineffective, began to scold and fat beat, but the result is still not better, every time less than two days of resurgence, and even scared the little guy to say dream words at night: "No more dare!" ”

Fists and reprimands could not solve the problem, and my mother and I re-clicked the strategy, summarized and analyzed the character and characteristics of the doll, and found that teasing my brother needed praise and encouragement. So, began to praise in his good aspects, lack of places to encourage, and the formation of a point reward mechanism, all the things he wants to eat, drink and have fun must rely on their own performance to get, at the beginning the little guy is still playing rogues are not willing to cooperate, feel that it is natural to enjoy the parents to create everything, fortunately, there is a pre-fat beating to pave the way, so whenever I cross my eyebrows, the little guy does not dare to mess around.

Hard-hearted people are not worthy! After nearly two years of persistence and guidance, the little guy finally began to understand things, obviously self-care ability to get a qualitative leap, their clothes folded neatly; after eating and washing their own dishes; before going to bed, they can wash their faces, brush their teeth and feet, no need for us to do it ourselves; the handwriting of homework can also be neat...

Now the little guy still has many deficiencies, the more prominent is carelessness and initiative is not strong, now in order to correct these two problems to increase the squat punishment and penalty copy homework, as long as the writing of homework exceeds the specified time, or the same mistake is often made, that is, the body squat service, the starting price has increased from the initial 10 to 300, physical fitness has also been improved to a certain extent, at least when squatting, the two legs are no longer shaking.

The child is a blank piece of paper, you draw on it he will present anything, as long as you find the right way he can grow into a material.