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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Heine said: "I don't think women don't have personalities, it's just that they have new personalities every day." ”
Indeed, a woman's mind is fickle, and the best way to quickly pick up a woman you like is to know how to attack the heart.
Men can break through women's psychological defenses, basically they can hug the beauty, and naturally can harvest stable happiness.
Therefore, to interact with women, men must be good at observing women's minds, and once they find opportunities, they must seize them in time.
Love, not waiting to come, but to take the initiative, only by mastering the timing and bold pursuit, can we conquer women.
This requires men to learn to understand women, see the timing, and attack the heart instead of spending money. When you get a good opportunity, be decisive and bold, so that you can pursue the woman you want.
Therefore, to seduce a woman, master the skills of "attacking the heart", basically get it done, and the man grasps the three opportunities well, and naturally can break through her heart defense.
First, when a woman needs help, she should act decisively
In life, women will always have a time to help, at this time, men must be decisive, help women in time, and will naturally get her favor.
Because, at this time, you give a woman a helping hand, she is most impressed with you and easily remembers your good.
Even if she ignored you before, as long as you are willing to help her, she will change her mind about you, even if she did not look up to you before, she will now become enthusiastic about you.
Therefore, men must seize this opportunity, as long as you find that women have difficulties, they must take timely shots.
When you sincerely help a woman, she will definitely feel your sincerity and will be more favorable to you in the future.
Moreover, she has your help, and her heart will not go away, and may find time to thank you, so that you have a chance to get along with her again.
When you meet her more often, as long as you are sincere, she will definitely favor you more, and once the time is ripe, you can boldly pursue.
Some men do not understand this truth, always worry that they will suffer losses, and feel that helping women will be thankless.
In fact, this idea is quite wrong, no matter what you do, you need to pay first, in order to get the return you deserve.
Feelings are even more so, you don't do anything, just wait for a Lin sister to fall from the sky, is this possible?
Therefore, men who pick women up must have the mentality of being willing to pay, and many times, you are generous to women, which will make her feel good about you instantly.
Of course, you don't have to spend any money, but you have to really understand what a woman wants, and only by pinching a woman's needs and giving and helping her in time can it really work.
In daily interactions, you don't have to give courtesy to a woman at all, but you have to wait for the best time, and when she encounters difficulties, you will act decisively.
In this way, she can really have a deep impression on you, and naturally open her heart to you and accept your pursuit.
Second, when a woman is sick, be considerate to her
What women need most is not men's money, but thoughtfulness and care.
A man, able to be considerate of women, timely care for women's needs, will naturally make her more favorable to you.
Especially when a woman is sick, it is the best time for you to behave, when you are considerate to her, always care about her, accompany her, she is easily moved.
Therefore, when a man gets along with a woman, he may wish to be more considerate, let her see your true heart and feel your care.
When a woman gets a lot of love from you, she will gradually change her attitude towards you even if she didn't like you before.
As the relationship deepens, you always maintain your concern for her, you are particularly considerate to her, and she will one day let down her guard and accept your pursuit.
Chasing women, really can not be anxious, but to take it slowly, to know that "anxious to eat hot tofu", only at the right time, give women the best warmth and love, she will be moved by you.
Miss Zhang, a friend, was touched by her boyfriend when she was sick and accepted him.
The boyfriend chased her for months, and she didn't have any heart, and although she didn't hate him, she didn't want to get into a relationship.
Therefore, her pursuit of her boyfriend has been lukewarm and has not shown great enthusiasm.
Later, Miss Zhang accidentally fell ill once and stayed in the hospital for three days, because her family was not around, and she felt particularly lonely.
At this time, the boyfriend seized the opportunity, went to accompany her every day, and brought his own handmade meals, boiled fresh soup, which made her feel very warm for a moment.
The boyfriend has been with her, taking care of her like a family member, and being particularly considerate of her.
It was this short three days that completely changed Miss Zhang's view of him, and her attitude towards him was particularly enthusiastic, and the two of them began a sweet love affair.
Therefore, men chasing women, pinching the right time, giving women the best consideration and care, basically can break through her heart defenses.
Third, when a woman is in a bad mood, take care of it with her heart
Women's emotions are more fickle, obviously just very happy, suddenly it will become sad, this is very normal.
Because women's minds are very sensitive, their hearts are very fragile, and it is easy to touch the heart because of external things.
For example, when a woman sees a very touching movie, she will cry. Or, when a woman hears a sad love song, she can also become sentimental.
There are many similar situations, which will affect the mood of women, and once they are sad, they are particularly eager to be comforted by others.
Therefore, at this time, the man appears in time, cares for the woman with his heart, makes her mood better, and basically can break through her heart defense.
When a woman turns from sadness to joy, she will be impressed with you and is naturally willing to associate with you. As long as you don't live up to her and sincerely pursue her, she will be willing to have feelings for you.
Some men do not know how to seize the opportunity, always when women are most happy to pluck, in fact, this effect is not good.
Because, when a woman is happy, she does not feel that you are important, nor can she see your sincerity, and it is impossible to have a deep impression on you.
Only when a woman is in a bad mood and feels particularly sad, she will long for someone to take care of her.
At this time, you can accompany her around her, and she will instantly feel that you are a man who understands her very well and takes good care of her.
Many times, whether a woman will open up to you or not depends on whether you are the person she thinks needs the most. After all, there are many people who can laugh with her, but there are too few people who cry with her.
Men stir up women, must learn to pick the opportunity, when a woman is most vulnerable, is the best time for you to break through her heart defenses.
Therefore, men should learn to observe a woman's mood, and when you find that she is in a bad mood, you can take the initiative.
If you want to catch up with the woman you like, in fact, you don't have to spend any money, and the best care you can give to a woman is often the key to making her fall in love with you.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world. ”
In the process of pursuing women, men must learn to pinch the right time, when you can read women's minds, understand when women need the most love, often half of the success.
Therefore, the woman should be able to attack the heart, grasp these three opportunities, basically can break through her heart defense.
When a woman needs help, she is decisive; when a woman is sick, be considerate to her; when a woman is in a bad mood, take care of her with heart.
When you can treat a woman with your heart in these moments, believing that she will be particularly fond of you, love happens naturally.
I hope that men will master the skills of "attacking the heart" when chasing women, as long as you pay sincerely, I believe that women will soon throw themselves into your arms and enter a happy love together.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.