Uncle Lover's Introduction:
The most beautiful combination of reality and romance should be love, and this combination is said to be strong but fragile. A woman's figure and appearance will determine whether a man wants to develop with you initially, while a woman's personality and pattern determine whether a man will develop further with her. Interesting souls are the continuous attraction, and learning these three tricks can master this lasting attraction.
First, expectation management
In fact, "expectation management" is a simple way to say, that is, whether it will often surprise each other. As for why there is "expectation management", the reason is that in our daily life, when people are just in love, they will definitely hollow out their minds to create some surprises for each other, because this time is out of love and freshness, but with the passage of time, such interest will be slowly consumed by time.
If a father buys some small surprises for his mother, then the mother will say with a happy face: "They are already old husbands and wives, how can they still get these?" What is said is complaining, but in fact it is very happy.
There is a formula in psychology about getting along between the sexes: the other person's satisfaction = your realistic performance - his expectations. So, giving a little surprise appropriately will make him love you more and more.
Second, leave a blank reverie
One thing that makes women obsessed with men comes from a lot of magic in women that they don't know. There is a woman who keeps herself, like a treasure chest, combined with the first point, like having someone open a treasure chest, telling him that it is a treasure chest and telling him that there are things in it that he will like, which is the curiosity that can arouse the man's constant exploration.
"Blank space" in Chinese painting is to leave a blank space in this picture, so that the whole picture can have a clear expression of the place, but also let the viewer imagine the space. Smart women know how to use the blank space, always know how to have reservations, only say seven points, and leave the remaining three points for each other to speculate and reverie.
Third, know how to praise him in a measured manner
Nice words are certainly what everyone loves to hear, and when people are praised, it is actually a time when they are thirsty, so such emotions are very important. Recently, it is often said that "if you exaggerate again, you will boast about the heavens", but the benefits of praising people will far outweigh the disadvantages of overstating, so it is definitely beneficial to praise a man appropriately.
Praising people can bring the enthusiasm to do things, but also can make this man feel that he is in a strong position in your heart, and the emotions of both sides will develop in a good direction.
Uncle Epilogue:
In fact, it is not difficult to maintain love, think back to what you looked like when you first fell in love, the way to maintain love comes from here. I hope that everyone can do the "Quiet down and think about you, feel that everything is incredibly beautiful" in "Love You Are Like Loving Life". "To give both parties more good memories is to try not to let negative emotions interfere with you as much as possible, and not to be worn down by time and no longer love life."