People who are really strong can accept themselves
Author 丨Yuanshan Ruodai Anchor 丨 Xiaoqi
Source 丨Anban Lanruo (ID:anbanlr)
Kazuo Inamori's advice to young people says:
"Accepting everything is the strong man of life."
Deeply.
Bumpy road of life, wind and rain for decades. Everyone will encounter ups and downs, through the wind and rain.
Only by bravely accepting everything can we become a strong person in life and face the bleakness of life.
Accept regrets
The road of life is bumpy and difficult, there are thorns everywhere, and there are regrets everywhere.
Regret is the miss of "just because I looked at you more in the crowd and never forgot your face again";
Regret is the helplessness of "I am born to live, I am born to be old"; regret is "thirty meritorious names and dust and soil, eight thousand miles of clouds and moons."
Mo waited for idle, white young man's head, empty and sad" tragic; regret is "Wang Shi Bei Ding Zhongyuan Day, the family sacrifice has not forgotten to tell Nai Weng" unwilling.
Life is like a book, the period is complete, and the ellipsis is regret. Consummation is gratifying, but it lacks a timelessness and reticence.
Sometimes, regret is a different kind of landscape. Only because I can't get it, I can't forget it; only because I can't do it, I force myself to move forward;
It was only because you had to be separated that you lived in my heart forever. Isn't such a regret a different kind of beauty?
So I finally understood that consummation is a luxury, and regret is commonplace.
In life, flowers blossom is consummation, flowers fall is regret; love is consummation, separation is regret; success is consummation, failure is regret.
Accept regrets, life can bloom to the extreme.
Embrace loneliness
One Hundred Years of Solitude says:
"Wherever you go, you should remember that the past is false, that memory is an endless road, that all the springs of the past cannot be restored, and that even the most frantic and tenacious love is, in the final analysis, a fleeting reality, and only loneliness is eternal."
Everyone on the road of life is a lonely walker. Only by bravely accepting loneliness can we fight loneliness, enjoy loneliness, and embrace loneliness.
The famous painter Van Gogh, his life was full of failures in the secular sense, his fame and fortune were empty, his love was tragic, and he was hungry and cold. At the end of his life, he fought against the disease, fought against loneliness, and desperately left beauty and glory for the world.
To accept loneliness is to accept a new self; to accept loneliness is to enrich oneself and spread its wings.
Accept loneliness, and life can move forward courageously.
Accept yourself
No one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Correct understanding of yourself, bravely accept your own small defects, and be humble and humble yourself, in order to live your own wonderful.
Cowardly people, running away from themselves, brave people, accepting themselves.
Everyone is unique, even if we don't have a unique face, we don't have a full belly, we can't achieve fame, we can't be proud of the sky. But we are the only spirits from the universe, unrepeatable, worldly treasures.
I am who I am, the only beauty in the world. Even though, I can never be perfect.
Someone tried to renew the arm of Venus with a broken arm, but found that no matter how she did it, it was a snake that destroyed her artistic perfection. The beauty of Venus is precisely because of her broken arm that it has reached the peak of ancient Greek sculpture.
Only by accepting the mutilation can we appreciate this shocking beauty.
Only by accepting yourself can you compose a magnificent poem of life.
Only by accepting yourself can you correctly understand yourself and reconcile with yourself; only by accepting yourself can you meet yourself and become a better self.
A happy life requires the courage and perseverance to bravely accept, whether it is regret, injury or loneliness, it is an embellishment and test on the road of life.
For the rest of your life, be a brave person, climb a mountain, love someone, and bravely accept your unique self.