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"Huainanzi" has a saying: "See a leaf falling, and know the age will be twilight; see the ice in the bottle, and know the cold of the world." ”
When you see a leaf fall, you will understand that the years are getting past, and autumn and winter are coming. Seeing that the water in the bottle has frozen, it proves that the world is already snowy.
Seeing the big in the small, Fang knows the nature of most of the problems in the world. Only by seeing the micro-knowledge can we understand the truth of future life.
For example, your middle age, your old age, what the future will become, in fact, we just need to look at the current situation. You know, no matter how big or small, there must be a reason. Whatever it is, it has its original truth.
Whether you are healthy and happy in your old age depends on the year you are 50 years old.
If these "foreshadowings" appear around you, I believe that your old age will eventually be fine.
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If your family is harmonious, then your old age will not be too bad.
There is a saying that all luck comes from your family. All misfortune comes from your way back.
Our way home is family. Our home, too, is family. It can be said that the quality of the family is closely related to our lives. What happens to our families, what will happen to our future lives.
Some people's families are noisy, and relatives are either arguing today or fisting and kicking each other tomorrow, so how good can such a family be?
On the contrary, some people's families are particularly harmonious and respectful and courteous to each other. So where will such a family be?
Good and bad, in fact, there is only one criterion, that is, "and". Being a person is precious to peace. Treat people in the world, and be angry and rich. Especially for families in urgent need of development, it is even more necessary to maintain the attribute of "harmony".
Why are families with good family styles better than families with upstarts? The key is that the former has a foundation and a harmonious atmosphere. And the latter? No matter how rich you are, it is just a passing cloud of "hurrying, hurrying away".
Therefore, if you maintain family harmony and create a good atmosphere, then your old age will not be too bad.
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If your relationships are good, your mindset is definitely not too bad.
As a person, is it better to live as an island, or is it better to integrate into the environment?
Although islands have the benefits of islands, the big environment has the problems of the big environment. However, after all, people cannot live a "lonely" appearance, but need to be "active and cheerful".
I have seen some middle-aged people who have not yet retired and have become "islands", do not interact with anyone, and even have bad relations with their families. Such an attitude towards life is not normal.
The real "middle-aged subtraction" should be to eliminate unnecessary interpersonal relationships and leave behind relatives and friends with real feelings. A one-size-fits-all approach to interpersonal relationships is clearly not the right approach.
When people reach middle age, they should communicate more with these three types of people and have more contacts.
The first type of people are old friends who have been friends with us for many years.
The so-called "friends are easy to get, confidants are difficult to find" Like these friends who have been friends for many years, most people will never meet one in their lifetime. If we encounter it, we should cherish it.
The second type of person is the noble person who accompanies us.
There will always be some people who will be by your side when you are unhappy and will help you when you have problems. If we spend more time with these noble people, we will be luckier.
The third type of person truly loves our loved ones.
One word "love" is enough to outweigh ten thousand taels of gold. There is not much true love in this world, and there is even less true love. It has gradually become an unattainable luxury.
Therefore, if we cherish these relatives who love us well, then our quality of life will not be too bad.
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If you have good living habits, I believe that your old age will not be too bad.
There are two brothers in a family, the eldest brother likes sports, when he has time, he goes to climb the mountain, anyway, the physical fitness is particularly good. And the second brother? In addition to going to work, stay at home.
When the eldest brother was fifty years old, he was still refreshed and energetic, and he was even able to pick two or two in the badminton court without falling behind.
The second brother's health is a bit poor. At the age of 45, I had a major operation, not to mention exercise, and I felt that I couldn't catch my breath when I took two steps faster.
Ten years later, the eldest brother retired safely and steadily, receiving a rich pension and traveling the world. However, the second brother said goodbye at the age of 55, which made his wife and children extremely sad.
What does this mean? A good body is the foundation of a happy life. Whether your physical condition is good or not, whether your living habits are regular or not, and whether the amount of exercise is sufficient, will affect the quality of your later years.
Whether a person is a medicine jar or a money jar is not looking at his talent and ability, but at his physical fitness.
Take good care of your body, this is paving the way for the rest of your life.
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Write to the end
Man to fifty, which is a critical point in time. The so-called "hundred years of life, bounded by fifty years old"
How do we "live" our little lives? In fact, we only need to do these three points well.
The first is to keep the family stable. There is a way to "home and everything". Perhaps, its prosperity is also a guarantee for our happiness in our later years.
The second point is to deal with interpersonal relationships. Those who should stay should be retained, and those who should be abandoned should be abandoned. Do a good job of "feelings" planning, then our mentality will be better.
The third point is to develop good living habits. No matter how you're doing right now, I urge you to exercise more. When the money is gone, it can be earned again, and the body collapses, and all the efforts are in vain.
Life is not so complicated. All the beauty and happiness can be traced.
Wen/Shushan has deer