Let's start with a question: If you were a parent of a child, would you throw away your own child?
I believe that many people already have the answer in their hearts.
The vast majority of parents will not be so cruel to their children, after all, this is their own flesh and blood. And parents are even willing to give everything they have to let their children grow up healthy and happy, and live happily.
However, it is inevitable that there are some parents who have made some chilling moves and have not fulfilled their responsibilities and obligations.
Xi'an: The baby girl was abandoned in the grass, with a note left next to her, netizen: Parents are too irresponsible
In Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, the cries of a baby girl were heard in a grassy bush, and she walked toward the grass with the sound and found a baby placed on the ground in the grass.
Next to the baby was milk powder and a note with the child's date of birth and weight data.
Fortunately, the baby was finally found by the traffic police, and then with the help of the traffic police, the baby was transferred to the Xi'an Children's Welfare Institute, and after inspection, it was found that the baby was in good health and there was nothing abnormal.
Then everyone is more curious, since the child does not have any physical defects, then how can the child's parents be so cruel and abandon their newborn child so easily?
With the release of the relevant video, netizens strongly condemned the parents of the baby girl, saying that they were too irresponsible to do so, as the guardian of the child, should play the role of supervision and care, if you do not want the child, then you must think well at the beginning, and take corresponding measures, rather than waiting until the child is born and then abandoning it.
This is unfair to the child, and it is even more worthy of the title of parent. Your abandonment is cruelty to the child.
So calm down and analyze, under what circumstances may the parents of the child choose to abandon the child?
The first possibility is patriarchal preference. Patriarchal preference still exists in some parts of the country or in some families, so that if boys are not born, the status of the family will decline rapidly, and girls will not be treated well in the future.
The second possibility is that the student has an unintended pregnancy. I don't know if you have found that during middle school or college, there are many early love and even intimate relationships among students. So much so that there have been some cases of unwanted pregnancies.
After pregnancy, the two sides have a big disagreement in their attitudes towards children, and most of the men do not want children, after all, they were only students at that time, they did not have the ability to raise children, and they did not even intend to be with the woman for a long time. And some women are not willing to beat up their children, after all, this is a life, is their own flesh and bones.
In this state, the child may be born into this world, but after having a child, in the face of the pressure of raising the child and their own student status, they may choose to escape.
The third is unintended pregnancy between adults. When the Sea Oath Mountain League decided to be together, in the end it was found that it was deceived feelings, the man played and disappeared, and the woman was unwilling to continue to raise the child after giving birth, so this scene may appear.
In general, no matter what kind of situation it belongs to, you can't easily abandon the child, after all, he is innocent, and for you, the child may be dispensable. But for the child, you are all he is.
On the other hand, we should reflect on it, and we should carefully consider before deciding to have children, and make rational choices based on our actual situation. At the same time, before you don't understand each other, don't easily give everything you have to others, otherwise you may end up hurting yourself and suffering silently.
For the parents of this baby girl, the moment you decide to abandon your child, your selfishness is unconsciously revealed. Although raising children requires a certain economic cost, as the saying goes: the poor have a poor way to live, and the rich live the way to live.
As long as you can accompany your child, it is the most valuable asset for your child. As for eating and wearing, as long as you can eat enough to wear warm, the child will not care whether it is a famous brand, whether it is a mountain treasure and sea flavor. Because of the care and care of his parents, he can be satisfied.
What do you think about this?