How the family of two sons lived

I am 37 years old this year, the eldest son 12 second son 8 years old, two sons to say that there is no pressure that is impossible, my goal is to do my best to create conditions for them to live and learn, but do not compare, usually my children's clothes are my sister and my brother's sister's family, they all have a son and bigger than my son, the child is not too picky, the clothes they give are also 89% new, so we save a lot of expenses, but now the children are getting older on their own aesthetics. We also started buying clothes. My husband smokes and drinks occasionally, but he does not drive and refuel, does not gamble, does not have so much socializing, and the monthly salary is handed over to me, we are paid about 80,000 yuan a year. I opened a tutoring class at home to see the children, about 5,000 per month, I also have no expenses, so we bought the first house last year 86 square meters, loan for 10 years, and now there are about 300,000 in hand, emergency use, but also waiting for the second down payment.

Another is the child's education, the child is trained well is the king, otherwise how much money is useless, I opened my own tutoring class, originally for my own children, the eldest three, the second almost 10 or so, the teacher left the homework seriously, before going to bed to memorize ancient poems, discuss the wrong topics. The kids loved it, they loved to look at their phones too, and there was a time limit. In life, I also think that boys should be able to do more, the boss can cook his own food, and our second son in the countryside will also help burn the fire, sweep the floor, and clean up the house.

Although the two sons are tired, but I think the future is very bright, the two sons are also a kind of happiness, do not force yourself, how can you know how much ability you have!