When a person interacts with you, he always covets too much, repeatedly squeezes you, asks you to do this for him, does that for him, completely ignores your feelings, ignores your situation, does not give you room for negotiation, at this time, you should have some awakening: is he only thinking of squeezing you, not taking you to heart.
At the same time, the other party often indulges himself, indulges in vices, does something that makes you feel unhappy, and repeatedly disappoints you, at this time, how much you hope that he can change, and he does not take you seriously, repeatedly disappointing you. At this time, you should be aware that what he values may be himself, and he does not care about your feelings.
On the other hand, if the other party cares about you, treats you as his own, wants to raise eyebrows with you, and stays together forever, at this time, he will take care of your feelings and understand your situation. Love you deeply, "three not greedy"; reluctant, "there are three changes", do you understand?
Three non-greedy:
1. Do not covet you to give him glory and wealth.
The other party really loves you, thinks that you are a good match he has been looking for for a long time, he looks at you well, and he only wants to be with you.
At this time, even if you have many deficiencies and cannot give him glory and wealth, he is willing to live with you the days you can give him, and he will be content and happy.
In other words, the person who loves you, knowing that you are not perfect, will still have a deep affection for you, even if you pull the deer car together and be a chaimi couple, he also feels happy.
2. Don't covet you to let him do everything.
People who love you deeply have you in their hearts.
No matter when, no matter where, no matter what happens between you, he will think for you from your point of view, for you.
He knew that if two people wanted to be together for a long time, it should not be "the east wind overwhelms the west wind", nor should it be "the west wind overwhelms the east wind", but mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual humility.
Therefore, he will not covet you to obey him absolutely, nor will he ask you to compromise with him in the name of loving you.
3. Don't covet you to give everything for him.
When the opposite sex is together, the other party will be affectionate with you, and will think for you. He knows that you have limited resources, that you have people and things that you value, and that he will not demand perfection from you or that you will give everything to him.
He will always think for you from your point of view, encourage you to pursue your dreams, and encourage you to do your own thing well.
Moreover, he will respect your social freedom, will not ask you to give him all the love, he will allow you to make some friends, encourage you to do filial piety, and support you to treat those around you well.
There are three variations:
1. Become humble.
When two people are together, the other party has no interest in you, does not take you seriously, and does not care too much about the love between you.
At this time, he will value his dignity, care about his face, often pretend to be reserved, do not frequently take the initiative to contact you, and rarely do something to please you.
He will always ask you to be able to take more initiative with him, if you are not active enough, not enthusiastic enough for him, he may ignore you and snub you for a long time.
However, he has a deep affection for you, treating you as his own, at this time, he will cherish the love between you, hope that you can treat him kindly, stay with him, he is worried that he is not doing well enough, let you down, afraid that he has neglected you, will make you feel lost, for this reason, he will often slowly become humble, often take the initiative to do something to please you, the other party released such a signal, indicating that he really cares about you.
2. Become proactive.
When two people are together, if the other party does not take you seriously, feels that the feelings between you are dispensable, she is not rare, at this time, he may appear a little passive, will not care too much about your feelings, often ignore your existence, never take the initiative to find you, and may not seem to care enough about your affairs.
However, when he is sincerely in love with you, he will naturally attach importance to the feelings between you and want to stay with you, for this reason, he will take the initiative to contact you, often talk to you, and express his concern for you.
At the same time, he will take the initiative to understand your things, mix with your things, often enthusiastic to do some things for you, bring some surprises to your life, the other party attaches so much importance to you, indicating that his heart really cares about you.
3. Become understanding of you.
When two people are together, the other person does not pay attention to you, lacks attention to your affairs, never pays attention to your life situation, cannot listen to your words, even if you have been together for a long time, he may not understand you.
However, when the other party really looks at you and wants to be with you, at this time, he will often focus on your affairs, pay special attention to your affairs, and often keep your affairs in mind.
At this time, he will pay attention to your life situation, on your things, well-known, it is because he has seriously understood you, paid attention to your life, this is becoming more and more understanding of you, often able to use the way you expect to communicate with you, give you some surprises, which makes you feel that he is very understanding, meticulous and thoughtful, in fact, the other party values the feelings between you, reluctant to let you down, will be so attentive to understand you, will understand you like this, do not realize.