What is it like to marry a good wife? On the first day of marriage, you finally finished the wedding, and the two of you sat on the bed counting the money, happy like two idiots. She asked you, are you tired today? You say you are not tired, how can you be tired to marry you home? When you did the wedding, you gave some bride price, no more and no less in line with the environment, did not expect ah, she secretly took out a card, said that the bride price is inside, her parents also posted a piece of it. You can use this money to buy a big house, and at that moment, you feel that you must have saved the galaxy in your previous life.
In the third year of marriage, your child was born, and watching this crumpled little guy love and hate, it was he who tortured your wife for ten months, but you soon realized that the real pain had just begun, that it was harder than you thought to be with the child, and you started arguing, but soon reconciled again. She leaned on your shoulder and said, or my husband is reliable, otherwise I don't know what to do, it is because of this sentence, you go to work during the day, and you get up at night to change the diaper and feed your child, just to let the new mother sleep more, this year you are very tired, but very satisfied. Because there are two people you love the most waiting for you to come home.
In the fifth year of work, there is a little problem with your work, the salary has not risen but has fallen, the new leader is still a few years younger than you, but dares to point at your nose and scold you, you want to say that it is a big deal that I will not do it, but think about the wife and children, or endure. You are very depressed, thinking that people in their 30s still have to suffer from this kind of anger, light a cigarette downstairs, sit for a long time before you come home, push open the door, and your wife tells you that the child is sleeping. You sit softly on the couch and she pours you a glass of hot boiling water and asks if you're tired. You say it's okay, you have a little trouble at work, and after a while it will be fine. She saw your hardships and said let's change jobs if it hurts. We could change to a smaller house or not drive, and that would be nice. At that moment, you feel that no amount of anger is worth it.
In the seventh year of marriage, your work has finally improved, but the topic with her is getting less and less, most of them are talking about children, this year the company came to an intern, you see this little girl is not easy, just take care of some more, she is very grateful, want to ask you to watch the movie, you said that young people have to work hard, the movie or watch it with your boyfriend. My wife waited for me to go home, it was also that day, your wife and you complained about how naughty the child was, I don't know how, I said to an old classmate before, she said that the Zhang who chased me before you remember it, he came to us on this business trip and said he wanted to invite me to dinner, you asked her, then you go? She said, I don't want to go, unless you go with me, you look at the wife and children are particularly satisfied, a man's life is not the wife and children hot kang head.
Then it was the eighth year, the ninth year, the tenth year, and many years later, your love slowly became a family affection, but it seemed that nothing had changed, and she was still the little girl who had just married you. One day, she asked you, are you tired after all these years with me? You think about it as if you are really tired, but you are still like the day you were just married, but you still firmly said, not tired, how can you be tired with you?
Therefore, men don't want much, he only hopes to have a warm harbor, as long as you don't lie to him, don't hide from him, don't be ambiguous with others, see the information will return, hear the phone will answer, don't come to his peak, don't abandon him when he is at a low, this is enough.
He is not afraid of suffering and tiredness, only afraid that after giving everything, the two true hearts can not be exchanged, if you are willing to understand him, understand him, willing to feel sorry for the little boy who lives in his heart, he will take all his heart to you, and will also give you all the loyalty and enthusiasm.