Sayings：
The emotions of these two days at the end of the year are too complicated.
While we were looking forward to the New Year, all kinds of wishes, and face-slapping flags, we were a little frustrated.
Thinking that this year did not make money, did not talk about a good relationship, wanted to resign but did not dare, feel "wasted a year".
There's a song in the Summer Invasion Project called "A Guide to Waste in Life," and I love the title.
It allows us to do something that doesn't make sense in the eyes of others in addition to pursuing a standardized life.
I got some friends like this:
They have given up their chances, taken detours, and are not favored, but everyone is extremely happy.
Even if there is no progress and no progress in life, such a time does not mean that there is no harvest and no growth.
Because all year round, just standing here, not going backwards is a worthwhile thing.
I've probably spent my whole life baking.
See the smile, here's the gingerbread man I made:
It also makes this kind of ghost look.
Although the finished product is not very satisfactory, who says that taking the time to study a thing will immediately have good results.
In this life, if the process is happy and have fun, it is also a great blessing.
During my PhD, I learned watercolor and CG on youtube.
Landscapes and characters are all painted, and I will show you my painting style:
Later, during his doctoral studies, he wrote a novel of tens of thousands of words and won the Douban Essay Award.
Of course, taking that time to research how to publish a paper may be more conducive to finding a job, but I don't seem to be a tool rational person all the time.
I love to draw, it calms me down.
How much time you spend, how much skill you have, you can see it in a painting, and you can't take a shortcut.
This kind of good attitude is also of great help to my later research work.
People don't have to live so correctly all the time, and they don't have to do what they are interested in purposelessly, and there may be unexpected gains.
I've been operating in an Internet company for the first 6 years, but I just want to make music.
One year I went to Japan to play and saw a video store in Tokyo that said "No music no life."
I was hit in an instant, and it felt like this was a signal from God in the darkness.
I work during the day and shut myself in my room at night to listen to dozens of pieces of music, and I study Chinese pop music all over again.
Eason Chan, Sun Yanzi, Faye Wong looped... Study how to write lyrics and how to arrange music.
Although I didn't make music as soon as I graduated, and I thought I had wasted 6 years, I was surprised to find that the operation work in those years had cultivated my excellent summary and insight.
Applying the method of finding regularity to music, it soon became clear that most of the chords of popular songs were 1645.
As long as I practice long enough, I can write a complete song.
A year later, I succeeded in my graduate school, resigned, and am now a student in the composition department.
Mr. Yu Shicun also said a very comforting word to me:
"Young people, your duty is to level the land, not to worry about the time, you do the things of March and April, and you have your own answers in August and September."
I am a male student who graduated from a Top 2 school and went to do domestic work after graduation.
Should you graduate from a prestigious university and become an extroverted, conquering elite? I don't think so.
Virgo, I like too much those boys are not interested in, "family chores".
The neatness and order of everyday life is important to me.
Even if I graduate from renting a house, I will seriously study the transformation of rental housing, and my family has only trash cans.
Wall-attached trash cans, automatic lid open trash cans, automatic packing trash cans and so on.
For me, mopping the floor and washing dishes after work is a daily pleasure.
Before, the buddies who lived in a dormitory would laugh at me and say that it was from the housekeeping company, which buried the good talent.
In fact, I just like "housekeeping" things.
What happened to the graduation of famous schools, the happiness of workers, all rely on self-entertainment.
Now I am 30 years old, and I have invested all my savings to start a housekeeping company, the main business is maid, deep cleaning, home experience transformation and so on.
Do what you like, so that you will not have the bitter feeling of hitting workers.
Besides, who says housekeeping isn't an elite?
I was a bully since I was a child, and I was admitted to a famous 211 school in Shanghai to study international trade.
At that time, the ideal life was to struggle in Shanghai, and then go to foreign companies to live a bright white-collar life.
Unexpectedly, the third year of college met the current boyfriend.
Both of us are from Anhui, and he feels that not everyone should stay in big factories and big cities and want to go back to their hometowns for development.
After several struggles, I decided I was going to elope for love.
My hometown is in Anqing, the job is not easy to find, at the beginning I felt that there were few job choices and low wages.
But after a year, I really feel the joy of working in my hometown.
First of all, close to home, can often go home to accompany the mother, do intimate little cotton jacket;
The children are around and will drive out together from time to time.
This is completely unimaginable in Shanghai, tired to death at work, living far away from each other, and seeing each other on weekends is more difficult than ascending to the sky.
Returning to my hometown is back to the happy nest, and I can call on my old friends to go and play at any time.
Drive to the surrounding farms to pick strawberries, fish, soak in hot springs... This simple life makes me feel at ease.
Even if the 211 degree doesn't come in handy, for me, there's nothing more worthwhile than life and love.
△ Reflection of my boyfriend and I's happiness
30 years old preparing for the second exam of architects.
Wake up at 6 a.m. every morning and go to bed at 12 p.m., for a whole month.
The last time the "Venue and Architectural Design" exam was not passed, this time the outline was read no less than 10 times, the simulation test paper was done 10 times, I thought that this time I could finally succeed, the result was still a few points.
△ The annual Horror Exam Contest
On the day of the results, a man was running out on the street. I want to cry when I see everything, I feel that the end of the world is over, how can I be so miserable, and I still doubt myself: "I am 30 years old, what should I do if I can't take the exam again?" Do you want to continue? ”
As a result, just two weeks later, I couldn't help but pick up the books again after work and prepare for the third exam.
I also want to try it hard, and I will never find the exact answer without trying.
Because until now, I still see beautiful buildings that can't move, like to study its lines, structure, aesthetic foundation and humanistic temperament, and want to one day design the building of my own design.
If you are willing to do this in an environment that no one knows and no one approves.
No doubt, that's when I really love it.
【Write at the end】
Have you ever noticed that before making a decision, we are always used to talking about:
What will be the result of doing this? What's the point?
We worry about whether the time spent is worth it, dare not take a detour, dare not wander outside the standard.
No one dared to ask, "Why can we only talk about the meaning of life, not the meaning of life?" ”
Today, I would like to ask you to stop first, and not rush to fight and get.
Even a challenge that may fail, a persistence without results.
Be bold and spend some time, miss out on some opportunities... But it allows you to recognize what you love and find your way, and it's not in vain.
Life is not an exam question, there is no printed standard answer.
Life is good because it is meaningless, so that we can each give meaning.
Written by: Good luck with meat
Editor-in-charge: Yuan Sandian
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Life can be meaningless
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