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May all the regrets of this year be the foreshadowing of the surprises of the coming year| Cheng Yi
"What's your biggest regret about 2021?"
Some people say that they have not been admitted to the school of their choice;
Some people say that it is because of the epidemic that they have not been able to go to the places they want to go;
Others say that the most regrettable thing is to break up with someone they like.
Life is always like this, full of regrets, rarely complete.
But as this netizen said:
"Regret may also be a kind of fulfillment of the years."
Then say goodbye.
Seal the people and things that you can't have in this year.
A few days ago, Weibo had a hot search topic:
"Never been together and broke up, which is more regrettable?"
Some say the former, some say the latter.
In fact, I think that maybe we are not entangled and regret these two.
What is really hard for us to let go of is why we have not been able to love to the end.
Just like taking a car, taking a reverse car, or even missing the car, can be forgiven.
What's really sad is that the train didn't take you to the finish line.
Like a line in the movie "Only Yun Knows":
"The man who was left halfway, bitter."
But love is sometimes like this, and it is easy to fall in love with each other.
Some time ago, Ji Lingchen announced his new relationship on the Internet.
He posted a picture of his new girlfriend and generously admitted that he was in love again.
As soon as the news came out, netizens dreamed back to the love-hate entanglement between him and Kan Qingzi.
At first, Ji Lingchen promised Kan Qingzi that he would marry her when she was thirty years old.
At that time, they had been in love for seven or eight years, and their feelings were like glue.
Everyone is optimistic about them and is waiting for them to make sugar.
But later, Kan Qingzi was a person's thirtieth birthday.
She did not wait for the wedding, but waited for the end of the breakup.
In "Tangerine Sheng Huainan", it is said:
"Like it or not, love or not, fit or not, not together, can't live together, have no name, can't go on, is seven things." 」
I think so.
In love, not all love will have a satisfactory result.
The princess and the prince are happy together, and it is mostly just a fairy tale.
In the film and television section, the collision between the car and the car is called a car accident, and the love between people is called love.
But in reality, cars and cars always give way, and people and people always miss.
Orange and boyfriend are separated hands in June this year.
They were together for three years and separated for half a year.
The reason for the breakup is because the distance is too far.
The breakup was actually mentioned by Tangerine first.
She mentioned breaking up, not because she had changed her mind or didn't love anymore.
She still loved, but the love was too tired to move.
In the three years in the distance, they have seen each other countless times.
Originally, the two people were busy at work, coupled with the two years of epidemics, erratic.
The opportunity to meet has changed from once every six months to only once a year.
Every time we meet, it is the orange who takes the initiative to propose and take the initiative to go.
"At first, I feel nothing, but I feel tired after a long time."
She said she didn't mind giving more.
She minded that he took her efforts for granted.
Every New Year's Festival, she sends him red envelopes and buys gifts.
And every year on her birthday, he was either too busy to forget, or he didn't know what kind of gift she liked, afraid of picking it badly, so he simply didn't buy it.
In February of this year, they met for the last time.
Booking hotels, eating, taking taxis, and even buying water are all out of her pocket.
Even on the day she mentioned the breakup, he didn't say a word.
"You just want to wait for me to take the initiative to mention it, so that you can appear to be the one who has been let down, right?"
"If you think so, I can't help it."
She mentioned the breakup, and the person who couldn't put it down was also her.
Yesterday she told me that she had been thinking about getting back together lately.
She wanted to try again and get her ex back.
She messaged him, called him, and left messages on his Microblog.
"Change me to chase you this time, okay?"
"I promise, promise that no matter what, this time, I will never mention the word breakup again."
In his NetEase Cloud, game account, Douyin.
All the social software that can send private messages, she sent them one by one.
Not surprisingly, he did not agree.
"I already have a girlfriend, don't bother me later."
Tachibana said that when she heard him say this, she felt as sad as if her heart had died.
"It's only been half a year since the breakup, and he got his girlfriend back together so quickly.
But I was still like a fool, thinking that he still had me in his heart. ”
Obsession is like a net, and most of the trapped people are nostalgic for the past.
People who remember the past are like scavengers, silent, but they can't forget.
"The road of love is not to say that it is full of thorns, but also a low-lying five steps.
Ten steps at the intersection, one wrong step is one wrong step.
Luckily arrived at the end, it was difficult to escape the mud. ”
Love is like this, and so is life.
Always full of regrets, only by learning to accept can we keep moving forward.
2021 is almost over, and it's time for some people to let go.
Memories are beautiful, but they can't nourish the present and the future.
Those who can't have it, just say goodbye.
In the new year of 2022, in the coming spring,
Click "Watching" and hope that all the regrets this year will be the foreshadowing of the surprises of the coming year.
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