Always envious of those collagen-full of young girls, after chasing the drama "Xiao MinJia", but more and more fans of those people to middle age, can still hang a breath of fairy breath, free to live into ageless sister women.
Liu Xiaomin, the female number one of "Xiaomin's Family", this role is simply tailor-made for Zhou Xun. Liu Xiaomin's name is very ordinary, and there is a kind of small family daughter qi in the mortal city, but this woman's style of life and career and love is all over her body, exuding an otherworldly "fairy feeling" from the inside out. The exquisite and agile Zhou Xun, playing this "atypical" middle-aged woman, has become the driving force for many netizens to chase the drama.
Liu Xiaomin, 43, is the chief nurse of the International Department of Peking University Hospital, and her business ability is among the leaders in the industry. Relying on his own struggle for more than ten years, he bought a two-bedroom and one-living open house, and also earned a Beijing hukou for his son who lived with her ex-husband in his hometown of Jiujiang, Jiangxi.
Liu Xiaomin's temperament is simple, and there is no sense of "motherhood" of women of the same age. Since childhood, he has loved beauty, loves to read poetry, and has a strong artistic atmosphere. When he was young, he worked in his hometown hospital, got married and had children in his hometown of Jiujiang, and became a book pal and pen pal with Teacher Su, who also loved to read poetry. At that time, the small town was closed, and this kind of male-female friendship had no living space at all, Xiao Min went to Teacher Su's dormitory to return the book, and was "caught" by Teacher Su's wife.
Working hard in the single life in the north, Xiao Min is accustomed to the quiet and freedom of being alone. No need to compare with others to husband, no adult intoxicated chicken babies, no need to handle three meals a day, she can live as light as a girl. She said, "Beautiful until you die." ”
Having experienced marriage and divorce, and experienced the suspension of life and worldliness, Liu Xiaomin has learned to take and put down people and things that have made him entangled in middle age.
Jin Bo, who hurt her ex-husband, followed her son to Beijing and had no place to live, she booked a hotel without saying a word; and looked at her son's face, she could help her ex-husband, did not slander or accuse, did not give a chance to compound; li Ping, a plastic flower sister, released her previous suspicions and became a good girlfriend who could meet frankly.
Letting go of the past and letting go of entanglements is especially difficult for middle-aged women. In the above state, Liu Xiaomin has made a lot of middle-aged women envious of the red eyes. What's more, people's sons are still super masters who are not Tsinghua and do not read, and they also have a stoic but romantic middle-aged love.
Liu Xiaomin's love object is played by Teacher Huang Lei, a gentle and down-to-earth white-collar man Who is good at making people happy. Chen Zhuo follows Huang Lei's "small" character series style, broken mouth and intimate, will play romantic, he really likes Liu Xiaomin, is really good to Xiaomin, the two were once sweet and sweet.
The life of an ordinary middle-aged woman is a trivial matter, even a chicken flying dog jumping. And Liu Xiaomin's middle-aged life, like her calmness and composure when she deals with the dangers of the mothers experiencing the ghost gate in the delivery room, is not alarmed, and everything is under control. The workplace is beautiful and sassy, and it can always give women extra points.
Liu Xiaomin is not a sample of the life of an elderly woman in reality, and it is precisely because it is not that it is more aspirational. Television art should be like this, from life and higher than life, let people see the good and hope, give people the heart and motivation to move forward to the good.
What impresses a woman most about Liu Xiaomin is her posture in love and life. In general, middle-aged women, old and young, rarely can live calmly for themselves. On their life list, the ranking is usually children, parents, husbands, and consciously rank themselves last.
It seems that when people reach middle age, they are a good mother, a good daughter,a good daughter-in-law, a good wife, which is more important than being yourself. Silently dedicating to the family for marriage, and even sacrificing oneself, seems to be a hard instruction given to women by society, and it is a glorious mission given to women. Men are more dashing than women because they are accustomed to self-development and rarely allow themselves to be torn apart by the waywardness of the family by marriage.
In life, Liu Xiaomin does not have so many paranoid gender senses. She allowed herself not to cook, allowed herself to participate in her son's life less comprehensively, allowed herself not to worry about her mother and sister... In her free time, she would rather recite a few professional English words than go downstairs for a fitness run.
For love, she is willing to cooperate with Chen Zhuo to complete his romantic plan at 12:00 a.m. Sitting in the trunk of the car, drinking champagne and watching the stars, holding up your mobile phone to record what you want to say to each other... Not attached, not demanding, not even asking about marriage. The picture of love is to be happy together, to be able to "temporarily escape from the world, and to be happy in time."
Middle-aged women, it turns out, can also be like a young girl with a lot of good years, enjoy love, enjoy the beauty, do not hesitate, do not want to be weak, do not chase for the heavy result.
"No matter what age people are, they must remember that they are also independent individuals with names", as netizens commented, Liu Xiaomin's greatest charm is to dare to live himself. Although she also gave up her interaction with Chen Zhuo in order not to affect her son's college entrance examination. But moderate forbearance and restraint are the indifference and sanity of middle-aged women. She was sure that she would not be able to run.
Life is not easy, people in this life, will experience a variety of unsatisfactory. What is rare is that in the rolling torrent of smoke and dust life, clearly looking at the troubles and problems in front of you, still love life, still stubbornly hang a breath, and try to live lightly, as if you have never been hung by life.
At present, domestic dramas, "big heroine", palace scheming, mother-in-law fighting, chicken baby magic, extramarital affairs, all kinds of female images go forward and follow, ordinary and ordinary Liu Xiaomin is eye-catching.
Perhaps in this era, women passively carry too much, live too tangled and too heavy. Yearning for ethereality, yearning for lightness, yearning for people to be able to get rid of the strong "mother's taste" in middle age, yearning to be able to live into their favorite look.
Longing to live liu Xiaomin is actually yearning to live into a real self. However, most women do not have Liu Xiaomin's courage and courage.