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The people who have become great things in ancient times have always been calm and quiet, they know how to restrain their own light, and they will not make enemies for themselves because they are too dazzling. No matter what kind of things you encounter, you are calm and calm, and you can deal with it freely.
Such a person knows how to hide clumsiness and has wisdom and patterns that ordinary people do not have.
Sheng Minglan, the heroine of the TV series "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny", is a typical example.
She has known the truth of hiding clumsiness since she was a child, not to be sharp and radical in everything, not only to protect herself, but also to be low-key and not to be discovered and targeted, so as to have more time and energy to improve herself.
Minglan is intelligent and visionary.
This attitude allowed her to reach a realm that ordinary people do not have, not only to live an ideal life, but also to meet a lover who is enough to accompany her for life.
Just as the so-called tree is a big move, the really smart and patterned women understand that the quieter and more low-key you are, the more unnoticed you are, and thus the more opportunities you have to rewrite your destiny.
Whether it is in the TV series or in life, it is the same truth.
If a woman knows how to be quiet in the following three things, then she is far from being as simple as it seems, then one of them cannot be underestimated.
One: be able to keep quiet when you are single, do not force or settle
Everyone has different encounters and fates, some people meet true love in their teens, and some people are still single after thirty.
There's no such thing as good or bad, just different.
It's just that some women, if they have not been able to meet love, will easily mess up their proportions and positions, and may even be unable to resist the pressure of the outside world and casually make up for a home.
But another kind of woman is just the opposite, they have always been unhurried, extremely assertive, even if they have not met the right person, they will choose to go with the flow, do not force nor will, but silently improve themselves, live their own lives well.
Such women are undoubtedly intelligent women, they not only have a strong heart, but also have a very mature mind and a large pattern. They don't care too much about what others think, but they really know how to live for themselves.
Two: Be able to keep quiet when men do not take the initiative to contact themselves, and silently do their own thing
Once many women fall in love, it is easy to lose their minds, but when men snub themselves, they immediately panic, and can't help but think about whether men have changed their minds, do not love, or whether they are unattractive.
In fact, women who have this kind of thinking are still not confident in themselves.
On the one hand, I am not confident in my own charm, on the other hand, I do not trust the other party, and these are ultimately because I am not mature and strong enough inside.
You know, women who really have a pattern understand that love and men are never the whole of their lives, in addition to these, they also have friends, jobs, and a whole broad life.
Only by realizing this will you not revolve around men all the time.
Everyone is an independent individual, only if you become yourself first, first have the ability to be yourself independently, in order to love each other with a complete attitude. Otherwise, even if the other party loves you at the beginning and sees through you, he will not regard you as an appendage of him. He won't respect you, he won't look up to you, he won't even cherish you.
Women who can stay quiet when men don't initiate contact with themselves are often women who live out their own lives and can't be underestimated.
Three: can keep quiet when life rises and falls, everything goes naturally, calm and calm
Life is not smooth sailing, but ups and downs.
Don't forget when you are proud, don't show off deliberately, on the one hand, it will attract too much attention and criticism for you, on the other hand, it will make you gradually lose yourself.
Everything is low-key, is a mature person should have the posture, after all, the tree is a big move, the more eye-catching you are, the more dangerous it is.
In the same way, do not be too disappointed and discouraged when you fall into a trough, this is extremely normal, as long as you adjust your mentality, silently improve yourself, work hard silently, sooner or later one day will return to the light.
Life goes up and down, and women who can laugh at honor and disgrace and gain and loss are often not simple. They go with the flow of everything and always remain calm and calm, which shows how strong their hearts are and how mature and profound their thoughts are.
Whether a woman is smart or not, whether she is a pattern, can be seen from her attitude towards life and love.
If she can keep a quiet and low profile on the above three things, it can be seen that her thinking is mature, her heart is strong, and she is a person who is truly worthy of admiration and deep friendship.
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