In this life, people are a journey that has no return.
We all hope to be able to grasp the limited life and do many vigorous things.
Love the people you like, do interesting things, and live a life that is less bumpy and more smooth. When it comes to the end of life, everyone can swear that this life is worth it.
Looking forward to consummation is a wish that everyone will have.
Especially when facing love, everyone will hope that they can hold hands with the people they love.
When the two parties have established a relationship and walked together in the long river of the rest of their lives, they can bring the two hearts closer and closer, and finally achieve an emotional story. For this purpose, everyone pays at any cost, even blindly.
Especially for women, the direction of their lives for the rest of their lives is not unrelated to love and marriage. So, once she meets someone who is destined, women tend to go all out as a way to grab the happiness of the rest of their lives.
Where does a woman's blessing come from?
Some people will think that by constantly perfecting love and becoming the object that men are willing to protect, they can seize the blessing.
In fact, this is not the case.
There is an old saying that goes: "The mountain will fall, and everyone will run." ”
In the world of emotions, it is not that you will be able to grasp the heart of a man if you work hard. If you meet a man who can be sincere and keep his original intentions, it is certainly a blessing for women.
But many times, men are fickle.
Once upon a time, he might have said the words of the mountain and the sea to you.
If one day, the freshness in love is missing, or the career ushers in frustration, many changes are easy for a man to change his original intention. When in such a dilemma, can a woman's happiness still depend on men to give?
I think the answer should be no.
In this world, the most reliable person is actually himself.
In Mr. Yang Dai's "The Two of Us", she describes the process of emotional growth. When Qian Zhongshu died, Mr. Yang Dai was sad and sad, and finally picked up a pen to record the family's getting along.
In the independent spiritual world, Mr. Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu met again.
In the form of words, Mr. Yang Dai remembers his lover and describes the happiness of the family. In another way, Mr. Yang Dai regained the happiness of his old age. In the spiritual world, the old man has rediscovered his blessings at the age of 105, which can be described as a truly blessed person.
From Mr. Yang Chen's experience, we can realize that women who are truly blessed will actually "love themselves".
No matter what kind of situation she is in, such a woman can find herself and position, and find the happiness she wants. Instead of being in the midst of grief and sorrow, drifting away from luck.
Pinning happiness on others may usher in disappointment.
Only by maintaining enough independence can we achieve a different self in the passage of time. And in this way, you will also be favored by Heaven. So, from the perspective of girls, how to take care of yourself?
Maintain the independence of the spiritual world.
How two people get along tests the wisdom of many people.
Some girls will think that when they meet a man they love, they should be attached to each other.
Everything is based on men's suggestions, and he is willing to choose to rotate around each other. In fact, such a mode of getting along will not only make women lose their charm, but also make men's love disappear.
Because, in a truly fortunate relationship, the couple is often equal.
Everyone stands in an equal position to communicate, in order to find a sense of mutual belonging, in order to calm down, together to manage love. If the feelings are unbalanced, then the fate of each other will continue to be exhausted in the run-in.
As a girl, you need to maintain spiritual independence.
Even if she loves someone very much, women should find themselves and have their own opinions and opinions on some things. And such a woman can not only win the respect of men, but also live a thoughtful life.
Do what interests you.
What is happiness? Many people don't know.
You may think that it is a kind of happiness to have people waiting and eating every day.
In fact, such happiness is too superficial. If one day, the person who guarded you suddenly changed his mind, how should you treat yourself in the face of such an ending?
From a psychological point of view, true happiness should come from a sense of solidity, achievement, and belonging. Lucky love may be able to bring you such feelings.
However, if you choose to be attached to your lover, there is one more variable in your emotions.
Only by pinning your hopes on yourself, finding things that interest you, and supporting your independence in this way will bring you more happiness.
If one day, you meet love, hold hands with each other and enter the marriage.
Maybe you will make some necessary compromises for the sake of your family, and even lose a rare job. In fact, these are not the main factors affecting your happiness, if you don't even know what you are interested in, then for the rest of your life, how to find a peace of mind.
Many people can understand the meaning of cherishing themselves.
But they don't know where to start, and even think that it is a kind of happiness to be able to eat and wear warm every day. Of course, this kind of happiness, if it is obtained by relying on its own strength, is certainly reliable.
If you are attached to others, then this sense of happiness can easily leave you.
When everyone is in the emotion, they encounter confusion and can't find the beauty they want. You may wish to learn from Mr. Yang Dai, learn to "love yourself", and be a blessed woman.
From now on, maintain spiritual independence and be an assertive woman. Find something that interests you and be able to turn it into your own specialty. Such a woman can often hold happiness in her hands.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.