For many people now, a small family may feel lonely if they have a child, so many people still resist the fine to have two children when they are only allowed to have one child.
Nowadays, even if the three-child policy is relaxed, there are not many families that really want to have three children, after all, raising children from childhood to adulthood is not a small amount of money, if a boy grows up and marries a daughter-in-law, it is equivalent to half a life for the parents.
Recently, a netizen in Yongcheng County, Shangqiu County, Henan Province, "Yongcheng Cuisine", visited the real situation of a local family of ten people, a 56-year-old man, actually had eight children with his wife, one of which was a girl and eight boys, and the pressure of life was too great, right?
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When the enthusiastic beauty netizen interviewed the uncle, he learned that the uncle was 56 years old, but he was only married to his daughter-in-law at the age of 36, and now the eldest son is 22 years old and can rely on himself, but there are still seven small ones in the family.
The uncle is holding the youngest child in the family, Xiao Eight, who is just one year old and eight months this year, for the question of having so many children, netizens asked him whether he would have children in the future? The uncle actually said: If you can be born, you will scatter without being born, and I am not too much to regenerate two or three.
Listen to the uncle's meaning, this is completely no contraception, casual meaning ah. Many times a family has so many children, the heart must be afraid, after all, the child is born needs the cost of living to support, just eating, drinking and sleeping is not an easy thing.
When netizens asked the uncle how much it would cost if his seven sons got married and married his daughter-in-law in the future, he did not expect the uncle to answer: "How much does it cost?" Hey, let's not (ask), I don't even bother with this! ”
When netizens asked how much money they could pay for when the time came, the uncle actually said that he could take out three dollars and two dollars, and if it was not enough, he would borrow it from the neighbors. And usually these children's eating and drinking, it is very simple, just eat a little sweet potato, steamed bread, meat is even more unimaginable things.
Seeing so many children eating three meals a day and living such a simple life, netizens asked the uncle who was born, wasn't it suffering at home? The uncle replied with a very philosophical sentence, which made people unable to refute, and the uncle said: "The dog is not poor, the child is not ugly, and there is no bitter sweetness." ”
In fact, so many children in the uncle's family are very sensible, although the uncle's wife does not look young, sitting at home is also a tool to eat and have a baby. But the eldest has begun to earn money, and the second and the children below are the big ones taking care of the small ones.
When netizens saw that the second elder of the family used a spoon to scoop the porridge in the pot, there were more or less in seven or eight bowls, and asked him why he served one less? The little boy said, "More for my brother!" "Let many people see the innocent eyes of children, and they can't help but be moved."
For the uncle, perhaps the idea of having more children is more than one blessing. However, these children have no choice about which family they are born into, and all they can choose is how to live in the future, and it is the way to get ahead.
Many netizens think that the uncle has so many children, there must be pressure in the heart, but I did not expect the uncle to tell everyone directly: No, there are a few boys I do not have, there is no heart! It can be seen that only those who do not have pressure in their hearts will have the courage to say such things.
For the children at home to cook, wash clothes, most of them are the children themselves to do, many of the younger brother's clothes are washed by the second eldest in the family, these children have exercised the ability to rely on themselves from an early age.
The place where the children live is also where two people take care of each other separately, and the bed also lacks quilts and mattresses. But the children are still happy and the family is very happy to live together.
The uncle may not live as well as others in this life, but he has placed all his hopes on the children, just the names he gave to the eight children, you can see the uncle's most simple ideas, the uncle gave the names of the eight children, it can be said that one is louder than the other.
The eldest is 22 years old this year, his name is Hong Kong; the second is 10 years old, his name is Aerospace; the third is 9 years old this year, his name is Jinshan; the fourth is 8 years old, his name is Yinshan; the fifth is a girl, 5 years old, his name is Yinfeng; the sixth is 4 years old, his name is bank; the seventh is 3 years old, his name is Treasury; the eighth is one and a half years old this year, his name is International.
For the uncle's idea of preparing to give birth to a child regardless of the fact that he has been preparing to give birth, many netizens are also very worried, after all, in the end, it is the child who suffers. If you start from the second oldest to grow up and get married and marry a daughter-in-law, the uncle should be more than eighty years old, what else can he do?
According to the uncle, he took care of the children of the family and did not go out to work, and a year was the income of four or five acres of land and four or five thousand yuan. Imagine how difficult it is to raise so many children.
Finally, the beautiful Internet celebrity prepared food for the uncle's family for almost half a month, from rice noodles and oil vegetables, all the way to half a fan of pork, instant noodles and other items, all delivered to the doorstep, giving the uncle a solution to the urgent need.
Of course, I believe that the uncle dares to have so many children, the local government still has a low-security subsidy, otherwise he would not be so bold to have so many children. Now that the country has liberalized the three-child policy, the uncle has made a contribution to giving birth to so many children!
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