Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Dreaming back in the middle of the night, sometimes it will be lost, and it seems to go back to the past.
Looking back on the days that have passed over the years, it is really not easy.
People live a lifetime, just a few decades, the sad thing is not to get old, but to get old on the way to not treat themselves well.
After the age of 50, don't be sentimental, every point is very realistic, and comparing it with our lives is like talking about each person himself.
After half a lifetime of hurrying, half a lifetime of toiling, and half a lifetime of worry, it's time to take a break. Be sure to cherish your health, don't work so hard for money, in this life, health is your biggest capital.
Wilde said: "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifetime of romance." ”
On the road to slowly getting older, we should learn to be kind to ourselves. "Do your best, obey the destiny", be positive and compliant, and believe that everything is the best arrangement.
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People who live to be 50 years old should be able to see a lot of things.
Not everyone is worthy of your kindness, and sometimes you compare your heart to your heart, and others will not look in the eye. Sometimes since others don't know how to cherish your good, you have to learn to be kind to yourself, not everyone is worth your heart and lungs like this.
After the age of 50, please stop being sentimental. Things that are beyond the scope of your ability, don't insist on doing it, miss things, and you will cause trouble.
When a person reaches the age of fifty, he must be kind to himself. Other people's affairs can't be managed, can't be managed, there is no need or qualification to be sentimental, and it is already good to be able to manage yourself.
Most of my life has experienced too much prosperity in the world, tasted sweet, sour, bitter and spicy, bitter and happy, want to live easily and freely, you must learn to please yourself, look less at other people's faces, can not look at others' faces is the best.
Have time to do what you like, do not hinder others, enjoy yourself, you should cherish the moment and live the second half of your life.
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Time is hurried, in the blink of an eye, he is already half a hundred old people, and he never thought that he would grow old so quickly.
After the age of 50, if you have a little money left, please live for yourself.
Don't always spend all your time on others, after all, life is limited, we must learn to spend limited time on things that are worthwhile.
Don't always care about what other people think, don't take everything so seriously, the more you take it, the more you care, the harder it is to get happiness in your heart. Remember that life is for yourself.
Go out and walk around while you're young and give yourself a reason to be happy! Go out and see the outside world, and make up for the regret of always going out to enjoy the scenery outside for work.
Go where you want to go, see the scenery, eat delicious, life can leave endless beauty, don't let yourself have regrets.
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Half a life has passed, stop and go, we must learn to cherish, but also know how to let go.
In middle age, we need to have the grace of "walking to the end of the water and watching the clouds rise". Learn to be relieved, regardless of gains and losses. What is plundered in the first half of life, the second half of life must be put down. The first half of life is not willing, the second half of life has to compromise.
After the age of 50, the child has grown up, and the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and it is time to let go. Don't put all the old-age care on your children, and arrange your old age with your own ability.
After the age of 50, do not take family affection too seriously, people gradually grow old, the burden of feelings should be reduced, and children should maintain a certain distance.
Looking back on this road, all the difficulties have passed, and all the happy and unhappy selves have endured. Therefore, middle-aged and elderly people should not be too obsessed with anything, otherwise they will eat their own bitter fruit, and no one will be pitiful!
The smartest way to live is to manage your own day and spend a quiet, peaceful, comfortable and happy old age.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.