Literature/Education Writing
Respecting the elderly and loving children, abiding by the rules, is the first truth learned in family education, it is difficult to imagine a primary school student dares to directly step on others, and the family education behind it is worrying...
Today's children are the treasure in the arms of parents, parents can understand this "love of children" mood, but what is love must be clear with children, true love is not only love themselves, love parents, but also should love every life.
In specific daily behavior, children's love for life is reflected in respecting the elderly and loving children and abiding by the rules, without which they are bound to ignore the lives of others, thus making love too narrow.
But all these children are not clear, and they need to rely on the words and deeds of their parents, which is why many children grow up to be different in home teaching, and the efforts of their parents behind them are completely different.
On the hot search list on December 20, there was a topic that triggered a hot discussion on the whole network, and everyone once again discussed the importance of family education and expressed concerns about the parties involved in the incident.
A little boy deliberately stepped on the little girl after the fall, and then there was no apology, and the parents did not show up to apologize.
Judging from the video, in a community in Liuzhou, Guangxi, a young mother was taking a video of her young daughter, who was riding a children's bicycle at the time, and did not expect the little girl to suddenly fall.
The young mother did not go forward to help the child, but encouraged the child to stand up on his own, which is understandable, we in the education of the child will often choose this way, the child can get up once after the fall, than their own 100 times to help.
But what the young mother did not expect was that a twelve- or thirteen-year-old boy suddenly rushed out, which should be a primary school student, and the little boy directly stepped on the little girl without any warning.
Then she turned around and ran away on her bicycle, and the little boy's actions directly frightened the female parents, and she did not expect that anyone would do such a thing.
When the mother came back to her senses, she rushed over to see if the child was injured, fortunately the little girl was not in serious trouble, but the abnormal behavior of the primary school student made her feel angry and very heartbroken.
The most critical thing is that after the incident, the little boy and his parents did not apologize, the mother has now reflected to the property of the community, and transferred out the monitoring, hoping that the primary school student and parents can apologize and explain the problem clearly, which is good for the family education of both sides.
After seeing this video, netizens are not calm, they all think that the little boy is too inexplicable, to know that it is a living little girl, and has fallen to the ground, do not go forward to help a hand, or have to step on a foot, what is this psychology?
Some netizens believe that the primary school student is not even a bear child, it is completely bad, and the parents behind it may not be much better.
Some netizens recalled that they had also encountered very bad children, pouring water from the inside of the elevator, but they were fiercely criticized and educated by themselves, and immediately corrected their mistakes, and later saw that he was walking around, which showed that dealing with such children would be fiercely criticized for education.
For the issue of apology, some netizens expressed concern that the primary school student and parents are likely not to come out to apologize, because the son born of the mouse will punch holes, and the parents of the little boy may be worse.
More netizens believe that children still have to strengthen family education, otherwise the regrets of their parents when they grow up, and eventually they can only rely on society to educate, and the cost may be unbearable for this family.
To the surprise of many people, it is normal for the little boy to be naughty, but the little girl's mother is watching from the side, where does he get the guts?
Thinking about this question can't help but make people feel afraid, if it is a child playing independently in the community, what kind of terrible behavior may the little boy make? Will there be further violent tendencies?
It is not uncommon for primary school students to "do bad things", and it is estimated that many people remember the case of a thirteen-year-old primary school boy murdering a 10-year-old girl in Liaoning.
Although there was a court decision, the boy's parents did not come out to apologize and did not pay a penny, which caused an uproar in public opinion.
After being condemned by countless public opinions, the boy's parents apologized in the local newspaper, but the parents of the murdered girl did not accept it, because the other party lacked sincerity and did not take practical action in the whole process.
Through a series of events, we can draw a conclusion that family education affects people's lives, and the future performance of a child depends largely on family education, especially in the fear of life and obedience to rules, parents are definitely the children's role models, what kind of parents, what kind of children, the so-called "guts" of children are completely given by parents.
I hope that the parents of this primary school student in Guangxi can take the child to stand up and take the initiative to apologize to the little girl, and this is also a profound educational opportunity for their children, hiding it will only harm the child.
Today's Topic:
What do you say about the elementary school boy's behavior?