Text: Cradle of Love
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Love, no matter how beautiful, has a time to decline after the boom.
How deeply you love, how deeply you will eventually hurt, and all love will evolve into hate.
The heart that has been broken, without the temperature, can no longer love, can no longer stir up half a wave.
Poor management, even if you become a husband and wife, get a license, and have a child, you will eventually be scattered.
Wang Xiaofei and Big S, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng, each pair has truly loved, been sweet, and has been favored by everyone, but in the end it did not end in divorce.
Two people together, once something is lost, the fate slowly comes to an end.
Whether they are together for a year or ten years, feelings must be seriously managed, and each other must be tolerant and considerate, and they must be loyal and single-minded.
The end of the feelings, there must be a reason for it, is the result of the cold heart.
When you envy Deng Chao and Sun Li, you must understand that it is the result of cherishing each other and operating with heart.
Two people together, once not seriously operated, whether it is lovers or husband and wife, "put away" these three things, that is, the fate is exhausted, love will dissipate, and eventually will be different.
Put away the tolerance, complaining and arguing
Gold has no feet, no one is perfect, two people get along, need an inclusive.
Maximum acceptance, no fuss, no boredom.
When two people are first together, they will be full of patience and willing to listen.
Even in the face of each other's shortcomings and flaws, do not exclude, and do not pick.
True love is "the lover's eyes out of the West", how to see how to like.
No matter what kind of shortcomings the other party has, in their own eyes, they are perfect and the best.
In feelings, there is tolerance, there is harmony, two people can let down their guard, get along frankly, and communicate with each other.
In the feelings, once you put away the tolerance, become picky and disgusted, and even deliberately find fault, there will be contradictions.
Without tolerance, you will not be able to tolerate each other, will be disgusted, will lose your temper, will complain, and will continue to quarrel.
No matter how good the feelings are, they will dissipate in the quarrel, and they will be consumed little by little.
When complaining and arguing become commonplace, the two hearts will become more and more distant, will change from love to resentment, will regret the original choice, and finally save up disappointment and cold heart and grow away.
Put away the concern, coldness and disregard
When two people first fall in love, everything about each other touches the heartstrings and will care about everything about each other.
Whether it is work, life, or mood, it will be extra attentive and unusual.
They will constantly inquire about the situation, will continue to give ding, and each other is like an "old mother".
Even if you can't be around, you will care about it through messages.
Caring, bringing the heart closer to the heart, maintaining close interaction, maintaining deep feelings.
But when two people are together for a long time, especially after changing their hearts, they will be tired, they will be lazy to care, and they will no longer be concerned.
Coldness and disregard have become the main theme of love.
Even face to face, there is nothing to say, no communication with each other, and no nuanced care and care.
In the end, even if you don't contact for a few days, you won't take the initiative to contact, completely ignoring the state.
Feelings, in the cold and ignoring more and more diluted, more and more distant from each other.
Eventually, a little faded out of each other's lives, and after getting used to it, they were completely separated.
Put away the singleness, deception and betrayal
In feelings, without single-mindedness, it cannot last long.
Just as Wang Lihong, who has been arguing about wang lihong in the past two days, according to his wife Li Lianglei, Wang Lihong frequently cheated in marriage.
When there is no single-mindedness in the relationship, there must be deception mixed in, and there are always countless lies hiding something.
Cheating is itself a betrayal, betraying the vows of two people, betraying the feelings of two people.
Betrayal, giving people heartache, is hurt, but also will make two people have an insurmountable barrier.
In feelings, no matter who puts away the singleness, it is tearing up the feelings with their own hands, which is bound to make the feelings exist in name only, leaving only the shell.
When you endure it again and again, and finally can't stand it, it is to completely break the relationship and end the relationship between the two people.
Single-mindedness is a red line that emotions cannot touch, and it is also the bottom line.
Only by being single-minded with each other will the feelings be in happiness and last forever.
All the consequences are caused by one person's own hands.
All the fate is not cherished, not serious management caused.
One party in the relationship, unscrupulously hurting, too arbitrary, will cause the rupture of feelings.
When there is only hurt left in the relationship, only pain, you must let go in time.
Even if you love someone again, you can't be blinded by love, and if you find that the other party doesn't love, you can put it down in time and return your own freedom and integrity.
In life, the most correct thing is to find the right person; the most wrong thing is to choose the wrong person.
In matters of feelings, we must learn to take it, put it down, not settle down, and not wronged ourselves.
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Author: Love to read, love to write, love to think, dare to love and dare to hate the northern girl. A freelance writer, an emotional mentor who has helped countless people out of psychological difficulties.