All jokes with personal attacks are not jokes.
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"Hey, you're ugly."
"Dressed like this, who are you trying to seduce?"
"Huh? Are you angry? Just kidding, how can you be so stingy! ”
Those who can say such things seem to have absolute freedom of speech, while those who are judged by them have no freedom to speak of.
They like to stand on the top and look down on others, to make malicious attacks on everything about others to gain a sense of presence and pleasure, and when they are hit back, they will make an innocent and pitiful appearance, but also satirize you can't joke.
They didn't realize that the jokes they were making weren't funny at all.
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Immersive jokes really don't.
However, some people do not yet have this recognition, and they think that this is a sign of high emotional intelligence. Whether you know it or not, familiar or unfamiliar, it seems that you can talk about it.
Perhaps in the eyes of these people, this is just to bring them closer together and make people look closer.
But they did not pay attention to the measure, and they lost their measure.
Then the joke is no longer a joke, but turns into a sharp blade and stabs directly at others. At the same time, it will also cut a sharp opening in your originally even intimate relationship.
Naturally, your relationship does not advance and retreat.
You know, jokes also depend on the object and the occasion.
Not everyone likes to be joked about, and not everyone can understand that you're just joking.
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Jokes are not harmless, only the parties do not mind, can be called jokes, otherwise it is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence.
Don't show off bad taste as fun, no one will appreciate it.
No one will feel that a person without a sense of boundaries will be a decent person.
Inappropriate jokes can only be disgusting and offensive.
Even people who are close to each other must know how to maintain a sense of proportion.
Otherwise, it is hooliganism and sexual harassment.
Don't take the lack of education and quality as humor, don't be satisfied with others with bad intentions.
This will only expose their own despicable character, making people just want to stay away, not want to be with it.
Of course, there are also people who do it unintentionally.
This type of person usually realizes the seriousness of the problem after the fact, and then admits that he is just a straight man.
Under normal circumstances, we don't blame a person who doesn't know how to turn a corner because he has a straight face. But after realizing that he had inadvertently made a mistake, he should reflect on himself, instead of using a sentence of "temperament" to prevaricate, and then continue to make mistakes.
We can forgive a joke by a straight-forward puppet, but we can't tolerate unintentional action again and again.
Jokes are jokes, and after laughing, they return to calm, which is a qualified joke.
Instead of making a joke, but also having a grudge and a vendetta, this is not the original intention of the joke.
All jokes that go against the original intention are denigration and slander.
If you can't joke, then please shut up, so that each of them is okay and does not disturb each other, which is also a way to increase your good feelings.
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