Parents want their children to have a career, for the sake of their children's learning parents are broken hearts, in the way of education is a variety of tricks. Recently, the education method of a "tiger father" in Nanjing is too extreme to be understood. What's going on?
Nanjing this father is a doctor, because of their own excellence, so the requirements for a pair of children are very strict, although the son is in the first grade of primary school, the daughter is only in kindergarten, but this "tiger father" has begun to teach the children the knowledge of middle school and even college, he let the two children learn high numbers and literary language, and often require them to learn until late at night to sleep, when the child can not understand, the "tiger father" will use insulting words to insult the child and even beat the child.
The child's mother could not bear to look at it and applied to the Nanjing Jianye District People's Court for a personal safety protection order. In the process of the court's involvement in the investigation, the "tiger father" still did not believe that his education method was inappropriate. In the end, the court ruled that the father was prohibited from committing further domestic violence against the child and his family.
The doctoral father hopes that the child will become as good as himself in the future, but he forgets that it is impossible to educate the child to grow seedlings, a 5-year-old and a 7-year-old child, the brain nerves are not yet fully developed, and it is normal not to understand the advanced knowledge.
Don't say children, even those who are normal for college, they can't fully grasp the knowledge of high numbers. Doctor's father uses insults and beatings to force the child, which has hurt the child's young mind, even if the academic performance goes up, the child's mental health and parent-child relationship have been damaged, and finally the child will only become an emotionless learning machine.
When educating children, we should not blindly focus on the results, but should pay more attention to the physical and mental health of children.
In family education, parents should be gradual, should not be too hasty, the age of children are still advanced education, not only can not improve the child's learning ability, but will cause children's boredom, rebellious emotions, but also affect the child's mental health development. Physical and mental health, sound personality, integrity and kindness, independence and bravery are the best family education given by parents to their children.
Not all children are prodigies, and not genius children are necessarily geniuses. Parents should accept the child's ordinariness and correctly look at the child's education.
To teach children according to their aptitudes, step-by-step learning is in line with the child's growth law, blindly ahead or inner volume, may appear to be ahead on the surface, but without laying a good foundation, sooner or later it will collapse.