What does it mean that men can't resist contacting you?
It shows that he doesn't love you, he's not busy, he doesn't have anything important, even if he'd rather play a game than reply to your message, it's because he doesn't love you, he doesn't care about your feelings, that's all.
However, some women do not understand this truth, men turn a blind eye to the news she sends, she will continue to send, but also in this kind of ignored torment.
In this information age, mobile phones have almost become an indispensable tool for everyone, even the kung fu of eating and going to the bathroom, are mobile phones that do not leave the body, how can there be a day without looking at the mobile phone.
So, I don't believe that some people can endure a day without contacting their significant other, and if there is, then it must be because they don't love enough, or they don't love at all.
So, all we need to do is focus on ourselves, and when the man can't resist contacting you, keep these 3 truths in mind and you win.
First, do not self-doubt and self-denial in ignorance
When men are cold and violent to you, have you ever thought more than once that the other party ignores you, it must be because you have done something wrong?
When men don't answer your questions, do you think it's because you're not good enough that the other person is doing this to you?
In real life, many women who are abandoned by men are out of such an idea, so they will be led by men's noses, and finally become victims of love.
They always put other people's mistakes on themselves, obviously men have mistakes first, but they have to punish themselves with other people's mistakes, how can such people be cherished by men.
And we must put an end to such thinking, understand that even if two people have a problem, we must put the problem in the open, even if we really do not love, we must explain it, rather than in such a way to consume other people's feelings, which is itself an irresponsible behavior.
Therefore, when a man can bear not to contact us, don't mess up, treat his body in his own way, how the other party treats us, how we treat him, so that it is fair, so that we can avoid unnecessary harm in our feelings.
Second, don't be meaningless self-touching
In the TV series "A Piece of Wood", Luo Yan cooked a cake for the first time when her boyfriend deliberately ignored herself, and she did not stick to the spring water of the yang, trying to please her boyfriend in such a way.
However, when the boyfriend saw Luo Yan, he was impatient, not only did not feel moved, but also threw the cake that Luo Yan had worked so hard to make on the ground, and also let her not bother herself in the future.
When making the cake, Luo Yan still fantasized that her boyfriend would be moved, but the cruel reality still gave her a slap and told her that everything she did was just self-touching, and the other party did not care at all.
Many times, we always feel that as long as we give, as long as we do well enough, then things will turn around, but reality tells us that it is just our own self-touching, because if men really love us, even if we don't have to do anything, we will not be ignored.
Lu Qi once said in "Love Needs Stop Loss": "In this world, what you want, you will get." If you get something you don't want, you have to throw it away in time, otherwise you will get more and more wrong. ”
Therefore, when men do not value our efforts at all, don't make meaningless sacrifices anymore, that will only make us more tired, and it is always better to stop losses in time than to blindly insist.
Third, focus on yourself and run your own life
01) When men do not contact themselves, in addition to secretly hurting, there are actually more meaningful things to do.
For example, to improve yourself, such as still running your life step by step, such as doing some happy things to divert attention, these things, which one is not better than wasting time on an unworthy person?
Shakespeare said, "The power of love is peace, never regardless of reason, convention, and honor and disgrace, it can make all fear, shock, and pain sweet when suffered." ”
However, at present, the so-called love can no longer let us get a good experience, and then insist, what is the meaning?
Therefore, we may as well run our own lives well in the days when no one cares, and learn to live our own lives in the days when love is absent.
02), no boyfriend, then talk to yourself in love, spoil yourself, please yourself, eat, drink, sleep, every day sunrise and day in and out, live a simple and happy life, let time forget the unworthy person.
When we gradually let go of the past, we will not only look back, but also thank him for his departure, because it is the departure of an unworthy person that makes room for us to be happy.