Father is the boy's bridge to manhood

A man's life, both a son and a father, is a life from a boy to a man, and if a boy wants to become a man, he must be inseparable from the influence of his father, either growing up happily under the sunshine of his father, or falling in the shadow of his father; if we want our children to go from boy to man, we, as fathers, should be the bridge to manhood.

As the saying goes, boys should be poor, girls should be rich, the "poor support" here is not the poverty of life, nor is it the lack of material conditions and money, but to let boys and boys bear greater responsibility in the future, you need to know the difficulty of life early so that you will not slacken off.

The so-called "poor support" does not mean not giving money, but backed by their own parents, so that boys dare to try, dare to try and make mistakes. Setbacks will stimulate children's potential, cultivate boys' hard-working spirit, and overcome difficulties when encountering difficulties. How can the boy have these qualities, a positive, positive father, is a good example that can be seen and touched, and under the leadership of such an example, it is undoubtedly a good bridge for the boy to become a man.

For the education of boys, many parents take the way of "hugging" and raising, afraid that children will fall, bump, tired, etc., especially grandparents generational education, slowly, children will get used to it, and from then on they will become selfish, pampered, crying, afraid of suffering, no responsibility, can not stand a little frustration, will not understand gratitude and love.

I think we should encourage children, so that children have more opportunities to "walk on the ground", if you want to learn to walk, you have to go to the ground, if parents always circle their children around themselves, let the children grow up in such a greenhouse, how to experience the wind and rain of society in the future, children will only thrive after various trials and baptisms of wind and rain, and can bravely face the unknown.

In the process of children's growth, inseparable from the influence of the father, the famous writer Zheng Yuanjie said, family education is not management, is a demonstration and guidance, we should lead by example, words and deeds, if we want our children to become what kind of people, we first become what kind of people, whether we are or not, we must first learn to act, if we want boys to become manly, we should become manly.

The child's life, if you want to become a man, you need a manly template, the father is the best template, therefore, we must become a qualified "actor", first in front of the boy to become a man, so that the boy can walk on the bridge of manhood.