With children
Play on the go
The so-called play on the go.
It's about traveling with your kids.
In the process through a variety of visiting games
to enhance parent-child relationships.
Let's start with a look at it
Some problems traveling with kids.
Actually on the go with your children
Is it happiness or helplessness,
Whether you are having fun or tired of coping.
It all depends on the parent's educational skills.
Parents' performance can be divided into three types,
Tired of coping,
Passive and active game types.
●
Tired of coping
Struggling parents generally prepare a lot of food for their children before traveling, such as yogurt fries, or basically do not prepare anything. At the beginning of the trip, the child has small food, and the freshness of the trip is often excited and friendly. But there is no interest in the game. The child will soon get tired of the noise. In fact, the child's noise is not a deliberate act, it is a natural reaction that he cannot stand this boredom and discomfort.
As a parent, if you can't understand, you don't know how to alleviate your child's boredom and discomfort. Then the battle between parents and children is afraid that it will be triggered. The negative evaluation of parents' anger will not only affect the child's self-perception, self-evaluation and self-awareness, but also affect the child's emotional socialization and personality development.
Passive gaming type
The number of passive play parents is relatively large, in the process of travel, this child often likes to hide and seek with parents, let parents tell stories and so on.
Parents are willing to play with their children because they love their children, but this kind of accompaniment is only out of that kind of love, because there is no direct interest, so over time, parents will show a very boring feeling, which is also a very common type.
In fact, the child's sensitivity is very strong, once aware of the parents' distraction, even coping will be psychologically frustrated, and then there will be distress and anger and so on, such rigid and irrational behavior.
Therefore, many parents are particularly afraid of making long trips with their children. They will think that it is a very tiring and torturous process.
Active gaming type
Active play parents should be the happiest, and they enjoy the good time with their children. Be able to interact happily with children during the game and promote their development.
First of all, they understand that it is important for children. They interact with children with their own interests and pleasures. Instead of responding to children with constraints and direct education and then supplemented by exhaustion and boredom, secondly play is the nature of children that everyone knows. They are willing to play with their children, so this kind of parent is very playful, and it is easy to be able to invest in the children's games, or find fun games that can be played together with the children. It not only means that we as parents are willing to be partners with our children, but also enjoy a good time with them, but also let the children get the ideal development in the atmosphere of happy acceptance and autonomy.
So as parents we should strive to create opportunities like this to play with our children on the go.