That rich family with a strong personality is the most powerful daughter-in-law in the dream of the Red Chamber
Wang Xifeng is a more powerful daughter-in-law in the dream of the Red Chamber, usually do not put the mother-in-law in the eyes, but there is a point that she does not dare to confront the mother-in-law in public, and does not dare to quarrel with the mother-in-law, she looks down on the mother-in-law in behavior at most, and she still knows the rules very well in person. Compared with Wang Xifeng's understanding, Xia Jingui belongs to the kind of daughter-in-law who is messing around, the mother-in-law Aunt Xue is not her opponent at all, and her husband Xue Pan is even more to let her have three points, and the only one who makes Xia Jingui feel a little jealous in her heart is probably the little sister-in-law Xue Baochao, and the mother-in-law she does not pay attention to at all.
First, the rich family who was spoiled and grew up.
It turned out that this Miss Xia jia was seventeen years old this year, and she was born quite gracefully, and she also knew a few words. If you talk about the longitude and latitude of the hills and ravines in your heart, you will follow xi feng's footsteps. Only one thing was suffered, from childhood, the father died early, and there were no brothers, the widowed mother guarded this daughter alone, spoiled and spoiled, nothing more than a treasure, where the daughter moved every move, the mother was obedient, so it was inevitable that the pampering was too much, and it even caused a thief's temperament. Love yourself, honor as a bodhisattva, peep into others, and be as dirty as dung.
This is the seventy-ninth time in the Dream of the Red Chamber, a detailed description of Xia Jingui, from which it is not difficult to see that Xia Jingui died early because of his father's early death, and there were no brothers and sisters, and he was dependent on his widowed mother for his life, and was pampered and spoiled by his mother.
Probably from childhood, Xia Jingui developed a domineering personality, respecting herself like a bodhisattva and treating others as dung. A little thing, the mother must obey her, once it is not smooth, it will make a big fuss, even the mother does not dare to provoke her, let alone the slave at the bottom.
Such Xia Jingui is estimated to be very famous in the circle of friends and relatives, the general family does not dare to marry a girl like Xia Jingui, even if the small family is willing to marry, Grandma Xia does not agree to marry her daughter to suffer, so Xia Jingui's marriage is delayed.
Who knows that Xia Jingui, who has a tough personality, met Xue Pan again, the two people should have a relationship, originally just a small playmate who played together when they were young, and when they met again, they all looked at each other. Especially Grandma Xia, who likes Xue Pan very much, not only enthusiastically retains, but also intends to let Xue Pan be her son-in-law.
Xiang Ling smiled, "One is the Heavenly Edge, and the other is 'The Lover's Eyes Come Out of the West'." At that time, it was a family exchange again, and from childhood to adulthood, they all mixed in one place. The father was an uncle and brother, and he was not suspected. Although she has been away for a few years, as soon as she arrived at her house, Grandma Xia was sonless, and when she saw your brother come out like this, she cried and laughed, and it was even better than seeing her son. He let his brother and sister meet again, who knew that this girl was like a flower, and she also read and wrote at home, so your brother was preoccupied with it at that time.
From Xiang Ling's words, it can be seen that Grandma Xia is very satisfied with Xue Pan's son-in-law. In Grandma Xia's view, the Xue family and the Xia family are both imperial businessmen, Xue Pan and Xia Jingui's father is not only a colleague, but also a very good friend, Xue Pan and Xia Jingui also played together when they were children. Only later, Father Xue and Father Xia were gone, and the relationship between the two families slowly became estranged.
This time Xue Pan's arrival, it should be a coincidence, Grandma Xia has no son, seeing that Xue Pan looks good, she intends to look at her daughter Xia Jingui. Xue Pan also took a fancy to Xia Jingui and went home to beg his mother, Aunt Xue, to propose to him. Originally, Aunt Xue had also seen Xia Jingui when she was a child, and she felt that Xia Jingui's appearance was outstanding, plus the two families were right, so she agreed.
In fact, Grandma Xia looks up to Xue Pan, not only because of Xue Pan's appearance, but also two points, one is that the two houses are right, and the other is that Xia Jingui's reputation is out there, and it is not good to hire outside. When she met Xue Pan, Grandma Xia felt that this was the fate, xia Jingui and Xue Pan were both very satisfied with each other, and the marriage was decided.
It was only because marrying a relative was too anxious, Aunt Xue did not have time to understand Xia Jingui's temperament, and Xia Jingui had already married into the Xue family. After marrying into the Xue family, this rich family with a fierce personality first controlled her husband Xue Pan, and the second person to suppress was her mother-in-law, Aunt Xue.
It can be seen that Xia Jingui was spoiled and raised by his mother since childhood, and his personality was overbearing, he did not understand the rules of being a daughter-in-law in that society, not only confronted Aunt Xue, but also made a big fuss, and made relatives not allow them to live in peace.
Second, the most powerful daughter-in-law in the dream of the Red Chamber.
When Aunt Xue heard this, she was furious and said, "Whose rule is this?" The mother-in-law speaks here, and the daughter-in-law mixes her mouth through the window. You are the daughter of an old family! Shouting and shouting, what is being said! Xue Pan stomped his feet in a hurry and said, "Stop, stop! Watch people hear jokes. Jin Gui meant not to do one, two without stopping, and shouted more and more, saying: "I am not afraid of people's jokes!" Who does not know that your Xue family has money, moves to take money to pad people, and has good relatives, holding others hostage. If you don't act early, what are you waiting for? I don't think I'm good, who told you to be blind, and ran away from our house to do something! This will also come, the gold and silver will also lose, and the slightly eye and nose will also be occupied, and it is time to squeeze me! "While crying, rolling and kneading, slapping yourself.
Xia Jingui's strength is not bound by the rules, in the era when the Dream of the Red Chamber is located, the status of the mother-in-law is very high, the daughter-in-law does not dare to confront the mother-in-law, Wang Xifeng is the best example. Lady Xing once embarrassed Wang Xifeng in public, and Wang Xifeng did not dare to confront her mother-in-law and obeyed the rules everywhere in front of her mother-in-law.
However, Xia Jingui is very strange, not bound by any rules, she still goes her own way in her in-laws' house, not only dares to confront her mother-in-law, Aunt Xue, but also argues with her mother-in-law in public.
In the face of such a fierce daughter-in-law, Aunt Xue had to lose. Listening to Xue Baochao's advice, she left temporarily, but Aunt Xue had never been so angry, and she could only take her son Xue Pan out of anger and scold Xue Pan for not doing things decently.
Although Xue Baochao tried her best to comfort Aunt Xue, Xia Jingui refused to give up easily, and she made the family uneasy. If this matter was changed to Wang Xifeng, she did not dare to throw it like this, her cultivation and tutoring made her understand the rules of her daughter-in-law, and she did not dare to offend her mother-in-law, let alone dare to confront her mother-in-law.
At the private meeting between Jia Lian and Bao Er's family, Wang Xifeng once had a big fight, and as a result, Jia Mu did not punish Jia Lian, and said that Wang Xifeng was jealous. You know, according to the ancient requirements, once a woman is jealous and does not allow her husband to take concubines, she will commit the seven sins and will be suspended. This is also the reason why after the Incident of Sister You, Wang Xifeng chose to deal with it in a low-key manner.
Compared with Wang Xifeng's understanding, Xia Jingui is a shrew, she controls her husband Xue Pan, suppresses her mother-in-law Xue Pan, and also gets rid of Xiangling. Later, because of Xiangling, Xia Jingui quarreled with her mother-in-law, Aunt Xue, regardless of decency. Aunt Xue was trembling with anger, in her opinion, Xia Jingui's daughter-in-law was incomprehensible, and a daughter-in-law shouting at her mother-in-law was very rare in the society at that time, and it was also a very disreputable thing.
The fierce Xia Jingui also became the most powerful daughter-in-law in the dream of the Red Chamber, making the Xue family chicken dog restless, and after forty times, after Xue Pan's accident, Xia Jingui's end should be to leave the Xue family and return to her mother's house.
I am Xiao Meng, telling you the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
Reference works: Cao Xueqin, Fat Yanzhai commentary on "Dream of the Red Chamber" Fat Collection