Why is our society shrouded in such suffocating depression? That's because many confused people can't find the direction and meaning of life.
The vast majority of people rely on an external way of life and thus ignore the inner state of life.
They place happiness and happiness on external things such as material things, money, and reputation, relying on these things to obtain short and shallow happiness, not knowing that the qualitative change and growth of happiness and happiness are rooted in the inside.
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How should we live?
Is it to fight bravely in the ordinary, to give up on yourself when you fail, or to waste your years and do nothing?
I think that no choice is eternal. Everything is changing rapidly, and the choice of the present moment only applies to living in the present moment with awareness.
Of course, people have their own destiny, and there is no right or wrong choice, only differences. Each time the choice, people will subtly change accordingly.
Some people graduate at the age of 22, they find a stable job and live a down-to-earth life; some people graduate at the age of 28 and enter the world's top 500 that year; Some people get married at 24 and divorce at 25; Some people only get married at the age of 30, but they have gained a happy life.
Some people are born in Rome, and some people can't go to Rome in their lifetime.
If you have a full day's rest, you can choose to sleep late, you can choose to travel, you can choose to go shopping, you can choose to read a book all day, depending on your inner value orientation.
Attitude determines everything, and between effort, ability and attitude, the more important thing is attitude. The presence of attitudes shows that even at the low point of life, do not lose your happy mood and hope for tomorrow.
Sometimes the wrong choice under "one thought" can make your life suffer.
So he lived despicablely and evilly, as if he were committing suicide in a chronic manner, eventually becoming a black sheep and harming others and himself.
If nothing evil can also become the meaning of human life, I think everyone has a reason to live; even if they live decadently, they can live well.
So, now when I see some weird people making crazy decisions, I don't feel strange and stunned. Because I know that they have chosen the lifestyle they want.
In their eyes, there is only their own world, and they will not care about the expectations of others and will not be influenced by anyone.
I understand that everyone is living hard, in his own way.
At some point, you will find that the people around you begin to have different life trajectories.
People who once said that they did not want to get married were the first to get married; those who did not love to study also became teachers; people who studied accounting finally started a business, and finally entered the bank when they learned management; people with dreams were defeated by reality, and people without dreams embarked on a journey to chase their dreams.
Of course, what kind of life you want to live depends on yourself.
There is no need to envy other people's lives, in fact, no matter what kind of life has pros and cons, but as long as you like, it is a comfortable life.
Everyone is living on their own terms, maybe it seems meaningful, maybe it looks like it's meaningless.
People are old when they are alive and old, and eventually they will return to the quietness of life, without exception.
Whether happy or miserable, interesting or mediocre, we should all live in a "alive" posture, not for anything other than being alive.
Try to talk to your heart and ask what kind of life you really want to live.
✿ 【Treasure on Earth S】Thank you for your love and support, I wish you a happy life O (∩_∩)O!