Ping'er has helped many people and is known for her generosity and kindness. For example, some servants who made mistakes, Wang Xifengrong, but asked Ping'er for mercy, and Ping'er raised her hand and let it go. If there is a good relationship with Ping'er, Ping'er will turn a blind eye. Some people, because they have a relationship with Ping'er's friends, Ping'er will also let them go, and even let others carry a black pot. For example, in the sixtieth time, Lady Wang lost the rose dew, and the thief was Caiyun, but because Caiyun gave the rose dew to Aunt Zhao, and Aunt Zhao was Tanchun's birth mother, Ping'er let Jia Baoyu carry the black pot in order to explore Chun's face.
Because Ping'er often gives people convenience, many people's evaluation of Ping'er is very good, such as Xiao Weixing'er said that Ping'er is "very good for people" and "often does some good things behind her grandmother's back", such as Li Feng said that Feng Sister is not as good as Ping'er, and the two people are better to adjust. For example, Bao Erjia suggested that Jia Lian take a break from FengJie, Fu Zheng Ping'er, and so on.
As a housekeeper, you must be fair and just, and do not talk about selfish feelings. For example, when Wang Xifeng assisted in the Ningguo Mansion, some people were late on the first day, on the grounds that they woke up early, fell asleep again, and came one step late. In the face of the late arrival of the underlings with good reasons, Wang Xifeng showed no mercy, she said:
Tomorrow he will also be lost, and the next day I will be lost, and there will be no one in the future. I was going to spare you, but the first time I was wide, the next time people will be difficult to manage, not as good as the current development.
It is precisely because of Wang Xifeng's ruthlessness that when she assisted ning guofu, she was able to do everything properly and thoughtfully, which was well received by everyone.
Don't think that what I said is serious, there is such an example in Ningguo Province. Qin Keqing is also a figure recognized by everyone, gentle and peaceful, and doing things very properly, but during her stewardship, there are orders that cannot be done, and there are prohibitions that do not stop, such as she once ordered the housekeeper not to send jiao da to work, but the housekeeper did the opposite, not only sent to Jiao Da to work, but also sent to Jiao Da's heavier work. As a result, Jiao Da was annoyed, and even Jia Zhen, Jia Rong, and Qin Keqing were implicated.
Ping'er's housekeeper, almost taking the path of Qin Keqing, blindly tolerant, the final situation must be similar to that of Ning Guofu, and it is out of control.
Ping'er said to Wang Xifeng, "When you have to let go, let go." Say to the attacker, "Forgive and forgive." Originally, tolerance and generosity are the virtues of people, which are very positive ideas and deserve people's respect and respect, but this virtue is based on the loss of their own interests and the respect and respect of others, rather than for the loss of others' interests and the exchange of their own glory. However, looking at the reasons and consequences of Ping'er's "sparing people", it is found that when she spares people, she either harms the interests of everyone, such as tolerating those who do wrong things. Or it is the interests of others, such as letting Jia Baoyu top the black pot. But it was Ping'er's own that received praise.
Ping'er said to Wang Xifeng:
Why bother with this heart? When you have to let go, you must let go, what a big deal, happy not to give grace, according to me, even if you the heart in this house for 100 minutes, it will always be in the house over there, and you have to make some villains hate, make people hate and complain, and you have three disasters and eight difficulties, so it is easy to get pregnant with a brother, and when you get six or seven months, you have lost it, and you know that it is not too much work on the day, and you are angry and hurt? Now it's just too early to see half of the children who don't see half of them.
Ping'er said this to Wang Xifeng, which means: We are the people in Jia Zheng's room, don't be too serious about doing things for Jia Zheng's room, and doing things too seriously for Jia Zheng's room will offend many people, so it will not be able to draw. Anyway, he was going to leave this place sooner or later, as long as it passed in front of his eyes, there was no need to care about what kind of boiling sky he would have in the future.
At first glance, Ping'er's words of persuasion to Wang Xifeng were not bad, but when I think about it carefully, I think this idea is very selfish. People invite you to be a housekeeper to give money, and take your money and don't give it to others to do things, what is the difference between this and corrupt officials and corrupt officials? If it were right now, you would have a high salary but didn't do your best, would your boss still use you? Therefore, Ping'er's concept of only caring about the present is very short and shallow, and it is not suitable for the workplace. Ping'er is the housekeeper, and any thoughtful family member will refuse!
Ping'er also expressed this kind of concern for the present, mo ask the future to do the idea, the fifty-ninth time, Ping'er had to deal with the contradiction between He Baozi and Ying'er in Yihong Courtyard when he said to the attacker:
"Forgive and forgive, and if you have to save things, you will save some things..."
However, Ping'er did not know that it was precisely because he was spared and spared that the Grand View Garden, which she temporarily managed, was in chaos:
“...... I was able to go for a few days, only to hear that people of all sizes and sizes everywhere were doing the opposite, and one place after another made me not know which place to take care of. "In the past three or four days, there have been eight or nine pieces of kung fu in total, and your (Yihong Courtyard) here is extremely small, I can't count them, and there are big ridiculous things."
At that time, You Shi, who helped the housekeeper, was himself docile, and the Ning Guo Mansion was turned into a pot of porridge by her management, what could she help rong Guo Mansion manage? Li Feng himself was a bodhisattva, an old good man, Jia Tanchun also began to rip off the skin, kicking the ball, Xue Baochao did not care about himself, Wang Xifeng was persuaded by Ping'er, in this case, the person who ran around to deal with things was Ping'er.
And Ping'er butler, the entire Rong Guo Mansion has become an accident-prone area, and even buried a lot of hidden dangers. Bao Chao once said to Bao Yu:
...... You only know rose dew and poria cream two pieces. It's because of people and things, if there are no people in it, you don't even know these two pieces, but you don't know how many are bigger than these two pieces, if you can't get out later, it's everyone's creation, if you come out, I don't know how many people are involved in it...
As the saying goes, "mercy does not hold the army", which means that you cannot deviate from credibility and discipline and be soft-hearted. The same is true of being a housekeeper, if the housekeeper, if it is not an irresistible reason and makes a mistake, then the punishment should be punished, the heart is soft, can only let everyone turn a blind eye to the above command requirements, listen to, such consequences, is not a good steward is willing to see.
Housekeeper for three years, chickens and dogs. As a steward, in order to uphold principles and safeguard the interests of everyone, it will always offend some people, today for this matter offends some people, tomorrow may offend other people for another thing, and it is expected that anyone who is a steward will offend people. It was Li Feng, the bodhisattva, and Xue Baochao, who was a generous man, who helped to manage the Rongguo Mansion, and was also called Zhenshan Taishi because of the strict management.