As we all know, in the feudal period of our country, the status of women was very low, and in ancient times, women were not even allowed to go out at will, let alone sightseeing. After marriage, women also have to follow the three from four virtues, and if someone in the husband's family dies, they even have to bear the name of "nemesis".
From ancient times to the present, countless women have been labeled with the name of "Kefu" and slandered as a red face, but in the era of squeezing women at that time, no matter what kind of unspeakable secrets, they were also difficult to argue, and Wang Caiyu was one of these women.
Wang Caiyu's life has gone through ups and downs, ups and downs, she has lost her husband twice, three times lost her children, but in the end, the most contentious son has left a strong mark on the long river of history.
So what kind of tribulations did Wang Caiyu go through in his life? How is she different from other women?
This legendary woman's name is Wang Caiyu, and her real name is Wang Caiyu. In 1863, Wang Caiyu was born in an ordinary small rural area in Zhejiang, her father had accumulated a lot of family property, so the family was very wealthy, as the daughter of the family, her father and mother were very fond of her.
Father and mother have high hopes for Wang Caiyu, under their careful cultivation, whether it is book knowledge or female red, Wang Caiyu is very good at it, if there is no accident, i think the family will always be happy.
But all this changed with the death of his father, the top pillar of the family suddenly collapsed, and the man in the family was unable to bear such a big family, so he sat on the mountain and ate the sky, and the life in the family was worse than a day.
At the same time, Wang Caiyu's younger brother is addicted to gambling, and the only savings in the family are spent, making the poor family worse, fortunately, Wang Caiyu is very good at sewing, so she and her mother do some embroidery work together, sewing fabrics to sell money to subsidize the family, and life is still passable.
Although Wang Caiyu and her mother have been working diligently and earnestly, but the family has a large population, and only the efforts of mother and daughter alone are far from being able to support this big family.
At this time, the mother thought of a way, just when Wang Caiyu reached the age of marriage, instead of letting her daughter suffer at home, it was better to find a good family for her to marry, so that it could not only reduce the burden on the family, but also use the dowry of the son-in-law's family, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
So after careful consideration, the mother decided to marry her daughter to Zhu Mou, who was well-off in a neighboring village, even though Wang Caiyu was reluctant to do everything, but for the sake of the family, she had to swallow her anger and marry her.
At first, the in-laws were very fond of this beautiful, hard-working and capable daughter-in-law, but after a long time, Zhu Mou's shortcomings were all exposed, and on the surface he was polite, but behind his back he would hit Wang Caiyu hard.
However, due to the very low status of women at that time, Wang Caiyu could not take the initiative to file for divorce, and could only grit her teeth and live.
A few years later, Wang Caiyu gave birth to a son for the Zhu family, contributed to the inheritance of the Zhu family's bloodline, and was a well-deserved hero.
However, the baby son died within three months, which made Wang Caiyu's family status plummet again, and the family did not forgive her grief for losing her son, but unanimously believed that she had "hard life" to kill the child.
Shortly after the death of the child, Zhu mou also died of illness, which further confirmed Wang Caiyu's statement of "Kefu Kezi".
No one can resist the power of gossip, Wang Caiyu is no exception, she decided to leave the Zhu family and leave this sad place, but after returning to her mother's house, these rumors not only did not end, but intensified.
In order not to bother his mother and brothers, Wang Caiyu finally decided to cut his hair and become a nun, but under the strong opposition of his mother, Wang Caiyu could only compromise and keep his hair into the nunnery.
Wang Caiyu enjoyed life in the temple very much, it was quiet and peaceful, no one pointed out to her, but her family was always worried about her. So, without her permission, her cousin introduced her widowed boss, Jiang Zhaocong.
At first, Wang Caiyu did not agree, but he could not withstand the stalking of his family, so he decided to meet again, but he did not expect that the two people would have a heart-to-heart meeting, and finally came together.
Although Jiang Zhaocong is much older than Wang Caiyu, but the two have the same interests, the personality is also very close, the life after marriage is also very harmonious, a year after marriage, Wang Caiyu gave birth to the eldest son Chiang Kai-shek, unfortunately, the next three children all died prematurely.
Before Wang Caiyu could come out of the grief of losing his son, Jiang Zhaocong also left him, leaving only Wang Caiyu and Chiang Kai-shek's mother and son to rely on each other. Wang Caiyu was not discouraged, but inspired the fighting spirit, for the mother Ze Gang, she must cultivate her only son well.
Therefore, Wang Caiyu put the education of her children in the most important position, although in a relatively closed era, but Wang Caiyu's thinking is very advanced, she did her best to support all of Chiang Kai-shek's hobbies.
After the education of the academy, Chiang Kai-shek came into contact with advanced ideas abroad and also saw the necessity of revolution, and he made up his mind to overthrow the feudal and decadent Qing government, so Chiang Kai-shek cut off his long braids and went to Japan to study.
At that time, Chiang Kai-shek's behavior was very out of line, and everyone thought that cutting off the braids was a great rebellion, but only Wang Caiyu always stood behind Chiang Kai-shek to support him, and she firmly believed that her son must be the most prominent.
It turned out that Chiang Kai-shek did not live up to Wang Caiyu's trust, and after returning from studying abroad, he immediately participated in the anti-Qing government movement, although this movement made Chiang Kai-shek wanted by the government, but it was also a good revolutionary start.
Since then, Chiang Kai-shek has become famous in the world through his continuous efforts, and we cannot deny that his success is inseparable from the support and education of his mother Wang Caiyu, and it is precisely because he grew up in an enlightened environment that Chiang Kai-shek was able to become a person with the ability to think independently.
Although Wang Caiyu's two husbands have died, we cannot deny Wang Caiyu's achievements in educating children, losing the company of her husband, and she can also raise the young Chiang Kai-shek alone.
At that time, women were always in an unfortunate position, fortunately, with the development of the current era, women's voices can be heard, and more and more people speak for women.
Wang Caiyu told us with practical actions that women can also support a family, women can also take on the heavy responsibility of educating children, as long as they are actively moving forward, there is nothing that women cannot do!