Recently, a video by the 61-year-old Yingda has aroused heated discussion among netizens. In the video, he proudly talks about his youngest son who is engaged in ice hockey, Yingrudi (Bayan), and Indah says: Yingrudi will play in the 2022 Winter Olympics and is expected to become the leader of the ice hockey team to win glory for the country!
As soon as this remark came out, about the 24 years of divorce between Yingda and Song Dandan, the "difference between heaven and earth" between the two sons of Batu and Bayan was once again on the hot search. One strives to win an Olympic gold medal, one lives under the aura of a mother. Looking back at the two people's life paths, netizens said: It is really the same father and different life! Why did the same biological son have such a different attitude?
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At that time, Yingda was a well-known figure in the Beijing circle, and who in the Beijing circle did not know Yingda?
Of course, everyone knows him definitely because of his background. From grandparents to parents, they all have a good identity.
The ancestors of the Yingda family were Manchu Zhenghuangqi, the great-grandfather Yingzhi was once a friend of the Restoration faction such as Liang Qichao, and the great-grandmother Ai Xinjue luo Shuzhong was born in the royal family and had a noble status.
After his grandfather Returned from studying in China, he also served as a professor at Furen, Peking University, and Beijing Normal University.
Yingda's father, Yingruocheng, graduated from tsinghua's Department of Foreign Languages, was the earliest translator in China, participated in many dramas and movies, and was a landmark figure in Beijing's human art.
In 1983, he graduated from the Department of Psychology of Peking University. Originally, he was going to apply for graduate school in the Department of Acting, but due to his high myopia, he had to give up.
But his love of acting led Indah to finally decide to study theater abroad, when he and his first love went to the United States to study theater.
After 4 years of study, Yingda wanted to return to China to develop, but his wife was nostalgic for the prosperity of the United States. So the two parted ways, and Indah returned to China.
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At this time, Song Dandan experienced 5 years of failure of first love, and flashed marriage in order to heal his wounds. Unexpectedly, she divorced after only 1 year of marriage, which made Song Dandan understand that marriage cannot be too hasty.
In 1987, the divorced Yingda was alone, and Song Dandan also experienced a failed marriage. The two can be described as connected by the same fate!
Coinciding with the rehearsal drama "Arsonist", Yingda is the intern director and Song Dandan is the actor. An ambitious director, a talented actor, the two met when they were lonely and lost, which is destined to be an inescapable fate!
Although Song Dandan was emotionally frustrated, his career was thriving. Although the 26-year-old is not a beautiful woman, she is also smiling like a flower, and the two people have been in love for a long time and do not hesitate to enter the marriage again.
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After the marriage of the two, it is very sweet and like glue, although Indah is only a tepid little director, but this does not affect the feelings of the two people. Song Dandan once wrote in his later autobiography: It is undeniable that in those 10 years of married life, although I was very tired, I was very happy!
The happy marriage brought good luck to Song Dandan. In 1989, Song Dandan had the honor of appearing on the Spring Festival Gala. With the rustic and funny Wei Shufen in the sketch "Lazy Man Blind Date", she suddenly made the national view remember "Song Dandan".
Immediately after the Spring Festival Gala in 1990, Song Dandan and Huang Hong collaborated on the classic sketch "Super Life Guerrilla", and since then Song Dandan has become a well-known comedy star in the country.
Song Dandan starred in "Super Life Guerrilla" when she was also a true actor, when she was pregnant with 6 A. In March of the same year, Song Dandan gave birth to his son Batu, and the arrival of the son made Yingda, who had never met Huaicai, very happy. At this time, although Yingda was the official director of Renyi, the response was naturally inferior to Song Dandan's fame.
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Until 1993, Yingda, together with his cousins Yingzhuang and Yingning, prepared the sitcom "I Love My Home". Yingda said to Yingzhuang: You come to be a screenwriter, right? Yingzhuang replied: How much to give? Indah back: 2000 blocks. Yingzhuang immediately agreed, he said: At that time, there was a shortage of money!
In this way, Yingning, who graduated from the act, was responsible for pulling sponsorship, and Yingzhuang, who graduated from the Physics Department of Peking University, was responsible for writing the script. Indara starred his wife Song Dandan.
Yingzhuang has publicly stated: "I Love My Home" is loved by the audience because of a good script. As a screenwriter, he is paid 2,000 yuan, 600 yuan for the director, and 700 yuan for the lead actor Song Dandan, which is enough to show the importance attached to the screenwriter!
After the release of "I Love My Home", it became the first hit drama that premiered and replayed the first in terms of ratings that year. Since then, Indah has embarked on the path of becoming a famous director. But with the surge of fame, his feelings also slipped away.
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Successful men like to brush up on the sense of existence, and in the daily frequent contact, Yingda and the screenwriter assistant Liang Huan, who is 8 years younger than him, have a secret affection. A large number of scandals rolled in, and Song Dandan couldn't help but question Yingda, and as a result, Yingda replied without hesitation: I did not cheat.
But with the snub of Yingda, Song Dandan became more and more depressed. She couldn't resist talking to someone and seeking comfort.
In the end, Song Dandan decided to divorce, and after getting the divorce certificate, Song Dandan was still not dead. She asked Indah: Divorced, give me the truth! Are you and Liang Huan really okay? And Yingda still did not dare to admit it, but Song Dandan inadvertently saw the pager he landed on the car, which was full of ambiguous text messages from Yingda and Liang Huan.
Soon after Yingda and Song Dandan divorced, they turned around and married Liang Huan. In Yingda's view, Liang Huan is the most suitable person for himself. Although the young Liang Huan is not beautiful, she is a talented woman at Peking University. Indah felt that they were soul-aligned.
Netizens have been complaining: I don't understand why Yingda cheated on the ugly Liang Huan, although Song Dandan is not beautiful, but he is much stronger than Liang Huan!
The 10-year marriage became a joke, and Song Dandan realized that he had become a burden that people were eager to get rid of. She wrote in her autobiography "The Depths of Happiness": Within a month of divorce, Yingda and Liang Huan were married.
After the third marriage, Yingda soon had a son Bayan (英如镝), and then had a younger daughter.
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It is said that the entanglement of parents' marriage and the discord of feelings should not affect the love for their children, but Indah is definitely an exception.
The youngest son, Yingrudi, became the "pearl in the palm" of Yingda. When the eldest son, Batuu, was ridiculed as a fatherless, Indah created the most extravagant childhood for Bayan.
When Yingrudi was 3 years old, Yingda did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to let him receive first-class piano training. Later, Bayan became interested in skating again, and Indah hired a coach for him, and he studied for several years.
In 2002, Beijing's monthly salary was only 1,700 yuan. Indah spent a huge amount of 30,000 yuan to train Yingrudi to undergo systematic ice hockey training. It also spent 10,000 yuan to add helmets, masks, skates, clubs and other equipment.
At that time, ice hockey belonged to the noble sport, and the annual training fee, participation fee, equipment, etc. added up, not less than 400,000. The host of the program inadvertently revealed that Indah directly built an ice rink for his young son to practice in order to facilitate his younger son's practice.
Under the huge expenditure, in order to realize his son's dream, Yingda, who has always been high, even went from hosting only a few programs in Beijing to hosting programs in other places and frequently going to the cave.
2007 North American Hockey Junior World Championships. Indah served as the team leader at his own expense, and together with the coach led the team through 108 teams, and finally won the championship. The 9-year-old Ying Rudi successfully won the MVP.
Excited, Yingda sent Yingrudi directly to Chicago, USA, to enjoy more high-end training. As he fought for the future of his younger son, Song Dandan was taking their youngest son through the most helpless and lost moments of his life.
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Batuu is only 8 years older than Yingrudi, but he has never enjoyed his father's love. When Indah discusses divorce with Song Dandan, he makes it clear that he does not want Batuu's custody.
Since Yingda had Yingru Dysprosium, it has completely disappeared in the world of Batu. Indah once said publicly on the show: My fate with Batuu's life is so long. Now I would like to be called Yingrudi's father, and I feel very honored.
When Yingda posted photos of her youngest son Yingrudi on social platforms, this behavior deeply stung Song Dandan. She scolded indignantly: False loving father, not human! For 14 years, he ignored Batuu.
Indah wouldn't even call his eldest son, and Batuu Jr. had asked to play with him, but was ruthlessly refused.