After the TV series "Female Psychologist" was launched, many cases resonated with the audience, such as Mo Yu, who blindly flattered in the workplace, and Zhan Lu, who was deeply depressed after giving birth to a second child.
The reason why these cases have attracted so much attention from the audience is because these people are all around us, and many postpartum mothers have experienced the embarrassment of Zhan Lu's "leakage of urine" after childbirth.
There are also many young people in the workplace like Mo Yu is difficult to say no to others, which eventually leads to serious psychological problems.
In the latest episode, what happened to Li Wei, a working woman, once again resonated with the audience.
In the socializing with customers, Li Wei was drunk by customers on the grounds of "drinking and signing a bill", but finally she was pulled into the toilet by the other party after getting drunk.
In reality, there are many such cases, as women's contributions in society are increasing, the ability of women and men in the workplace has been almost indistinguishable, and even the proportion of women in some industries has far exceeded that of men.
In many of the new types of startups, most women can exist as business pillars.
However, behind the continuous improvement of ability, many women are difficult to get rid of discrimination in the workplace, and will continue to encounter the "unspoken rules" of the workplace.
Situations like Li Wei in the play happen repeatedly, boys drink and talk about business, you can call customers brothers, but women drink and socialize to talk about business, but always make male customers feel evil.
Even after encountering violations, women always become the object of criticism, and critical remarks such as revealing clothing and not drinking constantly break down women's psychological defenses.
These groundless accusations against the victims can only make those who commit the victims more and more rampant.
I thought that this drama could be filmed here, but I didn't expect to shoot a deeper problem.
Li Wei said that her body reacted when she was violated, which became a reason for her self-criticism, she thought that she was essentially "mean", so she felt that she was dirty.
After being violated, Li Wei did not dare to tell anyone, nor did she dare to call the police, and she could not sleep all night, and she could take three or four baths a night, each time for half an hour.
This is a problem that too many victims will encounter, who will not only bear the harm of the perpetrator, but also bear the accusations and insults from all aspects of society, and even from their own criticism.
This question is also answered in "The Female Psychologist".
"When we are under pressure, our physical choices may be to escape, or to fight, but there is also a kind of zombie reaction. It's because fear makes the areas of the brain responsible for rational thinking not working properly. ”
Therefore, when Li Wei suffers from violations, she will be helpless and powerless to resist.
The physical response is because many times our subjective consciousness cannot control the physical response, but this does not mean that the victim himself is willing.
"You can feel sorry for being violated, but you don't have to blame yourself for it."
This is probably the warmest word Li Wei has heard after experiencing so many things, and it is also a sentence that countless victims want to hear.
This case made many viewers break the guard, because too many women in the workplace will feel empathy, and it is almost common for leaders or customers to drink and socialize.
Slightly good-looking girls will be "specially cared for" in the workplace, and even harassed by many male colleagues and leaders.
Once the performance is made, the beautiful girl will always be treated with colored glasses and become a person who wins by appearance.
Women seem to be anxious about what they do in the workplace, and there are also surveys that show that 91% of women have anxiety in the workplace.
The source of these anxieties is the unfairness and potential risks in the workplace.
Li Wei's case is not only to let everyone see the harm suffered by women in the workplace, but also to make everyone realize that the victim is not necessarily perfect, but the perpetrator must be guilty.
What we should call for should not only be for women to protect themselves, but also for men to learn not to hurt others.
I believe that many people are moved by Li Wei's events, in addition to the story itself, the actor's performance is also eye-catching, and the sense of substitution is very strong.
The actor who plays Li Wei is called Peng Gao Singing, who is a proper "beauty scholar".
Peng Gaocheng has studied piano, music theory and dance since he was a child, and has obtained good results in dance amateur level 6, piano amateur level 10, and music literacy amateur level 4.
Peng Gaoge's academic performance has been very good since he was a child, he has never taken the entrance examination, he has been escorted to school all the way, he has passed the fourth level of English in the first year of high school, and he has been guaranteed to major in Korean language at Peking University in his third year of high school, and he is a proper "child of other people's families".
Although Peng Gaocheng studied han Chinese culture and economics during college, her dream is to become an actress.
So in 2013, Peng Gaosheng participated in the recording of "One Stop to the End", and also participated in the "Miss Asia" beauty contest, and won the first place in the first round of online voting.
In this way, Peng Gao sang all the way into the show business circle, and successively filmed film and television works such as "The Decision Office of the Girl's Diary", "Reverse Sin", "The Great Collider" and so on.
It is difficult to chase dreams, especially for people like Peng Gaosheng who are not from the science class, it is even more difficult.
"My path from 'learning bully' to acting is actually not easy to walk."
Knowing that this road is not easy to follow, she still resolutely stepped into this industry and never wanted to give up.
Although she has not had a bright role in many years for her to be seen by the audience, she still does not regret her choice.
In "Female Psychologist", Peng Gao singing interprets Li Wei's helplessness and confusion, as well as inner anxiety, very well, which is the display of her tempering achievements over the years.
Perhaps the role of Li Wei will become a turning point in her acting career, or it may be just a small flashing moment on her dream road.
But I hope that whether it is Li Wei in the play or Peng Gao singing outside the play, they can applaud themselves.