Edit 丨 XVIII
Wen 丨 Old Man Fishing History
In 1985, a Henan boy stole the forbidden fruit after falling in love with his girlfriend, and the boy was sued by the woman's father for insulting the young girl and other charges.
This Henan guy said that his relationship with his girlfriend was voluntary, and he was 21 years old before the relationship was determined, and the woman was also 17 years old, so it did not constitute the responsibility of insulting the young girl.
So, who is lying?
One: The original family is not responsible.
In July 1985, Xiaolong, a young man from Dengzhou, Henan Province, who was already 21 years old at the time, went to a rural area called Ping County to collect beans. Their family is doing this kind of business, and Xiaolong inherited his father's business without going to college.
At this moment, a girl named Xiaohua walked into Xiaolong's sight. Boys talk humorously and girls look signifying. They always have endless topics to talk about, and they quickly develop a good feeling for each other. In August 1985, Xiaohua cried and found Xiaolong, saying that she could no longer stand her father.
It turned out that Xiaohua wanted to continue studying, but her family objected. Saying that the daughter will have to marry out sooner or later, it is better to go directly to Dengzhou to find a job to supplement the family. Therefore, Xiaohua and his father had a dispute.
Seeing the beloved goddess crying with tears, the little dragon's heart melted. He comforted Xiaohua that he could stay by his side for the time being, and it was not too late to go home when Xiaohua's father's temper had subsided.
Xiao Hua also agreed to Xiao Long's suggestion, and the two young people wanted to learn to love freely with other couples in order to catch up with the fashion. At that time, it was common for young people to go out skating and watch movies together.
Taking this opportunity, Xiaolong asked for 4 tickets for the party from his friends. Originally, he was going to call a couple to go to the party with them, so that at least it would not be too embarrassing. Unexpectedly, the other couple could not go to the appointment because of something, and the last to participate in the party was Only Xiaolong and Xiaohua.
Maybe it was because the show at the party was so good that the two forgot the time to go home. It dragged on until after nine o'clock that night, and they had not yet withdrawn from the lively atmosphere of the party.
After the meeting, Xiaolong took XiaoHua's hand and said that there was a river north of the city that was the coolest. Because it was summer, it was very comfortable to have the evening wind blowing. So the two young men walked toward the river, and the river was lined with rows of brown rice fields.
As he walked, Xiao Hua took the initiative to tell Xiao Long about the situation at home. Since she was a child, she has experienced the hardships of her original family, only because her father preferred sons to daughters and was unwilling to provide Xiaohua with continued schooling.
And at home, she can't do anything wrong, let alone say anything serious to her father. As long as there is a little bit that makes his father dissatisfied, Xiaohua will be beaten severely.
Xiaolong expressed great sympathy for Xiaohua's suffering, and when the love was strong, Xiaolong would also take the initiative to hold the beloved woman in his arms and touch the girl's hair and back with his hands to express comfort.
Two: Emotional sublimation after the relationship is determined.
The two shifted the topic to the aspect of Gu Qiuzai and love, and after talking more and more happily, the two determined the relationship between male and female friends. But I didn't think that the same night they ran to the bud rice field and had a relationship.
After finishing the matter, Xiaolong took Xiaohua and continued to walk near the train station. Because in that place, Xiaolong had a friend he knew who could let the two of them stay overnight for a while.
During the period, Xiaolong also asked Xiaohua many times: "You have been out for a few days, will the family be worried"? XiaoLong also said that he could send Xiaohua home that night, but when he thought that it was late, if he only went back at this time, his father would inevitably make another accusation against her.
Unwilling to go home, Xiao Hua followed Xiaolong on his way to the north ring beach, and his friend saw that their clothes were stained with mud and went out to buy them laundry detergent to wash their clothes. Taking this opportunity, the two had another relationship in a friend's rental house.
In the early hours of the morning, Neither Xiaolong nor Xiaohua fell asleep. They shook hands and agreed that on the second day when the sun rose, they would each go home to get the household registration book, and then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register the marriage.
Unexpectedly, on the 2nd day, on the way Xiaolong sent Xiaohua home, he just met the woman's sister again. Xiao Hua's sister dragged her sister away quickly, and her expression was also very serious. In this way, the lives of the two completely ushered in a turning point from this time of separation.
Three: The establishment of the crime of violating underage girls.
Around August 10, 1985, the dengzhou local public security informed Xiaolong that he had been accused by Xiaohua's father of assaulting a young girl.
During the interrogation, Xiaolong learned that the woman's father had provided corresponding evidence, saying that Xiaohua was under 14 years old when she had a relationship with Xiaolong.
Xiaolong expressed his grievances. Because before determining the relationship, he already knew that his girlfriend Xiaohua had a 17th birthday and was not so young. He also said that if he learned that Xiaohua was a child, he would never think about anything.
And in the process of getting along later between the two, Xiaolong's impression of Xiaohua is also a very plump girl, not at all like a young doll.
Could it be that the girlfriend lied to herself? Or is the future boss deliberately embarrassing him?
The clueless Xiaolong was temporarily detained by the public security organs, but from the beginning of August to the middle of September, Xiaohua had also been delivering food to Xiaolong, and verbally encouraged her boyfriend to persevere, and Xiaohua also said that she would wait for her boyfriend Xiaolong to return.
However, due to the evidence provided by the woman's parents, it was judged by the public security organs and the court to be true and valid, which also determined that Xiaohua was born in August 1972. In 1985, Xiaohua was less than 14 years old.
Therefore, after Xiaolong was indicted, the presiding judge of the court agreed with the evidence provided by the plaintiff, and finally Xiaolong was convicted of rape and imprisoned for 9 years.
But what makes the Xiaolong family most unbelievable is that in addition to the woman's father repeatedly emphasizing that Xiaolong has the crime of forcing the young girl, the woman's father also outlined the entire process of Xiaolong forcing his daughter in great detail for the chief judge and the local police.
He said: It happened on the night of August 19, 1985. Because Xiao Hua, who had some conflicts with his family, encountered the social gangster Xiaolong when he was hanging out. Originally, Xiaohua was wandering at the door of the party, probably because the atmosphere was too lively, causing Xiaolong to strengthen the heart of the thief.
Then it was said: It was Xiao long who stepped on Xiao Hua first and then saw that there was no one around the girl, so he took Xiao Hua's hand and took the opportunity to rub the oil. Then, Xiaolong forcibly dragged Xiaohua to the cornfield around the north of the ring to carry out the compulsive behavior. During this period, Xiaohua struggled to resist, but in the face of Xiaolong's violence and the disparity in strength between men and women, Xiaohua lost her virginity.
The presiding judge found that the evidence provided by the plaintiff was sufficient, and he actually imposed a heavier punishment on Xiaolong's crime. At that time, Xiaolong's parents were extremely nervous and repeatedly knelt down to Xiaohua's father. Saying that children are still young can't just be ruined like this...
Unexpectedly, the other party's attitude was hard, perhaps the two sides talked about this matter in private but did not reach an agreement, and finally Xiaohua's father condemned Xiaolong's shamelessness even more in the court.
Four: It is difficult to let go of the past.
Xiaolong, who was sentenced to 9 years in prison, has always performed well in prison, and even sometimes saved raw materials for the prison while doing hard work, and his sentence was reduced by the prison authorities. In October 1992, the dragon regained its freedom.
During that time in prison, Xiaolong also saw a lot of things. For example, his former girlfriend Xiaohua never came to bring him food again, and he thought that he would never see the girl again in the future.
And Xiaolong's own family is not willing to run for his son's innocence, so no one complains to Xiaolong. Only Xiaolong himself in prison has tried again and again to take up the weapon of the law to defend his dignity and reputation, but unfortunately his application has been rejected again and again.
But Xiaolong did not bow his head in front of reality, and since he was paroled in October 1992, he has embarked on a path to regain his innocence.
At first, Xiaolong's parents stressed that Xiaolong was over 30 years old after his release from prison and should think about finding a stable job, or just starting a family to have children, at least not to make his life worse and worse.
But Xiao Long was not reconciled, and he had been inquiring about Xiao Hua's whereabouts. It wasn't until 2008 that he got a clue that Xiaohua had married someone else and had a son.
Xiao Long found the family, but learned that Xiao Hua had already left, and no one knew where Xiao Hua went behind. It turned out that in 1985, after Xiaolong was sent to prison, Xiaohua's life was not good.
In addition to scolding and insulting Xiaohua, her father also gave his daughter a death order to marry her to another family he favored, and determined the dowry money.
Xiaohua was thus arranged by her parents to marry a strange man she did not know. Although the other party is more mature and stable than Xiaohua, there are also deposits, and the life is not too bad, and the two later gave birth to a son.
But unfortunately, Xiaohua has her own ideas, she yearns for free love, and her heart can't let go of her ex-boyfriend Xiaolong. So Xiaohua left her in-laws soon after, but until 2009, people did not succeed in finding the girl. Even whether Xiaohua was alive or dead, no one dared to guarantee it.
Then the question arises, Xiaolong scolds Xiaohua's in-laws: Since in 1985 the woman's father repeatedly emphasized that Xiaohua was less than 14 years old, how did he turn around and arrange his daughter's affair? This is not common sense.
Immediately after, Xiaolong went to the local police station in Xiaohua's hometown for help. Because the data at that time had been slowly counted in the computer, the police also cooperated to help Xiaolong find Xiaohua's household registration information, confirming that Xiaohua was born in 1968.
Then, Xiaohua was over 17 years old in 1985, and the relationship was a voluntary act of both parties, which shows that Xiaolong did not have the possibility of forcing and insulting young girls.
Unfortunately, XiaoLong even took the evidence and found the judge who tried the case at that time. But the other party said that this matter has been too long, plus he has retired, want to live a peaceful old age and do not want to mix with other people's affairs, he sent the little dragon away.
Xiaolong also found Xiaohua's father with a copy of the population information, but the other party not only did not apologize, but emphasized that Xiaolong was a bastard who could not even feed himself, and could only live by collecting agricultural products outside, how could he afford to raise his daughter? Don't let the toads want to eat swan meat.
At this moment, Xiaolong's parents also advised him to give up. Because too much time has passed, no one will care about the truth of this case. It is better to take your heart back and build your own family well. Maybe it was his parents' words that Xiaolong really listened to, and later he also established a family and had children, but this past became the only regret in Xiaolong's heart.
Five: Looking directly at regret is respecting yourself.
In 2013, Xiaolong was busy again.
He entrusted Mr. Deng Zhongkai of a law firm in Guangdong to re-investigate the case, although Mr. Deng also supplemented witness testimony and village committee testimony... Unfortunately, none of this can be used as direct evidence in court.
It also lists loopholes that had many discrepancies in the trial of the case, but the documents and data did not wait for an answer that satisfied Xiaolong from the Henan Provincial High People's Court.
The other party just said: If Xiaolong still wants to appeal again, then it can only follow the normal feedback channels, and reflect upwards at the first level. It takes a long time in between, and it takes the little dragon to wait patiently.
By the end of October 2021, Xiaolong had passed the age of 57. But he was only 21 years old at the time of the crime, and the case was 36 years ago.
Did he really do something wrong when he had a relationship with his girlfriend? Or who is at fault in this case?