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A 19-year-old male security guard in the United Kingdom revealed on a social networking app that he had been sexually assaulted by female customers countless times while at work. Countless women grabbed his ass and genitals without his consent, and some female customers tried to take off his clothes.
Charlie Jer
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The 19-year-old young man is named Charlie Jer, he is a school student, Gyŏr's lifelong dream is to own a car of his own, but his family is poor, his parents do not have extra savings to help him realize this dream, the sensible Jer has understood the principle of self-reliance since childhood, so whenever the school holidays, he will do his best to go outside to do a part-time job.
After this holiday, Jer learned from a friend that a night-time business was recruiting security guards and the salary was still high, and Jer thought that this was a chance for God to give him a dream, so he secretly went to interview for the job when his parents were not at home.
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At this time, although Jer was not very old, his figure was quite well-proportioned because of his regular exercise. The owner of the shop is a woman who still has charm, when Jer went to the interview, the boss also used the special needs of the job as an excuse to let Jell show his figure, at this time Jer did not understand the boss's meaning, he thought that since he was a security guard, he must need a burly man.
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So Jer showed her his figure according to the boss's wishes, showing that he was capable of the job, and the boss was very satisfied after seeing it, and let Jer come to work on the third day.
After Jer was successfully admitted, he excitedly went to a friend to share the matter, but when the friend heard that Jer was going to work as a security guard in that kind of place, his face changed suddenly.
More than once he was advising Jer not to go, because the place was too chaotic, the female customers who went there were very open, and there were "wolves with more meat and less meat", and small fresh meat like Jer standing at the door would surely become the prey of many female customers.
However, Jer did not think much of his friend's advice, he thought that it was not a big deal to be a security guard, and he said that he was just standing in the doorway, which should not hurt the pond fish. And the salary there is very high, and you will soon be able to save enough money to realize your dreams.
Thinking of this, Jer was even more determined to become a security guard. When his friend saw that Jer had to go, he did not persuade him again.
On the third day, Jer arrived as promised, changed into overalls at the store, and stood at the entrance of the store as a security guard. Along with him was an elder brother who saw that Jell had come to work as a security guard at a young age, so he asked Jer why he had come here in his spare time, and Jer did not hide and told his dream.
But the old brother, like his friends, advised him not to be here, and would bring him badly, but Jer still did not listen to the advice and still stuck to his post.
First experience
Late at night, the lights at the door of the store were shining, and Jer was still standing at her post, when a group of women passed by Jer, and when she was about to enter the store, a woman suddenly turned back to Gyër, but she did not speak, just stared at Jal's face for two seconds before turning her head and walking into the store.
At this time, Jer did not think too much, still concentrating on work, but the elder brother next to him looked at Jer meaningfully.
After a while, a scantily clad woman came out of the doorway, and she went straight to the old brother, the two of them talked happily, and even hugged each other, and kissed me in front of Jer, and Jer couldn't bear to look at me when he saw it, and turned his head and turned around.
After the woman left, the elder brother next to him said to Jer that this kind of thing is very common here, but as a staff member, you must stick to your heart and not be lost by the peach color, not to mention the small fresh meat of Jer, let alone go astray.
The elder brother meaningfully advised Jer not to work here, but after thinking about it for a while, Jer still felt that he still had to stick to it for his dreams, although he would be dangerous here, but Jer said that he could stick to it.
Seeing that Jer still wanted to persevere, the elder brother did not say anything more, patted Jele's shoulder and stood back at his post.
After some time, the woman who had been staring at Jer came out of the shop, and it was clear that she had drunk a lot of wine, but she was still conscious.
The woman walked slowly to Gyal, with a slightly feminine expression trying to touch Gyal's face, but Jer grabbed the woman's hand and politely rejected her.
However, the woman did not let go of Jer so easily, stretched out her other hand to continue to touch, this time Jer could not bear it, directly pushed the woman away, and also warned her loudly. But the woman just smiled contemptuously and turned her head and walked into the store.
After the woman left, Jer stood there expressionless, probably disgusted with this kind of woman in his heart, but he did not show it. The old man next to him walked up to Jer again, gave him a thumbs up, and said
"Although the woman is not particularly beautiful, but also delicate, you can resist the temptation is very good, I hope you can continue to maintain, do not fall into the abyss"
Jer was still expressionless when he heard this, although this was the first time he had encountered this kind of thing, he would stick to his heart and would not pull down the abyss of these women.
At this time, Jer was still naïve to think that this kind of thing would not be too common, but when he worked here for a long time, what happened to him here immediately refreshed his three views.
When Jer was about to leave work, the female customer who had wanted to touch Jer's face came out again, but this time not by herself, but with her friends, and it seemed that she was leaving.
However, the female customer seemed to have drunk too much, and her walk was crooked, and Jer, out of gentleman's courtesy, stepped forward to support her, but Jer was still too young and inexperienced in society, and when he went to help the woman, the woman showed a conspiratorial smile, and she took advantage of the situation to pounce directly on Jer's body.
At this time, Jer also realized that he was caught in the trap and immediately pushed the woman to her friends. However, after being rejected by Jer, the woman did not have the intention of repenting, but instead intensified her desire to hold Jer, fortunately, Jer was strong and strong, and pushed the woman away again, this time the woman finally walked to the side with interest, and Jer saw that she was very gentlemanly and apologized to the woman.
At the end of the day, Győr returned home. Thinking about what happened today, Jer felt a headache, but he turned his head to see the model car on the table, he still gritted his teeth and decided to stick to it, as long as his heart was firm enough, he would definitely be able to shield these "demons" from the side.
Strong will
The next day, Jer changed into his overalls again and came to the store, and the old brother saw that Jer was coming again, and his face showed a very surprised expression, he thought that Jer would retreat, but he did not expect that his will was so strong.
Jer did not care about the expression of the elder brother, and still stuck to his post.
Time passed like this for a long time, and Jell was often harassed by female customers because of his handsome face, but Jer was determined and never gave in.
On several occasions, the flames of anger had been lit up in Jer's heart, but he resisted for the sake of his work. However, these things that Jer suffered are already legally sexual assaults. But because of his work, he did not publish it before.
Under the interview of American media reporters, Gyŏr made all these things public.
"A lot of men and women have been sexually assaulted while working at the door of a venue that is open at night, and I wouldn't have thought that would have been mentioned at all," Jell said. ”
Recently, Jer began to share his experience on social software, and the video has been viewed more than 1 million times.
In Jer's year-long experience as a security guard, he encountered too many of these things. At first, Jer thought it was just occasional, but he didn't expect it to happen so often.
Once Jer was at work normally, the business in the store was still as hot as usual, and among the female customers who came and went, there were always a few who would look at Jer consciously or unconsciously, and Jer had long been numb to these eyes, he did not care too much, and still did his job.
At two o'clock in the morning, although Jer was a little tired, the noise in the store still made him full of energy. Just as Jer was earnestly standing guard, four or five young female customers came out of the store, each of them very charmingly dressed and very open,But Jer didn't pay much attention to it, because he had seen too many scenes.
Two of the female customers were already drunk, and as they passed by Jyer, they suddenly stopped, and one of the female customers carefully examined Gyal's figure and asked him for contact information.
However, how could Jer not know her intentions, and politely rejected her after taking a step back, but the female customer not only did not give up, but went forward to continue to ask for Jer, and without the slightest shame, reached out to Gyal and touched her, Jer immediately became angry when he saw her, and pushed her away while rejecting her. After the female customer was pushed away, she seemed to wake up a lot, did not continue to tangle with Jer, turned her head and left.
But what Jer didn't expect was that the matter was far from over.
Just a week after this happened, the woman came here again with a group of friends, but Jer did not let her go easily, and Jer told her righteously
"Because you seemed to have sexually assaulted me last time, you can't go in."
Not only did the woman not have the slightest remorse, but she was also theorizing with Jer like a shrew, and this scene made the staff of the store rush over to see what was going on, and after learning what had happened, drove the woman away.
These things are just a daily routine in Jer's work, and Jer does not take it to heart, and during the time of his work, countless female customers try to violate Jer, but they are stopped by Jer one by one.
Jer said that there have been countless times in this situation, and these are not too much, and there are many more excessive things. There are even female customers who are simply shameless and deliberately touch Jele's ass and genitals when Jal is not paying attention. Sometimes Jer would be touched a dozen times by female customers in one night.
Once, when Jyr was standing guard as usual, a female customer who came to the door of the store alone came up and began to scratch her head at Jer, and when Jal was not ready, her hand was already on Gyal's body, and Jer immediately pushed her aside, but the female customer just smiled and walked into the store.
But the matter is not over, after about two hours, the female customer came out of the store with a glass of wine, this time after Jer saw her out, he already had a defense, deliberately away from her, but the female customer did not let go of his meaning, took the wine glass straight towards Jer.
Because of the work, Jere can't run around casually, otherwise he will be fined after being discovered by the leader, and Jeel can only push her aside when he waits for the female customer to stretch out his claws.
But who knows that this female customer in order to infringe on Jer unscrupulously, when close to Jell, pretend to fall, but in fact deliberately spilled the wine in the cup on Jer's body, and deliberately went to help him wipe his clothes, but Jer has long seen such a thing, he still pushed the female customer aside, and was born to warn the female customer, and the next time he Jele will throw her out.
The female customer saw that her plot had not succeeded, and could only leave in sorrow. At this time, Jer also showed a disgusted expression, and even the voiceover's brother could not look at it anymore.
But the female customer was still not dead hearted, and after a few hours, the female customer walked out of the store drunk, and this time she simply did not have to plan, and directly reached out and touched Jell's body.
Jele looked at the female customer's eyes full of disgust at this time, and when she entangled with Jele, the brother next to her really couldn't look at it anymore and reached out to help pull the female customer aside.
Together, the two kicked the female customer out, but as she was kicked out, she turned back and complained contemptuously
"Who cares about sexual assault?"
Self-disclosure causes
The reason Jer said these things was simply to let more people know about them, but he said he didn't feel like a victim.
Because when Gyal was violated, he could basically control the situation, and Győr added
"If a woman grabs me and I feel strong enough to push her away from me, it makes me feel less like a victim."
Although Jer said this, he was still very repulsive to being sexually assaulted, and many women who tried to cheat on him were still very shameless, and after being pushed aside by Jer, they did not have any intention of repentance, and sometimes they would become more serious.
But Jyer still likes the job of security guard, Jer said
"It's a very constructive job and I really enjoy it. It's just that occasionally there are things that make the job harder. At the end of the day, the duty of a security guard is to help people. My aim is to make sure people can safely walk up to me for help. ”
As soon as The video on Jieer's social software was sent, it immediately received the attention of netizens, and the comments of many netizens were very positive, but there were also a small number of netizens who did not support Jieer's approach, and even some netizens said
"It's not sexual assault because Gyal is male."
epilogue
However, mainland law has serious provisions on the issue of sexual assault and harassment.
Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as it is against their own will, others harass them with words, words, images, physical behavior, etc., the victim has the right to request the perpetrator to bear the corresponding legal responsibility in accordance with the law.
Whether it is a man or a woman, when going out, you must focus on your own safety, and you must know how to use the law to protect yourself.
While ensuring their own safety, women should also clean themselves up and not engage in disgraceful behavior.
Although these things that Jer experienced did not happen on the mainland, we must also take this as a warning, especially women going out alone will be more dangerous than men, so we must take protective measures when going out, even if we call for help when we are hurt, the people's police are always escorting us. Justice may be late, but it will never be absent.